Why is the dish of some rural banquets becoming more and more perfunctory now?

For example, the marriage of the son at home, the banquet for the children at home, the 80th birthday of the old people in the family, the building of a house at home, the full moon of the children, the opening of the restaurant, and so on, all of which are important things for the individual's family, must hold a banquet, sit in a restaurant in the village, and the relatives and neighbors of the family come to participate in the ceremony and eat together, and the scene is really lively. <

When I was young, my favorite thing was that someone held a banquet, and you could eat a lot of delicious food, and it was lively and lively, but now the dishes on the rural banquet are becoming more and more perfunctory, and I can no longer find the original feeling, so why is this? <>

In fact, the purpose of the rural banquet is to celebrate the happy events of their own family and share with everyone, on the other hand, it is to receive gifts, I believe everyone also knows that it is not for nothing to eat, it is to be with the ceremony, every time before going to the banquet, the adults in the family will study how much to follow, and now most people hold banquets The purpose is just to collect money, the better the banquet location, the better the food, the more expensive it is, the more it is spent, and most people are just to collect money, So there is no need to hold such an expensive banquet, the price is down, and the dish will naturally be bad. <>

In fact, this phenomenon is also becoming more and more, through the banquet to collect money, but this is also a way to do nothing, always have to go with the gift to other people's homes, I don't know how much money is sent out, and there is nothing to do in their own family, which leads to the fact that now no matter how big or small, as long as there is something, there can be a reason to hold a banquet, through this to take back the gift with it. This also makes the current banquet taste change, and most of everyone just goes through the motions.

Because now in the countryside, a family can bring a family to eat, and like to eat and pack, and the good dishes are robbed as soon as they come up, so the dishes of the rural banquet are becoming more and more perfunctory.

The main reason is that the current ingredients cannot be compared with the past, and they can't make good dishes; Second, there are fewer young people who are willing or able to cook in rural areas, and many banquets are contracted.

Because of many rural banquets now, he is not actually for the banquet, but wants to receive gift money. Therefore, in order to save expenses, the dishes will be made very perfunctory.

In the past, the scene of the banquet in the countryside was very spectacular, dozens of tables, hired special chefs and assistant cooks, each dish was packed in a large basin, especially in some rural areas, it was more important to pay attention to the banquet, eight meats, eight vegetables, eight cold, eight hot and eight soups, each table was filled with a variety of dishes, and even put it up. However, some people said that the rural banquets used to be lively, but now the rural banquet meals are becoming more and more perfunctory, and there is no longer the pomp and circumstance of the past. ActuallyThis is because the rural people are becoming more and more aware of saving, and they no longer pursue face and deliberately prepare too many meals, resulting in waste, andIn the past, the conditions in the countryside were poor, and participating in the banquet was considered to improve the food, but now the meals are very delicious, so it seems that the rural banquet meals have become perfunctory

Although relatives and neighbors will come to eat at the banquet in the countryside, it is not enough to prepare more than 20 dishes for each table, and basically the end of a banquetA large amount of leftovers will be left at each table, and even in many rural areas, there is a trend of comparing banquets, which is completely contrary to the requirements of simplifying banquets and saving food。With the improvement of the awareness of the rural people,For the banquet, we also uphold the style of simplicity, in line with the principle of enough to eat, and no longer prepare too many meals to avoid waste

In addition, in the past, the conditions of every household in the rural areas were not goodIn some areas, you can only eat big fish and meat during the New Year's holidays, so the elbows, chicken, and fish at the banquet are particularly preciousBut now the economy is getting better and betterRural people no longer worry about food, and every household can eat chicken, duck and fish on weekdays, so it is not unusual to look at the meals at the banquet, and even feel perfunctory like their daily meals. <>

In the final analysis, the custom of large banquets in the countryside is not actually advocated, although these banquets can reflect that the villagers of a village help each other and support each other, but it is more that the large amount of garbage and waste caused after the banquet is more important, so it is worth advocating to simplify the banquet meals.

Generally, rural banquets are made by their own people, and professional chefs will not be invited, so the meals are less exquisite; Secondly, fewer and fewer people go back to the countryside to participate in the banquet, most of them are elderly, in fact, this can reduce waste and put an end to the behavior of comparison.

Now that our quality of life has improved, and we have eaten all kinds of delicious meals, we are not very interested in the meals at rural banquets. But the past was different, in the past, the conditions of every family were not very rich, and they could only eat big fish and meat during the New Year's holidays, and they could go to a banquet to be regarded as a tooth sacrifice, so they naturally felt that the meals at the banquet were very delicious.

It is because there are fewer and fewer people from the countryside who come to attend, they are all old men and grandmothers, and there are fewer and fewer gifts, so it will become more and more perfunctory.

Why are fewer and fewer people going to some rural banquets? To be sure, the rural population is now getting smaller and smaller, and many of the rural left-behind population are elderly. Young people want to go out and see, but they don't want to stay in the countryside all the time.

Many have even moved their hukou to the city, where they have new friends, neighbors and even relatives.

If there is something important in the village, they usually ask someone else for money, and they usually don't go back. Ageing in rural areas is also very severe. Many old people, and even young people, have left us forever because of one thing or another, and the rural population is getting smaller and smaller.

Naturally, the banquet was deserted.

Village banquets are fond memories of childhood. When I was a child, I was poor and my family rarely ate meat. Meat can be eaten at banquets held in the village.

Generally, there is dinner at weddings and funerals. At that time, they often silently counted the days more than ten days in advance, waiting for the day when they would eat delicious food. At that time, people were simple and liked to be lively.

When something happens in the village, even if they work far away, they will definitely rush back. Of course, they don't come back for a big meal, but to help others, which is a big deal in the countryside.

Busy work and long-distance travel, today's society is developed, transportation is also convenient, and people have also walked out of the countryside, out of the city, and even out of the countryside. Transportation is becoming more and more developed. Many rural children also want to escape.

The world is so big that they want to go out for a walk. Many students choose to go to other provinces to attend college, which is the current situation for many students today. They don't even know about weddings and funerals in the countryside.

Whose family is getting married again? The old man who died also heard what people said when he returned home.

Parents are also reluctant to convey bad news about their hometown to their children studying abroad. Many people who participate in the work will choose to go to the first and second tier cities for development, because there is better space and platform there. Of course, they are also very busy with their work.

If there is nothing big in the village, they will hardly inform him. Even if they are notified, they may not be able to come back.

The first point is that the reason why few people go is that the environment is not particularly good, the second point is that there is nothing to eat, and then there is no shortage of food and drink, so they are not willing to go.

Many people have already gone to the city to work, and some people have settled in the city, so naturally few people have returned to the countryside.

Because the banquets in the countryside are becoming more and more perfunctory, many are vegetarian, and many people are reluctant to share a plate with other people.

Almost all of the last three generations of urban dwellers have come from rural areas, so it can be said that urban and rural people are particularly closely connected. Especially now that the standard of living in the countryside is getting better and better, many people are proud to have relatives in the countryside. I have a lot of rural relatives in my family, and one of the things I am happy about now is to go to my rural relatives' houses every weekend or holiday to visit relatives and friends.

You can feel the different nature in the countryside and enjoy authentic farmhouse cuisine.

Especially when I went back, my suitcase was stuffed with specialties from my relatives in the countryside. As we all know, rural people get together to chat and have fun when they have nothing to do, and there is an essential difference between rural life and urban life. Especially in the past, most of the people in the countryside came from a hard life, and everyone took out and shared whatever good things they had, so they had a deep friendship with each other.

Usually, the neighbors have resources in all aspects, and the relationship between them is very harmonious.

No matter how fast the economy develops, human favor is always a factor that cannot be ignored, and China is a country that attaches great importance to human affection, whether it is urban or rural, this will happen. If there is something going on at home, it is a matter of course in the village to find relatives and friends, congratulate the owner, and give gifts to your family. Eating mattresses is not to snub the guests, but because there are many relatives and friends who leave with money.

In rural areas, the probability of this kind of thing happening is very high, especially in the past few years, it is even more out of control, and the phenomenon of "eating cold mats" is increasing. In the era of material shortages, eating seats is to improve life, and usually live on pickles. If you eat a seat, you can not only eat stir-fried vegetables, but also eat big fish and meat, which will definitely make you have a great appetite and full of anticipation.

Usually there is no appetizer, when borrowing a table, adults of the same age sit together, shouting, shouting, eating meat, and drinking a lot of wine, get rid of the pressure of life, forget the pain of life, and enjoy a moment of eating, drinking and having fun The previous banquet can relieve pressure, anesthetize, and make people excited and full of anticipation for rural people.

Now people's living conditions are very good, everyone doesn't like to eat this kind of banquet in the countryside, the food is generally not very delicious, and they have to chat with a group of people, and everyone is quite socially afraid.

Yes, because of the impact of the epidemic, many places are not allowed to hold banquets, and the current population is not so large, so there are very few people eating banquets.

Because people are getting busier and busier with their daily work, and the countryside is far away from the city, people don't have time to run around.

In addition to eating a banquet in the countryside, you can also eat a lot of food, so when you are a child, you will often hear about the occasion of the banquet will be very happy, so when you eat a banquet in the countryside, the guests on the table of the last dish have left the table, this is because the last dish is a send-off dish, which means that the hospitality is not good, and the meaning of praying for perfection.

The farmer is simple. When he saw this soup, he called it "egg soup". As a joke, everyone laughed and broke up.

Because in the past, the rural dining table was usually a mobile dining table, so it is unknown how many dishes were on the table, because as long as the egg soup is the last dish, the Chinese civilization attaches great importance to the way of hospitality, and the countryside also attaches great importance to the exchange of gifts and greetings, and the reception is not small, so there is welcome and send, welcome and warm, and send auspicious.

In the countryside, most peasants know about "food delivery" and know the truth. Some elderly people in the countryside will also remind young people to avoid disrespect. But there are also many rural families.

Due to the constraints of the venue, it takes several rounds to sit for a meal before guests can be arranged. However, some people eat too slowly. They changed the egg soup to round ball soup, which means round, and the delivery of dishes varies from region to region.

Although the number of dishes varies in rural areas, the number and number of dishes are essentially fixed. If you ask clearly, you will have a general idea. In rural areas, banquets are usually held on important occasions such as weddings and funerals.

At this time, there are too many guests, and it is difficult to take care of them and "deliver food" to them.

So when I heard this, I really felt that there were a lot of customs in the countryside, and there were a lot of cultural and moral implications, so it was polite to eat at the banquet, and drink less alcohol, and hide if you can.

The reason for this statement is that it has a lot to do with local customs.

Because I knew that it was the last dish, I said that I could go after eating.

Since I've already eaten it all, there's nothing to be nostalgic about.

Because the dishes in the countryside are relatively large, and they like to drink, they are basically full of food on the last dish.

It's because the guests are actually unwilling. Go and eat the last dish.

This must be because the last course is to see off the guests leaving.

Usually everyone is full by then, so they all leave.

Because the last one is generally to let you go, so it's time to leave after eating.

Because after the last dish, they were all full, and then they left.

You're talking about the last bowl of egg soup