Why do I get angry when I can t play with my classmates?

Go with the flow and don't care too much about yourself, too much about what others think.

Don't listen to them, it's useless, it's nonsense. If you like to read, I can help you; If you don't like to watch, there's nothing I can do.

I recommend an 11-episode TV series "Dragon Sakura" to you, and part of the answer you want is in this TV series. Another part of the answer is in "Your Misunderstanding? In this book, this book will help you get out of the confusion of the soul to a certain extent.

The answer to the third part is in the "Happiness Lesson", a set of open courses at American universities, and you will find the happiness in your heart after reading it. The fourth part is "My Faith" written by Marie Curie, a Chinese text in the first volume of the seventh grade, you can take a look at how Marie Curie lived happily at school.

I can't give you the answer, I can't give you happiness, I can only teach you the method, as the saying goes, "It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish." ”

Finally, I wish you happiness! If you don't understand, you can ask me.

Actually, sometimes, don't care too much about things, don't go too far into pursuing some flashy things.

You become a natural person and become free and easy.

First of all, try to accept the classmates around you and be kind and friendly to them! But there has to be a degree.

Don't be afraid, you are still young, saying the wrong thing and doing the wrong thing, adults, friends, and classmates can understand and tolerate it. If you don't exercise now, if you don't try boldly, and when you grow up and make these mistakes again, you will be even more embarrassed. Treasure..

Don't always be afraid of doing or saying wrong, as long as you treat people with sincerity and sincerity, everyone will feel it, and they won't blame you for accidentally making a mistake! Open your heart and accept others, and they will accept you. Trust you to do it! Come on!

In fact, sometimes classmates are joking, and you don't have to take it seriously. If you get along with your classmates, you can only really get to know them, so you should spend more time with your classmates, talk more, and participate in group activities.

Learn to be generous, think about a box, in fact, nothing is a big deal, it's good.

Classmates, this is completely a matter of your own mentality, I think the friendship between classmates is very valuable, we must cherish this time together. In fact, as long as you have the desire to integrate into the collective, everyone will see it and will help you. The interaction between people must first be sincere, and we ourselves should be sincere.

Those who love others will always love them; Then don't cringe when you speak, walk too, and be confident! Trust you to do it.

Because you have a better face, a stronger defensive psychology, just like a hedgehog, full of thorns for fear of being hurt, if you say the wrong sentence, you will get angry, and it is also a kind of temper that is more impatient, try to calm your mind, don't think that others seem to be bullying you, think about it from another angle, this is what he thinks I am very good to play with me in the distance, play with friends and classmates, make trouble is trouble, he said talk about you You talk about his slapstick, how interesting! I really think it's making you angry, so you just say it to your classmates, don't talk about this, don't make trouble, or I'll be angry, the key is to let go of yourself!

With a smile, help your classmates more when others need help, the most important thing is to have a serious attitude towards doing things, once you do things seriously and responsibly, the people around you are naturally willing to deal with you, everyone likes to make friends with the kind of serious and enthusiastic people, I believe you will quickly integrate into your circle of friends, come on!

When you want to get angry, think about what you're doing right? In fact, what people need most before is communication, what is difficult to communicate well? When there is a misunderstanding, you must solve it.,You have to be independent, don't be bullied by others, but you can't bully others.,Usually have something to think about for others.,Naturally, someone will look for you to play.,I hope the landlord can.。

I think it's really great that you can realize your own problems, it's rare. If you know that you are arrogant and self-righteous, try to change it, don't care too much about other people's eyes, you will be much more relaxed, relaxed and natural, and everyone may prefer to play with you.

Don't think too much about it, and you will find that life is beautiful when you are calm.

The sense of self-protection is relatively strong, and the heart must be more fragile. ,It's good to try to let others into your heart slowly.,,It's okay.,It's going to be fine.。。

It's probably because you think your classmates are better than you when you're together, or you can't let go of your own knots because of your experiences as a child.

Maybe you're too sensitive and too vigilant! It is recommended to learn about the Enneagram, your No. 6 personality traits are more obvious! Know yourself, then change yourself!

Join an organization such as a club or a soccer team, and then gather one or two reliable people in the organization, then it's no problem, sometimes it's inevitable that there will be some small touches, don't pay too much attention to these small actions.

Also, be good at studying so that someone will stand with you.

Note: I don't want you to form a gang!!

Don't force yourself to be someone else, do what is suitable for you, such as reading a book or writing alone, maybe it will make you happy.

Take a look at a psychiatrist! Carefully observe the classmates around you, and how to solve the same questions as you! Learn more.

Try to get to know them and let yourself go and play

You may be more sensitive, you have to learn to communicate more with others, and when you have friends, you will be more cheerful

If you have personality problems, you can ask the people around you what they think of you, and you can change your bad habits.

When he is angry, you put yourself in his shoes and see if you may find a problem.

Communicate more with friends, give money, give things, buy something, or a small gift, some food, give them some, sometimes friends also need to coax, what help they need, do your best to help, that's it. Come on, take your time and it will make a difference. First of all, you can't have a shelf, don't feel that you can do anything, and correct your attitude.

Be calmer, and do it specifically: you don't seem to care about anything, just figure it out in your heart and understand it yourself. Say whatever you want, even if you make some jokes with them that don't involve arguments, laugh and scold.

Improve your own bottom line of anger, general things, as long as you don't touch the bottom line, you can get by. Be a man.

Have you tried to understand your classmates? Sometimes he gets angry because he is depressed and tries to comfort him or tease him. If someone bullies you, just put up with it, and if he gets worse, go to the teacher or you know (joking hee-hee).

Accommodate each other, treat people with sincerity, and don't care.

These are the suffices.

Very good to get along with.

The people on campus are still simple, so it doesn't matter if you are wronged, it is a blessing to suffer, and when you go to the society in the future, you will understand that the contradictions between people are fatal, so cherish the days of fighting and making trouble now.

Students need to be understanding and tolerant of each other, which requires us to restrain our emotions and be considerate of the feelings of others. It's funny to think more about the good side of things, and be optimistic and tolerant when things happen!

It seems that you are very mentally confused and cannot control it.

Cultivating the mind. Cultivate not to be angry and not to earn. Not annoyed. Do you know the garbage man's law? Don't care.

It's possible that you're not in a good mood.

Habits don't happen all at once, but you can try to relieve the fire or cast it! You can find a place to yell. Or make a sandbag.

Take control of it yourself! This kind of thing is not urgent.

Be calm, be less careful, and naturally be happy with each other.

This kind of thing is very easy to do, you have to be cheerful and play with them, you can play together without barriers after a long time, and he likes to play with you if he messes with you. You have to always be honest, and the facts will prove that honest people will have many true friends, and you don't understand it yet.

Ignore him and use his grades to convince others.

How old are you? I dare say those people like you, I'm a man, and I often harass girls I like.

You can talk to your teacher or your parents.

They have become a habit, you can't contrast too much, otherwise it will cause their dissatisfaction and the relationship may break down, so you have to start from your own reasons.

You usually have to be serious, try not to fight with your classmates, and don't be too weak in tone, you have to think about why some people are born bosses in the group, and some are born younger brothers, because of their personality and way of doing things.

Usually don't be stingy and can't be taken by others, spend the money you should spend generously, and don't give others a sense of vigor and resoluteness, so that others respect you.

You can try it, and all of a sudden others will think that you have changed.

If someone does this to me, I will definitely fight back, and if a bunch of people do this to me, maybe it's my own reason.

No one else respects me...

Remember to make anyone feel that you are someone who must be respected.

It may be caused by the rapid development of puberty, some uncoordinated hormone levels, and excessive thyroid hormone production.

Don't be too anxious, talk to your parents or teachers!! Slowly it will get better.

It's like this in adolescence! I'm also from your age, but remember, do things in moderation and give yourself leeway! Be sure to get along well with classmates and relationships! Calm....Good luck!

During puberty, hormones grow and temper deteriorates.

Very normal adolescent syndrome.

A normal chemical response to the hormones of puberty.

Two reasons:

1.You have a high IQ (count you in hanging).

2.You have a short-tempered (tragic) personality

Don't worry, tigresses are like this, and you're not the only one, there are many of them in our class.

Upstairs nonsense, the landlord can try to talk to someone he trusts...

Think about it too much, for no reason, it may just be dissatisfaction with the existing life, for example, nothing has been smooth recently, or you can't find something interesting in life, that is, you haven't been happy to play for too long, this is caused by the pressure brought by study and life, it's not about adolescence, think more about happy things, listen to good **, watch good movies, if you have time, it's best to ask friends to go shopping, so that you can release your inner displeasure, you might as well try, I hope it can help you get out of this shadow.

You're only 11 years old, and you're not really an adolescent yet, so maybe you've been bothered by something lately.

Be quiet and be both men and women, and it can't be a habit to get angry.