My boyfriend had a problem, he loved me so much that he asked me to leave him

Updated on psychology 2024-06-22
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It seems that his psychology has taken a hit, if you still want to be with him. It is recommended to communicate with him more and say that this is nothing and can be cured. In a situation like this, taking medicine is not very effective, mainly because of his psychology, if he does not have a psychological burden, he will get better soon.

    Of course, this is also inseparable from your support and understanding, you have to keep cheering him up and solve this problem together. If you help him with your hand and let him react, you stop, pause for a while, repeat, stop again. Repeat ......The effect is very good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    He loves you very much, so do you love him?

    Do you love him and are you willing to leave?

    What about such a simple question?

    I'll help him solve it with early ejaculation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Understandable. Men themselves are face-loving. This kind of thing is very embarrassing in front of his girlfriend.

    And it can also affect later in life. You yourself feel that if sex becomes a routine in the future! What will your life look like?

    I think there are only a few.

    1. You feel like a doll, you'd better leave him.

    2. Your boyfriend thinks that this is very unfair to you, so go to someone else or find a "miss".

    But it's better to break up, you should go to your boyfriend. Ask him if he loves you very much. If so, it's best to get the disease cured. If not, let's divide it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Go and try it, but don't mess with it, it's getting worse and worse, and it's going to be troublesome.

    Encourage him more In this case, men lack self-confidence.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you can bear it, just keep going and give him confidence.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Go** Needless to say.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. My boyfriend always loves to say that I will leave him, what should I do.

    I asked, he said that he is very poor, he always fools me about something, we have been together for less than a month, you always like to say this, will he break up with me.

    It shows that you are in the driver's seat in the relationship. He is afraid that he is not good and you will leave him. You don't have to worry about him breaking up with you.

    So why does he always like to say this, does men like freshness, does he want to find another one, why won't he leave me.

    Because he feels that the conditions of the two of you are not equal, and you will suffer more with you, so he will say such things.

    What can I do if he always likes to say this, every time he keeps saying this, I think he doesn't love me anymore, wants me to get out, and says that it's a transition period.

    He kept saying that you would leave him because he had some low self-esteem and felt that he would choose to leave him if he had no money.

    Seriously, I'm a little annoyed when I say this, and I told him that I will never leave him, and he still doesn't believe it, anyway, he doesn't believe what he says to me, what should I do.

    The foundation of a relationship is trust, why can he not believe anything you say?What is his personality, can you talk about it?

    Children have a temper and are more dependent on me, and I have to go home when I go out to play.

    Did he have any other relationship experiences before, and did you know about them?

    Yes, I don't want to ask too much about the past, it's all in the past.

    I think it's important to figure out why he's saying that all the time, emphasizing that you're going to leave him. In my opinion, this is a manifestation of low self-esteem, feeling that it is not good to feel that you have no money, and sooner or later you will leave him. Because people will always be more and more realistic.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Now men and women are actually more concerned about falling in love than about material conditions, but about spiritual care, or it can be called "sense of security", so two people can get this feeling in their relationship in order to accompany each other, and then in the process of falling in loveIf I find that my boyfriend loves me more and doesn't care about me so much, then I think I can choose to leave, start a new life on my own, and meet a more suitable person.

    In fact, many people say that "it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage", but in my opinion, other people's ideas cannot be imposed on themselves, after all, only they have been with each other, and they know what it is like for the other party not to love themselves, what it is like to fall in love with themselves, and the bits and pieces in this process are not something that others can experience, so other people's ideas can only be used as a reference, and cannot make decisions for themselves, since you yourself have begun to mind the fact that "your boyfriend loves you more than me", then you can't continue to get alongEven if you try, the final result will still be separated, after all, in your eyes, this is a very good thing, just let yourself go and let him go.

    In addition, in addition to a certain change in his own heart, he may also imitate the other party's style, maybe he didn't mean to, he can only say that he doesn't love you enough, or just follow people's instincts, after all, people are born to love themselves the most, you have no blood relationship with each other, just because the feelings are together, then you don't need to ask the other party to be good to you,Many times, if you take the initiative to ask for it, the relationship will deteriorate, so there is no need for you to stalemate with the other party.

    In the end, this situation is actually more common, and you don't have to feel sad or dissatisfied, it can only mean that the other party really doesn't like you that much, soThe best way is to choose to leave him and start a new life of your own, don't feel that you have nostalgia and reluctance, if you continue like this, the only remaining beauty of both sides will be consumed, it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The first point is to see who you like, you should have a correct choice and decision, the second point, if the other party loves yourself very much, see if the other party is very sincere to see which one is more sincere, the third point, you should consider the boyfriend you met, which does not meet the ideals you want, and then choose whether to leave.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's time to leave, such men are very selfish, they only love themselves, they can't give us enough care and understanding, we will feel cold with them, so let's leave.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    must choose to leave, the other party will not take into account his feelings at all, and with such a person, he is relatively selfish and will not bring happiness to himself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Everyone should love themselves, love themselves first and then others, but self-love is not selfishness, if you meet a boyfriend who loves himself more or even loves him to the point of selfishness, regardless of the feelings of others, then you should leave him. But if he just loves himself, he will consider your feelings and he loves you too, then you should not leave him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think I should leave, because such a man doesn't really love you at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Generally, when a man mentions breaking up, he really wants to break up and make himself better, and that man will climb back by himself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's useless if people are not in the heart, what you want is always the heart, so don't use time to suffer, but love yourself well, improve yourself, keep in touch with the person you like, if he is destined to be yours, it will be really yours to get married in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There's nothing that time can't change, and if there is, it's that it's not long enough. Don't put your love too humble, if you want to break up, you need to know why the two of you broke up, if you really like it and like it very much, then prescribe the right medicine, find the reason first, and find a way to keep it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You have lost yourself and brought him endless pressure, so he is leaving you! In this world, whoever leaves can live!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'll recommend you an emotional analyst, and he's the one who helped me get it back.

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