Is it because she likes me, or is she self inflicted?

This is called "pre-love self-preservation disorder". Women are like this, because after getting along for a long time, some shortcomings will be slowed down.

**, I'm afraid you can't accept it, just love the perfect her.

In fact, we have only been together for more than 2 weeks, don't be too anxious, take your time, so that ambiguity can become love! Communicate with her more, take her to meet your friends more, or pester her to meet her friends more, and you will slowly get used to the feeling of being together.

Women are like this, they want to love but are afraid of being hurt!

Some women are suitable for pampering, but not necessarily suitable for coating!

First of all, you have to affirm her! Don't talk about it, give some examples to prove that she is too modest, she is really perfect in your heart.

Secondly, if she really wants to calm down or test you, you have to learn to control yourself and keep your distance, which is also a test for her.

Control yourself, make it clear to her that you like her, but also respect her, don't bother her, and give her time to calm down.

But if you really like her, you can't give up easily, you can invite her to dinner every once in a while, give a small gift, but don't mention feelings, just ask her how she is doing, a few times, you find another opportunity to test it, bless you!

Why care if she likes you or not?

Or is it better for you to have a little more vanity and then have something to talk about with your friends?

The most important thing is whether you like her, and if you like it, express it boldly.

If you don't like her, why should you care so much, she can do whatever she likes.

She used to like you, but after getting to know you better, she found that you weren't as good as she thought, and she didn't like it a little. But she left you space and time, and she wanted to watch it for a while.

Don't like you. I just like to have a little ambiguity with you.

She likes you, everyone will have different ideas at different times, since he has confessed to you, then you should believe him, maybe he is bothered by some things now, and it will be good when he slowly figures it out=. =

In fact, she likes the you she imagined in her heart, the illusory you, because he is perfect, but the real you are not as perfect as she imagined, so she has to start anew and reconsider

She used to like you, but she was embarrassed to save face, and she wanted to have a longer relationship with you, but now she herself is vague, and if you like her, go after and support you.

She likes you, something may have happened to her, and it'll be fine after that

She may like you, but the side you show is something he doesn't like.

Summary. Self-inflicted amorous or mutual crush.

Self-inflicted amorous or mutual crush.

The eyes of two people who have a crush on each other can't be hidden at all, he likes you, he will peek at you from time to time, no exceptions, if you find that you and your crush often look at each other, then it means that she is secretly looking at you, but it just so happens that you are looking at each other, so there will be eye contact! If this is the case, it means that you have a crush on each other.

If you are sentimental, this person will be more indifferent to your words, but they care about your words.

For example, he greeted me and raised an eyebrow unconsciously, or he didn't meet me for a long time and looked at me a few times, and another boy said a few times and asked me to call him Dad, and joked, and once patted me on the shoulder directly from behind, an adolescent boy.

Judging from your description, he also has a crush on you.

1. Silently dedicate to each other.

In the process of crushing, you will willingly give for the other person, the kind that gives silently. Never ask for anything in return. You may be very careful, or you may secretly share some things for the other person.

Although the other party doesn't know, every time you finish it, you will be very happy and happy in your heart. Because you're doing something for someone you like, you feel content and fulfilled.

2. Fantasize about being with each other.

In the process of crushing, you will often fantasize about the scene where you confess to the other person and the other party promises you to confess, and then you begin to fantasize about the scene of you being together, fantasizing about the picture of you being happy and happy together. Imagine what kind of measures you take to confess, how the other person accepts you, and all kinds of beautiful situations when you become a couple. At this time, your heart is full of sweetness and beauty.

3. Being shy in front of each other.

In the process of having a crush, when you have a crush, when you appear in front of your crush, or when your crush appears in front of you, you will be very shy, very uncomfortable, very nervous. You even have a feeling of being afraid of the other person, especially wanting to see the other person, and when you do, you are afraid to see the other person. You may have a lot to say to the other person, but when the other person appears, you will not be able to say a word because of your excessive shyness.

Fourth, I care a lot about my image.

In the process of having a crush, when you have a crush, you will start to pay special attention to your own image. Look in the mirror often and start paying attention to what clothes you wear to look better and what hairstyle will suit you. Especially in front of your crush, you will pay special attention to your image and do not allow any mistakes or bad impressions.

5. Like everything about the other person.

In the process of having a crush, you will care a lot about everything about your crush, the other party's hobbies, the other party's usual performance, and the other party's every move, you will see it in your eyes. In your eyes, you will feel that everything about the other party is so perfect, without a single flaw. You start paying attention to the other person's interests, and you start liking the other person's interests.

You'll love everything about each other.

6. Care about the opposite sex around the other party.

In the process of crushing, you will care if there is another person of the opposite sex next to the other person. If there is, you will be very sad in your heart, and you will try your best to figure out the relationship between them. If you have a close relationship, you will be very lost and sad.

You are especially jealous of the existence of those of the opposite sex, especially those of the opposite sex who are frequently interacted with and are relatively close to.

Life is nothing more than self-inflicted amorousness, a little more, and there are generally fewer mutual crushes.

The key is whether the other person likes you or not. If the other party also likes you, then naturally he is definitely not self-inflicted!

I think there will be such a possibility, because my sex life is very emotional for others, and it may not matter to others, so I must love the person well.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you: self-inflicted affection or mutual crush, in fact, it is very simple, two people with two-way crushes show that they like each other, crush each other, will show that they care about each other in words, help each other in life, and do things will have a tacit understanding, which is a typical two-way crush.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you: self-affection or mutual crush, in fact, it's very simple, two people with two-way crushes show that they like each other, crush each other, and they will show that they care about each other in pure words.

If you are sentimental, this person will be more indifferent to your words than Mo Qin, but he doesn't care about your words and doesn't care about you, he doesn't care about you, he never asks you what you're doing, and he doesn't reply to a message or reply perfunctorily, etc., can be regarded as talking about sentimentality.

Summary. If you want to judge whether emotions are self-inflicted or secretly in love with each other, it depends on how the behavior of the two people behaves? If a boy likes a girl, and that girl doesn't like that boy, he is always refusing, always treating him coldly, this boy's words, it can only show that this boy is self-inflicted no matter how much he does at this moment, and he thinks he can impress the other party's behavior.

If you want to judge whether Han Shou is amorous or secretly in love with each other, it depends on how the behavior of the two people behaves? If a boy likes a girl, and that girl doesn't like that boy, he always talks about the number of stoves and refuses, and always treats him coldly, this boy's words, it can only show that this boy is self-inflicted at this moment, no matter how much he does at this moment, he thinks he can impress the opponent of the defeat.

So what about mutual crushes, that is, two people like each other, but they don't expose each other, but there will always be some clues, for example, two people, inadvertently look at each other or accidentally look at each other in the split, the other party is very focused on what the other party is doing, in fact, these are the source states that you can't see, and it is possible that he will stare at you quietly when you are busy.

The above are the teacher's views and answers on this matter.