Urgency How to learn to speak? Teach you how to speak

Want to learn how to speak? First of all, you have to learn one thing – listen with your heart. Listening is the foundation of speaking. When you want to speak, you must first listen, know what the other person is expressing, and find the breakthrough point to say when listening.

Reading more books is not actually learning to speak, but expanding the ...... thinking

You're at least 30 years old, and you're a classic example of Chinese education failure.

High scores and low ability, will not socialize with people. will not be the focus. You are indispensable to your friends.

Fail. Okay, you're going to do this for the rest of your life, you have no future.

Your colleagues in the unit must think that you are very arrogant, and they don't like to deal with them, and they can't get along with them.

So when you get promoted, someone must have put on little shoes for you.

The rest of you think for yourself, 30-year-old people, still like this, what a failure.

I mind buying some books on public relations (public relations), which are very detailed. We can definitely help you!

In society, some people speak in a straightforward manner, some people speak to the point, and some people can achieve the full meaning of what he wants to express as long as he understates a few words without exaggerating hand dancing. But there are also those who know what he wants to say without speaking.

As for me, sometimes I talk for a long time, and my mouth is dry, but the other party's face is full of doubts, and he says: What are you talking about?

Therefore, I often wonder: why is it so difficult to explain one thing clearly?

I once kept my mouth shut and didn't speak, and others didn't have to say that they couldn't understand what you said, and I wouldn't hurt the other person because of my words. Growing fear of talking, I call it "phobia of talking".

But without talking, is it possible? You are me wondering how I can make myself speak better.

1. Learn to listen.

Sometimes, when the other person says a sentence or two, I say it very quickly. But the other party said that I simply did not answer the question.

For example, a teacher pointed to a picture and asked the students, "How many colors are there?"

Students: Rainbow.

As a result, we don't usually learn to listen and there are a lot of jokes.

Before any conversation, remember to listen to the other person and not answer the wrong question.

2. Calm down.

Sometimes I try to express myself and try to explain myself, so in the end I can't tell what it is.

Therefore, when speaking, we should restore the facts and say the key things, and we don't have to go to great lengths to verify ourselves. It's better to calm down and tell the facts.

3. Be organized.

Sometimes I care too much about the other person, so I don't know how to say it. pondered, but in the end nothing was said.

Maybe I've been trying to figure out others. At the same time, adjust the scale of your own speech. It's just a pity that most of the speculation and adjustment are all made up by ourselves.

The world is so busy, and everyone doesn't have enough time to care about themselves. The world often just needs you to be articulate, not your muddy.

4. Be concise and to the point.

I sometimes speak for the truth – a quote from MUJI's chief design guru Kenya Hara, that the more we describe something in more formal terms, the harder it is for us to be accurate.

5. Be willing to speak.

In response to others' words, it takes some thought; When describing fun things to your family, you have to think about ......

Then organize them all and share them happily with others. I'm sure your words will get better and better.

It's easy to speak, but it's not so simple to be able to speak. But don't be afraid to talk either. Because whether we are working in a team, persuading others, or dealing with interpersonal relationships, we all express our thoughts, thoughts, and emotions through language.

Therefore, we need to better understand the thoughts of others and express our own wishes appropriately. Learn this skill well and spend your whole life learning it. Live to be old and learn.

Knowledge is infinite!

It's okay to talk to people a lot, just practice, try to open your mind: be confident. Practice your reflexes and debate with others. Look for role models and learn to speak like him.

The most important thing is practice.

First of all, just like learning English, read more, read more, and memorize more. That is, read more humorous articles, watch more funny movies (Xingye's nonsensical movies are highly recommended), and memorize more humorous movie lines and article sentences.

Secondly, you have to have a sense of humor. That is, the personality is cheerful and optimistic, when the mood of the person is cheerful, the words will naturally make people feel relaxed and happy.

Finally, it is necessary to train yourself to speak eloquently, to know what to say and what not to say, to whom to speak, that is, the tone and phrase that you like to hear, and to speak according to the occasion.

In general, the most important thing is to "talk about things in a small circle, divide people and things in words, look at humor more and help, and most importantly, open your heart".

If you talk about it, you will say it! Let's talk more about marketing and eloquence If you want to have something to say and learn to speak, you should do 1. The tone is just right, 2. The action is elegant and lively, 3. The intonation gives people a comfortable feeling, 4. Speak.

Try not to offend others, of course, it's not blind flattery, you can occasionally joke, try to be polite when you first meet, a humble and polite attitude will make others appreciate it very much, plus some of your little humor [remember not to overdo it], if you look very pleasant, then it's better. There is also elegance, not rude, especially when eating. Don't be too upright and make people think you're unreasonable and arrogant, even if you're not.

I don't have any skills, I tell the truth, I pick it up, I can say it.