Who knows the importance of family style and family discipline education?

1 The status of family discipline and family style.

Family discipline culture is an important part of traditional Chinese culture, which has great reference value for the maintenance of family relations in traditional society, national governance, social development, the cultivation of excellent family style, the construction of family virtues, and the improvement of young people's moral literacy. Family motto forms family style, and family style is the externalization and concretization of family motto, which is a potential intuitive education. Family style is a traditional fashion in a family formed on the basis of parental advocacy and practice, inheritance and development of children and grandchildren, with ethics and moral education as the main content, and used to cultivate individual morality and standardize individual behavior.

As the essence of influencing and uniting family members, the family style is like a spring breeze and rain, moisturizing things silently. The traditional family motto attaches great importance to the construction and inheritance of various fine family styles, and carries out family education in the invisible edification infection. Zhang Lin, Chen Yanbin and others put forward according to the results of the investigation:

At present, the public fully affirms the status and role of the family in social construction and family style in family construction; The close relationship between family style and social atmosphere, family education and personal development is more recognized; Affirm the value of the times of traditional family motto culture, and traditional virtues are still the basic connotation of contemporary excellent family style.

2. The relationship between family discipline and family style and the core values of socialism.

In Chinese society, social governance and social harmony are based on personal cultivation and family harmony. As a part of the traditional culture with Chinese characteristics, family style and family motto are naturally interrelated with the core values of socialism, which are important achievements of socialist culture with Chinese characteristics at the present stage. Tian Xuming et al. proposed:

China's excellent traditional family motto culture not only contains the spiritual elements of the core values of socialism, providing rich nourishment for them, but also highlights the ethics of virtue and cultivates the "virtue" of the core values. It can be seen from this that family discipline and family style culture are the theoretical origin and support of the core values of socialism. Liu Ying et al. proposed:

The traditional Chinese family motto and the core values of socialism are two value systems that are both distinct from each other and interrelated. Drawing on the excellent ideas of traditional Chinese family motto culture, finding their consistency in ideology, ethics and morality, cultivating noble personality and cultivating patriotic citizens, and summarizing the empirical characteristics of the traditional Chinese family motto education mechanism that is close to life, starting from an early age, continuous indoctrination, and the unity of knowledge and action, will certainly be beneficial to the cultivation of socialist core values in the current era. Explore the implication of ideological and political education in the good family style and family motto, including the objectives, content and methods of ideological and political education contained in the good family style and family motto.

Combining fine family style and family discipline with ideological and political education is conducive to enriching and perfecting the content and form of ideological and political education, promoting the core socialist values, and improving the results of ideological and political education, and is of great significance to building a harmonious socialist society.

The report of the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China emphasized: "Build an excellent traditional culture inheritance system and carry forward the excellent traditional Chinese culture."

Good family style and family motto are an important part of traditional culture. March Rain's professional curatorial consultant suggests that the following options should be used to understand its significance:

1. Family style and family motto are the "cornerstone" of social harmony and stability. The positive family style and family motto seep into the blood of children and grandchildren, infiltrate into the culture of society, and affect the social atmosphere. For society, family style and family motto are the power of morality and the belief in rules.

Second, the family style and family motto lay the foundation for the moral education of citizens. Family style and family motto are not only the first link of the entire social education system, but also the foundation of civic moral education. Family motto is the cradle of cultivating citizens' personality virtues, and family style is the vane of people's customs and national style.

3. Family style and family motto affect people's lives. Parents and elders are the enlightenment teachers of children, and children's lives will be branded with family style and family mottos.

Fourth, the family style and family discipline cultivate a sound personality. Family is the first lesson in life, and a good family style and family discipline help to cultivate a sound personality. Family style and family motto is the most basic and regular education, which shapes personality through daily life, influences people's hearts, and makes every family member unforgettable through words and deeds.

Fifth, the family style and family discipline create personal quality cultivation. A good family style and family motto is the spiritual nourishment of a person's noble personality. To a large extent, the quality cultivation of an individual is influenced by his family style and family discipline, and is closely related to the origin of family learning, the inheritance of family style, and the edification of family discipline.

Family style refers to the traditional customs of a family or clan. It is also a family's way of life and cultural atmosphere, which constitutes the family style. As the name suggests, family style is the atmosphere, style and fashion of a family.

In other words, when a family's house rules and family mottos form the family's public behavior habits, it constitutes the family style, and the family style is the family culture of a family or a family. Genealogy is a tool to carry family culture, and Internet genealogy is a tool to carry family culture for a new generation.

Family motto is traditional Chinese culture.

It is also an important part of the family tree, which plays an important role in the self-cultivation of individuals and the Qi family in Chinese history. Ethics includes social morality.

Work ethic, family virtues.

And so on, family mottos belong to the category of family virtues. The family and the country are isomorphic, and the family motto of a family is equivalent to the moral standard of a country, such as the family motto of Zeng Guofan and the family motto of Zhu Zi.

Gan's family motto, etc. The family motto is the moral standard of the family, and if you violate the family motto, you will be condemned by morality.

As mentioned above, we find that family style and family discipline directly affect national decision-making and even dominate certain areas of national consciousness, which seems to be too idealistic. But judging from its ability to evolve and its strong vitality, this is not impossible. Due to the monopoly of the ancient scholar class, the uneven development of the family is very obvious.

This situation gradually became the norm for the local customs and disciplines, and became the norm for the land of the surname.

Now, with the current state increasing the absorption and excavation of China's excellent traditional culture, and the continuous development of national quality, because of the family style and family motto, the formation of social morality force, and then supplement and develop the national legal system. Therefore, this complementary model is unquestionable.

Then, from the perspective of contemporary society, we can classify the importance of family style and family motto mainly in the following significance:

Clause. 1. Firmly establish patriotic ideology. In the family style and family motto, the relationship between the family and the country has been determined a long time ago. We pass on the excellent cultural content of the family and country culture from generation to generation, which plays a very important role in maintaining and defending the dignity of the country.

Clause. 2. Effectively purify the social atmosphere. Family style and family motto are mainly through soft and hard means to strengthen the normative awareness of neighbors. At present, although some surnames have established clan associations, they themselves do not play a role in exhortation, mutual assistance, etc., which is contrary to the purpose of family inheritance.

From this point of view, it is also urgent to strengthen the guidance of the state on the organization of surname culture, standardize the local family culture, and strengthen its role.

Clause. 3. Vigorously promote cultural construction. The family style and family motto have been inherited by a family for thousands of years. It is an extremely valuable cultural treasure in itself.

He has great or considerable reference significance for the current family building and national construction, and also has a great role in promoting the construction of socialist civilization in the new era.

Clause. Fourth, effectively promote social communication. One of the most important issues in many family mottos is the content of "good neighborliness and friendship". As the old saying goes, "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors", it tells us that a village, a town, you may be facing a complex social relationship, which requires you to constantly strengthen communication with others, strengthen communication.

For many of the current "zero communication", "neighbors are like passers-by" is also very common, how to strengthen the family style and family discipline, and then affect the community culture will be a very important topic in the future.

Clause. Fifth, it is conducive to the development of harmonious relations. As mentioned in the fourth point above, strengthen the role of family style and family discipline, and then promote friendly communication in society. This paves the way for China's "harmony" culture. At the same time, it can purify the social atmosphere and develop harmonious relations in complex social relations.

Every good family must have a good family style....In every beautiful and happy family, it will be warm because of the company of parents, and it will also be accompanied by the harmonious atmosphere of family style.

A good family style can make a child grow up well, and I live in such a good family style. At home, my parents will inevitably quarrel because of some bumps, but they never blame or scold each other, and what shows me more is their rational side. Usually at home, my mother will often nag how to respect teachers and classmates at school, and will talk about some truths about taking a step back and broadening the sky, not so much that she is the mother who gave birth to me and raised me, but that she is the first mentor in my life.

Every time there is the most topic at the dinner table, I always feel that this time of day is a summary of the day, of course, the etiquette at the dinner table must be followed, my mother often warns me of these points: don't gobble up when eating, the mouth can't make a sound of chirping, it is strictly forbidden to speak loudly while eating, and you can't ...... with your legs crossed. Although these rules are a kind of constraint to me, it is precisely because of these constraints that I can grow better.

I often hear people next to me praise him like this: "This child is really cultivated and looks very well-behaved." "I think the reason why this child is so praised is because he has been in a good family environment for a long time, and a person's cultivation cannot be fashioned.

Therefore, we must build a harmonious family atmosphere, parents must learn to set a good example at home, and similarly, we must maintain a close relationship with our children, and we must learn to suppress our bad emotions in front of our children.