Not very good at talking

I don't like to talk and I'm not good at expressing myself. The personality is a bit introverted, but there is nothing wrong with it. You can compensate for being introverted by cultivating your own unique personality charm. For example, he always has a smile on his face, elegant manners, and a humorous way of speaking.

Talk to strangers. Try to communicate with people as much as possible. Start by saying hello to make people feel that you are not an indifferent person.

When others talk to you, you can say a few homely words after work, and slowly everyone will take the initiative to talk to you more, you don't avoid or just a few words, which will make people feel bad that you don't want to pay attention to people.

Attend more parties or activities, find topics you like and are relatively good at chatting with others, and naturally talk more when you are interested. Anyway, the important thing at the beginning is to overcome timidity, people who don't like to talk usually have this problem, just take a step, and slowly get along with everyone, and the more topics you have, the more you will naturally talk about.

Don't like to speak, can't speak, don't dare to speak, in fact, the key is not to speak, this is a psychological problem, don't dare to speak, don't speak, don't love to speak, the more you don't dare to speak, the more you don't speak, the more you don't dare to speak, the more you don't dare to speak, in the long run, a vicious circle is formed in language expression, and it also forms a language expression barrier.

There is only one problem to solve, that is, speak boldly, don't be afraid of jokes, don't be afraid of saying wrong, at first you may feel that the speech is not good, others do not like to listen, and even offend people for this, in fact, it doesn't matter, most people can still understand or tolerate, even if a small number of people can't understand it, it doesn't matter, after all, we are "curing", and when you love to say that you live, the brain will be exercised, and the language organization ability will be improved, and then you will naturally know what not to say and what to say, If you say something that others like to hear, in the long run, you may become a great orator.

You lack the ability to organize a fart language, it is others who say that about you, and after a long time, you will have low self-esteem, and you will be unable to speak subconsciously.

At the beginning, you may fall into the trap of others, he may have a grudge against you, deliberately accusing you of a shortcoming that you pay attention to every day, and you will not be able to speak after a long time.

I'm the same, but I know that I care too much about what I say, whether others are suitable for listening, so please let go of your heart, you can say whatever you have, because everything will have a first time, and slowly, you will know how to speak, books will not teach you how to speak, even if there is, it is rigid, don't care too much about other people's feelings, strengthen your self-confidence, care too much about others, you will lose your own!

I suggest that you find someone who is very good and then get together, and you can talk slowly with someone who is very good. It's not a big deal to say what is in your heart straightforwardly, and if you usually chat and worry about this and that, you can become dumb if you can say it

Why don't you talk to me = = I'm very straightforward.

In fact, what you want to say and say what you want is sometimes good and sometimes not good.

Because speaking too bluntly can hurt people sometimes.

But if you're too timid, others don't know what you think.

You're going to be very uncomfortable again.