I care about him very much, but I have to pretend that I don t care about him in front of him, what

Updated on parenting 2024-06-03
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love is mutual, and it is necessary to give to each other in order to be reciprocated.

    He treats you so warmly, but you treat you coldly, will he feel better?

    Everything has to be from the other person's point of view, if you were him, how would you feel? Why do you torture him when you love him?

    Besides, aren't you tired of pretending to be like this?

    What a happy and sweet thing it is to fall in love, you always enjoy his love like this, maybe you are also very happy, but can you enjoy the happy feeling of loving and caring for him? There is a person who always makes you miss in your heart, so that you can give wholeheartedly, which is also the happiest thing!

    So, tell yourself that you must stop pretending, don't worry about anything, love must be invested, no regrets, no scruples, when you give calmly, you will feel the taste of the most perfect love

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's like it's a natural reaction of the mind, huh.

    One of the 36 plans is called: want to capture the old and indulge. That seems to mean it.

    Since both of them love each other, what can't be solved?

    It's better to show it as soon as possible, it's not easy to delay it for too long. Don't have any scruples, don't feel embarrassed, tear down the wall in your heart, hehe, to be exact, it should be a layer of paper, knock it down, break it, two people can breathe together, see each other's true hearts together, really hold each other's hands, feel each other's temperature, feel each other's love, and bathe in each other's sunny eyes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give him a chance, you can't always be a man who takes the initiative to the end, but also show your gentleness at the right time, so that he will see you comprehensively.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're afraid of losing him! I also used to treat the person I love like this, not expressing myself, pretending not to care, but my heart is hot, and I love to death, I am afraid that he will not cherish me after seeing it, after all, men have to choose and love themselves, and not getting the best is always applicable to men's attitude towards feelings! If you can do it in a measured way, your relationship will have a longer shelf life!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is your fault, after a long time, it will make him really feel that you don't care about him, think about it, and change yourself more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why should a woman be so hypocritical, you love him, he loves you like glue, your hypocrisy will make him not feel your love for him, he may feel that he has no return as long as he pays, very tired!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You shouldn't go on like this, otherwise he will always think that you really don't care about him, and he may die soon, so you should show it, but don't go too far, because men are also cheap, the more you treat him too well, but he doesn't appreciate it, as long as you point to this, let him feel that you are good to him, and you love her. Beware of being snatched away by others, and show your love for him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You shouldn't be like that, you should be proactive, or you're going to miss out.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    I know I can't, but I want to like you, many people are like this! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel that you are very ridiculous, a little silly, and even feel very naïve!

    So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, give up and give yourself a glass of cold water, douse the fire in the heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant wildly.

    It's all right! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty!

    Meteors are beautiful, but do you know that any star has its beautiful side, but you haven't found it, as long as you use your heart to find it, a lot of beauty is no worse than your current one! Well, that's it, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people, I hope you get your own happiness! ~

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because he has been injured, he will be friends if he does not cheat; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

    Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

    What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what your stool tribe really engraves in their hearts.

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For those who don't love themselves, what they need most is to understand the disadvantages of dates, give up and bless. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

    Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not that I don't care, it's just that I can't stop, there is a process for quitting smoking, it's not that you can quit if you quit, he's in control is a good start, why not be too anxious to fry each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That's right. I studied health management. This kind of person is a stubborn person.

    Such a person would rather he die. He was also reluctant to quit smoking. He was told to quit smoking.

    He said he would quit when I was dead. Therefore such a person will not repent when he dies. That's why I want him to quit smoking.

    Don't even think about it. You just don't choose him. Nor can he be asked to quit smoking.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Extremely selfish man.

    At the very least, you need to know what to do and when.

    Wait for it in the future, and there will be more difficult days.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The easiest thing is to care for him from your daily life, mention him often in front of your friends, and let him know that you are happy with him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You look at his personality, maybe he needs you to be more enthusiastic about him, of course, if you really love someone, just ask him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Sometimes I follow him, and occasionally sprinkle a little coquettish, and I make a fuss.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Try to communicate with him with an open heart It's not so difficult to fall in love You have to cherish it Tell him that you can't live without him List his benefits Talk about the reasons you can't live without him Let's talk about the unforgettable memories you two have together Just be coquettish It's good to be pious I wish you to find the happiness you deserve as soon as possible

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I wanted to cry, but I was still laughing.

    I obviously care, but I pretend I don't care.

    I really wanted to stay, but I firmly said that I wanted to leave.

    It's obviously painful, but he says that he is very happy.

    I can't forget it, but I say I've forgotten it.

    obviously can't let go, but he says that he is him and I am me.

    I was reluctant, but I said I had had enough.

    is clearly saying a lie against his will, but he says that it is his true words.

    Tears were about to overflow his eyes, but his head was held high.

    It's irretrievable, but it's still persistent.

    I know I'm hurt, but you don't have to feel like you owe me.

    It's very tiring to pretend to be like this, but you still have to ......

    In order to hide his vulnerability, even if he is sad, he will pretend that he doesn't care, but he doesn't want others to see his wounds, he doesn't want the people around him to be heartbroken, he doesn't want others to sympathize with him, he just wants to bear it alone in his heart, although he is distressed and difficult to breathe, he smiles and tells everyone "I'm fine!" Then when he calmed down, he laughed at himself, why should he pretend to be so strong? It seems that I can bear all the sufferings...Hehe, it's so tiring....I'm so tired .........Even if it's a disguise, even if it's tired, just to keep the tears that have accumulated in the eyes from falling.

    It was the coldness that was hidden in my eyes, and when it was warm, it would surge and break away the embankment I had built for a long time...

    For this reason alone, it is sufficient.

    Pretend to be strong, just to not let the fragile take advantage of it, just to be able to walk alone at night and not be afraid....Heh, it's not so easy to tear the smile off your lips. There will be a voice behind your strength: tired or not? But there is no way back.

    A person's night is the most real, right?!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If he is a boy, I just want to say that a boy has a boy's way of love, he may always pretend to be careless because of his face, because he will blush when he says it, in fact, his heart is the same as the Chinese little master eating vegetables, as long as you tease it a little, he will pounce like a dog, but the premise is that you are sure that he loves and cares.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Is this necessary? Over time, the relationship will fade.

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