What are some of your life insights to share?

A lot of troubles in life come from comparing yourself to others. Seeing others succeed while we hover on the line of survival without achieving anything makes everyone feel anxious. However, you are just an ordinary person who has just graduated, not Zuckerberg, let alone Bill Gates.

So, don't try to compete with people who have been in the mix for five or six years and push yourself to be as successful as they are.

The most important thing for people is to be able to recognize themselves and understand their own strengths. In fact, we are not worse than others, but we lack time and patience for the time being.

In our early twenties, we all had a very anxious period. At that time, we had many simple dreams, hoping that one day we would become the protagonist of the story and ascend to the sky. But in the end, he was often beaten up by reality. <>

Everything in this world needs a process, and when you are confused, you might as well move forward step by step slowly.

Whenever I am confused, I always think of my cousin's words: "You can be confused, but don't worry, give yourself a little more time to brew, and luck will come faster."

Many times, when things don't go our way, it's easy to get anxious and get out of proportion. Speculation about the unknown can amplify your anxiety. So, don't be so anxious when you encounter problems, give yourself some time to think, and leave some room to "brew luck".

We often envy other people's luck, but you don't know that it is the light that someone else has been brewing for a long time.

You envy others for their rich knowledge, but you don't know that when you go on a date after work, others sit under the lamp and think and study quietly; You envy others for their good health, but you don't know that when you are addicted to variety shows chasing stars, others are exercising in the gym; You envy other people's big business, but you don't know that when you are addicted to online games, others are working silently on the business road of Internet +.

You envy the beauty of others, but you don't know how much they have paid behind their backs, and you stupidly attribute it all to their good luck. But there is no natural luck in this world, it is just the accumulation of past efforts.

When you work hard to a certain extent, luck will meet you unexpectedly.

Some people say that life is a wall that cannot be crossed, and some people say that life is a rope, which brings a lot of entanglements to people:

Some people say that life is a book, everyone writes a different life trajectory in the book, and some people say that life is not simple, but it can be transformed from not simple to simple.

What you can't tell is people; It's still people who can't figure it out. Perhaps, life is like this. <> there are too many unsatisfactory things in life, suffering from gains and losses, getting the fear of "not being able to afford it", and feeling "unable to afford to hurt" when they lose it.

Life in the world is nothing more than thinking through the things that can't be figured out, passing the hurdles that must be overcome, and letting go of the problems that can't be solved.

But many things are not something that can be let go if you want to, and you can give up if you want to give up.

Life is a lot of things that you can't accept, but you have to accept it.

Life is a lot of things you don't understand, but you have to understand.

In life, sometimes there is no reason at all, knowing that it is wrong, but always persevering;

It's clear that it's not good, but it's always guarded.

obviously tried his best, but it disappeared in the blink of an eye, making people cry and laugh;

is obviously doing his best, but life is blind, which makes people bitter and unbearable;

obviously belongs to himself, but in an instant, things are wrong, which makes people want to cry without tears.

Life doesn't need too much explanation, too much entanglement, too much reluctance.

I don't know how to fish, but I love to watch it. I love to see the calm expression, serious appearance, joy of harvest, and persistent belief of the fisherman.

My family lives on Changbai Island in Shenyang, and there is an island moat on the island, and there are many anglers along the river. Sometimes, when I was depressed, I went to the river to watch fishing.

One day, the forecast said that there would be rain, so I went out for a walk with my umbrella, and unconsciously walked to the Hunhe River to watch fishing. The weather forecast is quite accurate, and suddenly the sky is raining heavily, and the rain is tight and the wind is urgent.

But as far as the eye can see, there is a large number of fishermen, and none of them look panicked.

They put on their ponchos one after another and continued calmly. This look infected me all of a sudden, what kind of old state belief is this? Finger gestures.

Unexpectedly, I also held an umbrella, like them in the wind and rain, obsessively joy, sorrow, sorrow and horror for the fishing hook.

Suddenly, a strong wind blew my umbrella over, then violently into the river, and then violently made a triple jump until it reached the middle of the river. The uncle became a soup chicken in an instant, and he sneezed and sneezed ......

Although the umbrella ran away and fell in the rain, I got a life insight: "Only by focusing on one thing can we get harvest and happiness".

<> "Those Perceptions in Life.

If someone is willing to give you a beautiful name, you will accept it, why bother to investigate the truth, to put it bluntly, ** what is there to say.

Yishu "Open to Tuli".

What we call the road is nothing more than hesitation.

Kafka. When I met you, I felt how much I adapted to the world.

Haruki Murakami. The biggest disadvantage of procrastination is not delay, but that it will make you hesitate and even lose confidence. Whatever you decide, you do it right away, which in itself can make people energetic and maintain a sense of initiative and happiness.

Shi Tiesheng. In addition to the days, we still have ** can live in Liangyan? Ah, in order to solve this problem, the priests and doctors came, dressed in their long coats, and ran in the fields.

Philip Larkin, "The Days".

The ship of life, the sail that cannot be without setbacks, failure makes me fall, strength makes me get up, and life makes me feel. I feel setbacks, and setbacks make me grow.

A setback is a small misfortune in life. Life is not a splendid and colorful sunrise, it is a web woven by the silk threads of pain, suffering, happiness and joy. Balzac said

Misfortune is the step of genius, the water of baptism of believers, the priceless treasure of the capable, and the bottomless abyss of the weak. "When we encounter setbacks, are we discouraged? Or are you motivated?

I prefer the latter, because life has taught me that crying and lamenting will only make me fall more and hurt more. As a result, I learned to cope with the ordeal by "gritting my teeth and getting up when I fall, and smiling and wiping it off when I bleed."

The life I feel is to think simple every day, not to be painful in everything, not to be entangled, to work hard every day to earn money to support the family, to be happy, to live a healthy life, in fact, is the greatest happiness!

1. People who can really appreciate you will always appreciate your pride, not your pretending to be humble and pretending to be likable. - Jiang Fangzhou.

2. This world seems to be noisy all around, with all kinds of people and so on, all under the mud and sand. In essence, it's your own world. If you are clear, the world is clean; If you are simple, the world is not complicated; If you don't go to the world, there will be no ambiguity in the world; If you don't push and push, the world won't be half black and half white for you.

Mader. 3. The smartest way to deal with the world is to not only turn a blank eye on the world, but also go along with it. - Ryunosuke Akutagawa.

4. Never envy someone else's life, even if that person seems happy and rich; Never judge someone else's happiness, even if that person seems lonely and helpless. Happiness is like drinking water, knowing warmth and coldness. You are not me, how do you know the road I have walked, the joys and pains in my heart.