The ancient women who became the maids of the room, who were willing to marry home?

In the ancient slave society to the feudal society, the status of women is very low, in the big family there is a very special identity of the maids, although they do very easy work during the day, but with the first-class maid with the same month, they are the maids. Not only do they have to complete the work of being maids during the day, but they also have to keep vigil at night, and sometimes they even have to meet the needs of their masters, which is very hard. In ancient times, a woman's reputation for chastity was more important than her life, and if someone was willing to marry someone after becoming a maid, it was either true love or some men who were difficult to marry.

First, it is difficult to marry a family in ancient times, men have three wives and four concubines is not only a common thing, but also recognized by the law, but some people are a lifetime of one wife, under the oppression and exploitation of feudal society, many people are difficult to make a living, so they only marry one wife, pass on the ancestry, for the rest of their lives, they are either poor, the family is surrounded by four walls, or blind and broken legs, it is difficult to marry, and they have to marry a maid in the house, this kind of social status is very low, and is criticized by others.

Second, if they are able to redeem themselves and get back the deed of sale signed with the master, they can still recover their free body and become a commoner, and the maid is not even a concubine, and after becoming a commoner, it is natural for a man to marry a woman and marry her freely. If the lover does not give up and does not dislike her identity, you can also marry her.

In ancient times, the social status of the maid was not only low, but also very embarrassing, and there was a suspicion of being between a slave and a master. He has a transcendent status among the maids of the main family, but he is usually a thorn in the eye of the main mother. And the maid in the room can only be raised to the aunt at most, whether it is the mother who is expensive by virtue of the son, or the servant of Israel, in the end she only becomes half of the master, and the status is not as good as her own child, and the master mother has the right to sell her at any time, and she can't enter the ancestral hall of her husband's family.

This is almost a tragic life at the end of the day, but under the ancient feudal system, it was not easy for women to survive, and it was also a helpless move.

Children of poor families. In ancient times, it was also very difficult to marry a wife and have children, so the children of poor families were also acceptable to the maids.

The maid came to the young lady's husband's house with her own young lady, and she married into her mother's family, and she had to help with everything, including when the young lady was pregnant, they needed to sleep with the male owner, in case the male owner went out to find flowers and grass and contracted a disease. Therefore, ordinary people will not marry a maid in a room, only the poor have no money to marry a serious girl, so they can only marry a maid.

There are some people who can't marry a daughter-in-law who are willing to marry a housemate. On the one hand, the family is poor and has no dowry to marry a daughter-in-law, and on the other hand, only the rich or powerful families will have a common house, and these girls have more knowledge than ordinary women.

After the girl is released by the rich family, there will still be ordinary people who want to marry home. Because there was an era of intercourse, the hierarchy was strict, and there was a huge difference between the powerful and the commoners, and it was already good for ordinary people to be able to marry a wife.

In ancient times, poor families or subordinates in the house would be willing to marry such women, because at that time, women themselves were not of high status, and they also advocated women's chastity, so only the poor and subordinates were willing to marry.

Reasons for needing a room:

First, the maid in the room should serve the master closely.

In ancient times, not all families had a maid in the room, and only the real rich and noble families would have a maid in the house. Moreover, most of the maids in the room are married by the hostess, and they specialize in serving the male and female hostesses.

Second, the maid in the room should dedicate herself to serve when the hostess is physically handicapable.

The maid in the room should not only serve the master closely, but also dedicate herself to serving the master. In ancient times, the male owners of wealthy families often had three wives and four concubines, which was a symbol of status. Therefore, the mistress who lives in the rich house must do everything possible to keep the male master in her room in order to maintain her position in the family.

Third, to pass on the lineage for the male owner.

Let the maid pass on the lineage, this is the most urgent duty of the maid in the room, and it is also the most important duty. In ancient times, it was a woman's greatest mission to pass on the lineage, but due to various conditions, giving birth to a child in ancient times was a ghost gate, and many people couldn't get through it. There are also some hostesses who are unable to have children for various reasons.

The status of the girl in the room

In the ancient Chinese marriage system, the status of the girl was lower than that of the concubine. Only a girl who has gone through the formalities and has a reputation can be called a concubine. The girl who has sex is almost the same as the concubine in terms of sex, but her status is not as good as that of the concubine, but it is higher than the average girl.

In the classical masterpiece "Dream of Red Mansions", there are many girls in the room, Ping'er is the girl in Jia Lian's house, and the raider can also be regarded as the girl in the Baoyu house.

In general,They can all remarry someone else, but it's more difficult. In ancient times, everyone's thinking was more feudal, thinking that the status of men was higher than that of women, so most men could marry three wives and four concubines, in addition to this, there were also girls in the room, as the name suggests, girls in the room are girls who can go to the master's house, and their status is very good in the girls. And their role is,On the one hand, because they can enter the master's room, it is more convenient to take care of the master, for example, when the master is with his wife and concubine, they go to the side and wait, in case there is any need, they must try to meet it.

On the other hand, it can meet the owner's needs, and many stubborn children who have money in the family, their parents will find a room girl for him, and their main task is to practice for them. Because for some knowledge that is not easy to impart, it can only be obtained through practice.

As mentioned earlier, their status is still relatively high, but most of their fate is worse than pride. This kind of person has more opportunities to come into contact with their masters, and if they are lucky, they can be a concubine in the house, but most of the cases do not exist, because their status is relatively humble. And for that kind of posture, there is no posture,Then the older maids are generally kicked out, and in ancient times, the innocence of women was very important, and even if such a person was kicked out, it would be difficult to marry someone else.

There is also a kind of maid who marries with the master, and their main role is to prevent the master's husband from messing around outside during the special period of their master, so they can only choose to sacrifice themselves to meet the man's physical needs. This kind of maid can be brought for a little longer than the average one, but in the end it has to be driven out.

So the ancient girls were still very miserableMost of them find it difficult to remarry, and even if someone wants it, they will probably be rejected by their husbands.

In ancient times, can a woman who was a girl in a room remarry someone else?

Generally, it is not allowed to marry others, and the ancient girl who had a room was equivalent to the existence of a concubine, but her status was much lower than that of a concubine. If you are a roomgirl, it is difficult to remarry.

In ancient times, a woman who was a girl in a room could remarry someone else. Being a girl in the house can also talk about marriage, and it doesn't matter.

In ancient times, it was basically difficult for a woman who was a girl to marry someone else, because she generally ended up miserable as a girl in a room, and she was either expelled or killed.

No, in ancient times, the girl who had a room was equivalent to a concubine, although she had no name, but she was also equivalent to a wife, and she would be a concubine in the future, so she couldn't remarry.

The lowest status among women in ancient times was the maid. Maids can be divided into two kinds, one is called a room-sharing maid, and the other is a general maid. And the status of the maid in the room is higher than that of the average maid.

Some people may be puzzled. In ancient times, a woman made a maid in the roomSo can she still marry someone else? Theoretically, in ancient times, a maid could still marry someone else, but it was very difficult for a maid to marry someone else.

1. A brief description of the maids in the room are generally some aristocratic people in costumes, and their status is generally low. And the status of the maid in the room is higher than that of the ordinary maid. But the fate of the maid may be a little more bumpy than that of the ordinary maid.

The main task of the maid is to serve some old masters and young masters in aristocratic families. To be precise, the maid can also be subdivided into two kinds, one is the maid who has sex before marriage, and the other is the maid who has sex after marriage. But there is not much difference in the status of these two kinds of maids.

Before marriage, the maid is generally some entertainment playthings for the young masters, and after marriage, the maid is likely to be arranged by the hostess of the family to see the eyes of the master and the young master to help him consolidate his position as the hostess.

Second, the fate of the maid in the roomThe fate of the maid in the room is mostly tragic. Perhaps some of the maids who had a room met a good hostess. Then she is likely to become a concubine in the house, and then live this life in peace.

But they will not have any children in this life, because the maids are not worthy of offspring. In old age, these concubines also lived a very bleak life. And there are some maids who have offended the hostess or the young master, so they are very likely to be bought and sold by the hostess or the young master to some green houses.

And when the maids come to such a place, their fate is destined to be a miserable life.

3. Overview: A maid in a room can marry someone else, but only with the consent of the hostess. However, in ancient times, they lost their virginity, and it was difficult for them to marry.

In ancient times, a maid who was a maid in a room was regarded as the property of the master's family, and under the distribution of the master's family, she could go out to marry, and if she did not get permission, she could not marry without permission. Most of the fate of the girls in the room is more tragic, the product of deformity under the feudal society.

A girl who has sex cannot marry someone other than her master. Because in ancient times, the girl who had a room was equivalent to having been taken over by the owner. I think that women in ancient times had little freedom, and their lives were basically predestined from birth.

To put it bluntly, the girl who has a room is the master's woman, and a better person can become a concubine, although she can remarry, but it is difficult, and everyone knows the experience of the girl who has a room, and a good person will not marry.

In ancient times, it was almost difficult for a maid who was a girl to remarry someone other than the master, because in ancient times, it was very important to pay attention to this aspect of the woman, so it was generally difficult to remarry.

The ancient maids needed to do the following:

The girl who manages the housework is the person brought by the young lady, and they are always of the same mind as the young lady. Often, they will take the place of the young lady to take care of the housework, similar to a housekeeper and a bad respect.

The most important fight is that the girl in the room is deeply trusted by the male and female protagonists. It's like Wang Xifeng's right-hand man on weekdays. Therefore, the girl in the house is still an indispensable role in a large family.

Continuing the incense, some heroines may be married, but she is infertile. At this time, the girl who brought her over took on the responsibility of continuing the incense. It's okay that Wang Xifeng can't have children, and Ping'er will give birth to Wang Xifeng.

Once the intercourse girl gives birth to a child, their status will change.

If they give birth to children for the male protagonist, to a large extent, they will all change from intercourse girls to concubines. Therefore, the girl in the room must hope that she can give birth to the male protagonist.

Maiden

The word maid is also known as "maid ring". The word is used as a personal pronoun to refer to a servant, but in ancient times it also originally referred to a woman's hairstyle. This hairstyle is to comb the braid into a ring, one on the left and one on the left, like a tree, because the young maid combs this hairstyle more, so it is called'Maiden

Yahuan, also known as the handmaiden, is a product of feudal and capitalist society, and is the lowest class of society. Yahuan mostly refers to relatively young maidservants, the older Yahuan is called Lao Yahuan, and there are also called "old mothers", and the old Yahuan is called "Mama" in "Dream of Red Mansions".

What these maids do is very simple, the main thing is to help the male protagonist warm the bed.

1. Work before going to bed:

First of all, before the man goes to bed, what the maid needs to do is to wash herself, and only wear a small amount of clothes into the bed, and warm the bed with her own body temperature, which may take about half an hour. In the process of warming the bed, he can not sleep soundly, let alone play, and after the bed is warm, he will invite the master to come to bed.

2. Serve the master to sleep:

Secondly, after the owner comes to the bedroom, the master unties his clothes and makes the bed. If you meet the owner's old age, you have to support and wait for the master to adjust the sleeping position. During this period, you must not make the slightest mistake, otherwise you will cause discomfort to the owner and will be punished.

It can be said that this process is very cautious and cautious.

3. Help the owner warm his feet:

After completing the above two processes, can the maid go back to sleep by herself at this time? The answer is no, and there is one final process. The temperature in winter is relatively cold, and the room at that time is heated by a brazier at most, so the temperature in the house is still relatively low.

In addition, people who sleep at night in winter have their feet the most likely to be cold, so these maids also have to help the owner warm his feet to ensure that the owner's feet are not frozen in the middle of the night. This work is done by two maids, one of each with one foot, in their arms, to warm the master's feet.

Classification of maids:

Different maids do different things, some are responsible for serving tea and pouring water, some are responsible for cleaning the courtyard, and some are responsible for cooking on the fire, which means that the slow work and fine work in the house are all taken care of by the maids. But there is another kind of maid, they don't have to do these jobs on weekdays, but they just serve the life of the male host, and they have a name: Tongfang maid.

In addition to warming the bed, one of the most important functions of the maids is that when the lady is inconvenient, if they meet an energetic host, they will replace the hostess and the male protagonist to have a room. The status of the maids itself is not high, and in the face of such unreasonable demands, they cannot resist, and if they do not obey the order, they will be severely beaten.