I talked to my boyfriend for half a month and didn t feel it

When you are together, are you true to yourself, follow your heart, follow your heart

Being together should be a pleasant mood, a feeling of freedom to relax.

Love without feeling is like a twisted melon, it won't be sweet, it won't be happy, find a time to talk to him, or break up.

I didn't feel it after being together for two months, which shows that you didn't love deeply enough when you were together, that is, you didn't love enough. If two people who love each other deeply together, they won't be so quick and don't feel it.

Nowadays, there will be such a situation between many lovers, and after being together for a long time, they will not have the original heartbeat. This is very positive, no matter what kind of feelings, even if the original love is vigorous, it will tend to be dull after a long time. So love needs to be adjusted.

Two people can create some small romance by themselves together, and make ordinary days have more small surprises. If you love each other, you have to manage the relationship.

Then break up, a lifetime is still long, don't delay each other. Two people who really love each other will not be without feelings together, and no feeling can only mean that they are no longer in love, or that you have not met the person who really makes your blood boil, and it will not be like this when you meet.

I don't know how the two of you came together, you can look back and think about it, what is it because you are together, what you like about him, whether there is really love, if meeting is a mistake, then it is too late to turn back.

Some people say that after the real two people are together, it will be like this, from love to family affection, just like others say that the left hand holds the right hand, it is also no feeling, does not mean that there is no love? All I can say is the likeness. In that case, it is all about how many ups and downs have been experienced, the vicissitudes of life, and how many years will slowly evolve into emotions, but it is not something that can be done in one or two months, one or two years, so it can only be said that it is similar and detached.

So let's break up peacefully, think clearly about what kind of love you want, what kind of person you like, and look back, this is also a kind of growth!

You don't have feelings for your boyfriend, do you really dislike your boyfriend anymore, feel that he doesn't fit your personality, and now you feel uncomfortable together? If yes, then it's better to break up, but if you just don't feel it anymore, but you still think that your boyfriend is more suitable for you and think he's not bad, then let's get along for a while.

I don't feel it anymore, which means that I may have felt it at the beginning. Otherwise, you wouldn't have come together. Even if the man is chasing to the death, at least he has a little bit of goodwill before he continues.

Therefore, we need to remember what we felt at the beginning, and think about why this feeling is gone. Whether it's familiar, or because it's not romantic, or because of something else, find the key to the problem in order to solve it.

In such an era where everything is fast, a little favor becomes a liking, and a little liking becomes love, and I think this is the case with you. You think it's love at first sight with him, and he thinks it's okay to get along with you, so that the two of them will quickly get together after they meet. In fact, many people have a situation like you, and even I still can't control my feelings for someone who has a good impression.

Everyone is in a hurry to determine the relationship to tie each other up, but after in-depth understanding, they find that the beauty they see on the surface is actually very illusory. Because it's too easy to get, it's not so cherished, and the two of them may be in a kind of, ah, anyway, we're together, and we've already completed the task. As everyone knows, in fact, it takes a lot more to maintain a relationship than to chase a person, otherwise there would not be so many people breaking up every day.

The argument that I don't feel it doesn't hold water.

It's not that I don't feel it, but the feeling is light, it's not as strong as when I'm in love, it's all normal.

A person's relationship lasts for a month, a year, and a lifetime, and as a woman, I would like to say.

Don't pay too much attention to these things.

You don't have feelings for him today, and you don't feel for the next tomorrow.

Properly allow yourself to face up to this mentality.

Don't break up at every turn...

Loving someone is about feelings, but it's not exactly just feelings.

If you don't think he's the one you're looking for.

Don't let yourself struggle with the decision you made in the future.

Maybe sometimes it's not like I don't feel it anymore.

It's just that a lot of subtle things penetrate into every detail of you, and some of them can't be felt, if they are really separated.

and they were all revealed to be detached.

It must have been sad then.

If he's a good guy.

Then keep dating.

Sometimes what you like isn't necessarily right for you.

You have to know how to cherish it, and I think it's really strange to be human.

Many people are very painful because their other half does not love and cherish them.

There are also many people who are quite happy but have something to do.

Why can't you cherish it?

No matter what decision you make, don't regret it, because the road is your own choice, and no matter how painful it is, it will be finished.

Rather than delay life, it is better to solve it as soon as possible, if you find that your so-called no feeling, that is, you don't love this person, simply don't like it, even if the other half is good to yourself, you don't want to regain your feelings, then you need to make a decision, end it early, break up under peaceful communication, don't delay yourself, and don't delay the other party.

First of all, I will tell you what I think, I am very good to you, but I don't feel it, it's very simple, you don't like him. Feelings have always been between you and me, not that if you are good to me, I have to like you. But your expression is very vague, and you don't feel what is it?

This is very important, whether you are tired of it, or whether it is a discord between the three views. If you are tired, you really can't be interested, don't be separated for a while, and see if you are happy and tired of living without him.

One of the funniest things I've ever heard a friend say is: "Why pursue any tacit understanding, you can't say anything well!" "When two people are together, we always hope that the other person can understand the whole incident because of one of our actions and words.

But no one is a roundworm in their hearts, how can they so easily guess what they are angry about and sad about. If you still want to move on with your boyfriend, try to communicate and raise your doubts.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject! I'm July.

After reading your description, I have a certain understanding of the question you want to ask, and here, I will also give you a four-dimensional space hug. From the problems mentioned in your description, in my opinion, you are anxious about your current relationship, because in your heart, you feel that you don't like your current boyfriend, so you are also hesitant to end this relationship. Actually, you can feel the hesitation in your heart, because this man is really good to himself, and the reason why he was with him in the first place was because of the instigation of his friends, so he agreed to be with him under impulse.

But after being together, he is still very good to himself, but he doesn't like him too much, so you will hesitate to end the relationship at the moment, because in your heart, it is also very important to like each other during the period of playing friends, and not only Zhixiang is only a man who likes himself, but also very good to himself. Why? Because in your heart, it is more important for two people to pay together, if one party pays too much and you pay less, it will bring invisible pressure to yourself, and you will feel that you are not worthy of his love and dedication, so you will also think about whether you are worthy of this relationship.

In this regard, I have also summarized some ways to help you alleviate the current situation, I hope it can help you to a certain extent. (1) Try to find your truest thoughts, instead of immersing yourself in hesitant situations and delaying decisions. (2) If you still feel that this relationship is not suitable for you in the end, you can stop the loss in time first, in order to minimize the damage, rather than allowing yourself and others to suffer more damage.

3) You can chat with friends who you have a good time with, talk about your thoughts and feelings, and further release your emotions. (4) When you think it through, you can talk to your boyfriend about your thoughts, instead of letting some points that will cause contradictions lie between you, but to solve some problems through communication. Agitation (5) Try to divert your attention instead of putting yourself in a bad situation for a long time and making yourself feel bad at the moment.

The world and I love you Best wishes.