The boy failed the exam and lied about being subjected to domestic violence! What other fancy operat

When I was a child, I was also very afraid of my mother, it was okay to take the exam well, and if I didn't take the test, it was light, my mother was the kind of master who beat a dozen for a day, and my hands were tired and pinched for a while, and I was tired and rested for a while, and I saw that I didn't cry and continued to fightI rarely get beaten for learning, only once or twice, usually because I was caught stealing money, my mother beat me, I also have a magic weapon, my grandmother and my grandmother, as long as we move out of these two rescuers, we can usually escape.

1. Choose to run away from homeMy house is very close to my grandmother and my grandmother's house, if I feel that the atmosphere at home is not right, or I have done something wrong recently, I will run away from home, I just won't go home, whatever my mother calls me, if you find out that the situation is really wrong, I will say to my grandmother, I have to go home, my mother won't let me come to your house, okay, my grandmother started to fight with my mother, and there is nothing for me here.

2. Admit your mistakes right away, I grew up looking at my mother's face, I can guess a rough idea, my mom is angry today because I'm angry or because of my dad, if I apologize immediately, don't care about what, let's ask for leniency first, and then praise my mom, Mom, your egg fried rice today is so delicious, I haven't eaten such a delicious egg fried rice, how did you make it, I'll make it for you when I grow up in the future, this trick is always easy to use.

3. Take the initiative to ask to be beaten, Mom's grades didn't do well this time because I was sloppy, or you beat me, let me have a longer memory, I feel uncomfortable, hugging my mother and crying, seeing that the attitude is so good, she is too lazy to do it.

I'm the kind of kid who gets beaten a lot, so I'm used to itWhen I grew up, my mom rarely beat me, and sometimes it was good to get through that stage, and it was only a few years.

This is also a normal behavior, because I failed the exam, so I ran away from home.

paid to hire people to attend parent-teacher conferences, pretended to be sick and sympathetic, and repeatedly altered transcripts. And so on and so forth.

Children who fail exams will spend money to hire passers-by to pretend to be their parents to attend parent-teacher conferences, which is really getting smarter and smarter.

Today's children are getting smarter and smarter, and they know how to use legal means to protect themselves.

Because there are children at home, I deliberately bought a school district house that is okay before the children go to school, and most of the houses in such houses are families with children, do you know what it is like at night? Do you know what it's like when you're on vacation? Family to family, it depends on whose mother has a high voice, if you don't get it right, you have to have a war, the kind that fights alone, I think it's okay for children to be under pressure now, the main pressure ** is the parents who have a mental breakdown.

My son is 5 years old and attends a public kindergarten, and when they moved up to kindergarten this year, the class went from 40 to 19 children, do you know why? The children are going to the young bridging,Parents say that kindergarten does not learn to go to primary school can not keep up, I don't know what to learn in primary school, is to learn geometry, or to learn the Olympiad you can't keep up, addition and subtraction within ten, pinyin and 300 words, your child can not learn a semester?

It's the same in elementary school, parents always want their children to take one more step forward, just like when they were young, they just wanted him to go, and then proudly told others, "Look at my son will leave in just eight months."I don't envy such a child, and I don't want my child to become like this, I also know how proud it is to give birth to a genius and a prodigy, but I will not feel inferior because of my son's generality.

The pressure on the child really depends on the parents, maybe my child is not good, but he is also my child, maybe my child is not smart, but he always has something to be proud ofSo I am willing to be a mother who does not compare, while educating her children, take our relationship seriously, and be a sober mother, the child's life is not only about learning.

Nowadays, children are under a lot of pressure to study, with endless homework and endless tutorial classes.

This pressure comes mainly from parents, and parents nowadays use their children as a tool for comparison, so the pressure to learn is huge.

Today's children, the pressure of learning is huge, especially for children in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, and the annual make-up fees and extracurricular interest classes may cost hundreds of thousands.

Today's children are under more and more pressure to study, and they have to attend various cram schools.

Let it be, a friend told me some time ago that her son is very sensible, polite to people, plays basketball well, and can cook for her when he is twelve years old, but his academic performance can't go up, and his brain is like not being enlightenedBeat and beaten, scolded and scolded, there was no effect at all, I can't wait to go to school for him, every time I finish the exam, the home is like a refrigerator, everyone is cold to each other, she said that she forced herself to menopause early.

I suddenly remembered that when we were young, we were elementary school classmates, our families lived very close, and her brain was very stupid, even if she studied hard, she was near the middle and lower reachesHer mother also shouted and scolded every day, I remember when she was eight years old, she was beaten, her mother cried, can't you understand addition and subtraction? Isn't that addition? Are you blind?

This was her childhood.

Or she has forgotten, now she hopes that her son will become a dragon and put her hope on her child, but the child is not very interested in learning at all, he spends a lot of money, has a lot of extracurricular classes, and has invited a private tutor, and the final grades are about ten points shortShe feels that it is not only the heart that hurts, but also the money, in fact, there is no need for this at all, the child is like that, you cultivate, if it is not the material for learning, let him be, in the end, you are tired, and the child is also tired.

Today's parents are helping to grow up in kindergarten and learning.

The knowledge of the first, second and third grades, the knowledge of junior high school in elementary school, and the knowledge of high school in junior high school, in order to let children be one step aheadIn fact, the child's age is there, there is really no need to make everyone work so hard, and in the end, the child can be perfect in high school? I also have kids and I really just want to go with the flow.

When it comes to their children's learning, parents should be a little more patient and educate their children well.

Be calm, do a good job of communication between the two parties, and don't think about beating and scolding them as parents, this will not solve the problem.

In terms of learning, we must understand the scale of education, and we must not do it to children when we are angry, but we must reason with children.

Educate children must use reasonable means, and children with different personalities use them in different ways.

This police family must also have children, I know how hard it is for my mother to take care of a child to study, and today's children are not the same as in the past, I did that homework when I was a child, and my mother didn't have time to take care of me at all, so I wrote my homework by myself after school, and went out to play as soon as I finished writingThe homework was finished in more than half an hour, and after writing, you could meet several classmates when you went out, dancing rubber bands together, shaking hula hoops, and playing at home for a while, which was the happiest moment of the day.

What are today's children doing? Since kindergarten, I have to go home to do my homework, play outside for a while, and if I don't play, my child has to go home to do my homework, and he is only two and a half years old? Go home and do your homework?

I don't know what's wrong with parents nowIs the starting line set so forward? Can starting homework at the age of two make a child extremely smart? Of course, there are many people who accuse me, you just let the child play, and you will regret it later.

My friend's children come to my house to play, from one city to another, in the morning everyone has not eaten, they study first, even crying and howling to finish their homeworkWhen I saw that it was more than eleven o'clock, I didn't dare to speak, I took the children out for lunch, and slept in the car for a while in the afternoon, and the day passed, I don't know what such a trip brought to the children?

Sometimes parents seem to ruin their children's childhood and want their children to learn a lot of artIn the end, it's the same as a blind bear breaking buds, everyone didn't learn to understand, this policeman's emotional intelligence is really high, he didn't blame his mother, he didn't blame the child, sat down and let his mother calm down for a while, and help counsel to deal with the problem.

This policeman must also be a father who loves his children very much, so he will tutor him in his homework.

This is to teach the child's parents that the child should communicate peacefully, and blindly beating and scolding will only arouse the child's rebellious psychology.

The police also set an example for parents and taught them how to treat their children in the rebellious period.

I would like to give a thumbs up to this police officer, which is very good.

Personally, I think parents should not hit their children, this kind of education will not help their children in any way, and it will also leave a psychological shadow on their childrenIt is normal to fail the school, and the child is playful, and can not deny his child because of a failure, but should be good at it, so that his child can return to the right track of growth.

There are many parents around me who still think that filial piety under the stick is the right concept, but now that it is 2019, there is no such thing for a long timeLearning is a very boring thing, if you beat your child, they will not take the initiative to learn, only if the parents keep urging in the back, he will continue to learn.

Generally speaking, the best way to make children realize the importance of learning is to contribute to their future through guidanceIt is to prepare for the college entrance examination, and only when children understand the essence of all this, they will take the initiative to learn on their own, and they will have substantial improvement.

To sum up, I hope that parents can realize that a strict education method is not beneficial to the development of their children, and will only lead their children further and further down the wrong pathTherefore, parents must pay attention to not let their children have a family shadow at a young age, they are still young, many things do not understand, parents must slowly educate them through kind guidance, so that their children can slowly return to the right track of life.

Parents should learn more about how to educate their children in the most correct way.

Parents should communicate patiently with their children and should not be abusive.

Peaceful communication, correct guidance, and the blind use of force cannot make children realize their mistakes.

I think parents should reason with their children and let them understand the importance of learning, instead of domestic violence at every turn, which will only make children rebellious.

The child locked himself in the house, andNo matter what the parents call them, they won't open the door. After the police came, the child immediately opened the door, which also made the father feel that the child still trusted the police, I was a little "jealous" in my heart.

Xiaolin, a junior high school student in Nanjing, actually called the police to claim that he was abused because of his poor exams. When the police uncle heard such a thing, he naturally rushed to Xiaolin's house as soon as possible.

Maybe it's because I'm afraid of being scolded by my parentsXiao Lin locked himself in the house, no matter what his parents called, he didn't open the door, and only opened the door when the police arrived, such a move also made Xiaolin's father a little uncomfortable, and his children still trusted the police uncle more. After understanding the situation, the police also analyzed the reasons for Xiaolin's poor test, and started the question for the child on the spot.

A lot of times as parents we always thinkChildren should be better than other people's children. Therefore, many parents are often angry when they hear that their children are not doing well in the exam, and some parents will even directly use violence, which leads to the child himself being sad because of the bad test, and losing the fighting spirit to learn.

In fact, this is the caseParents must control their emotions first。After all, not every child is a genius, we must first patiently analyze the reasons for the child's poor performance, and explain the correct approach for the child for the wrong question, so that the child can really realize that he is wrong, and this time he can make better progress next time.

So we're here as parentsWhen facing children, you must be patientheart, otherwise you may be "jealous" like this father. This can also be seen that parents are still lacking in their children's education, after all, if they are patient enough, their children will not make such actions.

Because the police uncle helped the child with homework, the father watched from the side and felt very tasteful.

Because the policeman came to help the child with homework, which made the father admire.

Because the child listens to the police, but does not listen to the father himself, he is envious.

Because the policeman helped his son with his schoolwork, he was jealous.