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Anonymous users2024-02-12Maintaining a family after marriage is an art.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11No, it should be like walking into the exam room.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Never know what will happen after that.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Hello. I finally understood why I panicked when I heard the news of my classmate's marriage! It's like an exam, and everyone writes their own papers, but once someone starts to hand in the papers, they inevitably get nervous...The more people who handed in the papers, the more anxious they became, and in the end, they hastily handed over Wang Guangmu....As for those who didn't hand in the paper in the end, only the early withering was dragged away by the teacher.
Now many friends and classmates are getting married and having children one by one. I always thought that these things were still far away, very far away. From the first shock when I heard about the couple when I got married, and then I heard that so-and-so classmate was getting married, pregnant, and having a child, and now it is.
Oh, who's married. Time flies so fast, it's been almost five years since I graduated, but I still think of the past, the days in school, it feels so close, but it is so far away, time will not go back, and everything can't go back to the beginning. I've thought about it a lot, but I've seen a lot, life, do you really have to go on in such a pattern?
Maybe it's because I've seen too much, too clearly, so I look down on everything. When I saw what my cousin wrote, I felt as if I was out of touch with society, and it had been more than a year; Some classmates and friends said that I didn't know what I wanted to do anymore, and I didn't know what I could do. There are also a lot of zero-lock troubles in life, some regret and some chagrin. Getting married and having children, is this the ultimate destination for women?
Is it the way to go?
walked into marriage, gave birth to children, and then, lost self-confidence and was out of touch with society, and then, to keep up with the pace of this era, how much does it take more than men? Can marriage settle everything and stabilize a lifetime? Oh, in this era of super high divorce rates, no, nothing will not change, only changes will change all the time.
Find a good person and get married", heh, good people, who is a good person, who is a good person who can remain unchanged for a lifetime? So why bet your happiness on others, why let others dictate your own happiness? There are only two kinds of women in the world, one is happy and the other is strong, the happy one is held in the palm of the hand and does not need to be strong, but the strong one has to be strong.
In this society, there are more of the latter.
If you are not strong, who will you show if you are cowardly? You will meet many people in your life. Some people love you, some people are jealous of you, some people treat you as a treasure, and some people don't take you seriously. Satisfied.
In fact, not everyone is suitable for marriage, marriage is not an essential answer in life, if we compare life with the test papers, then there is no doubt that marriage is another issue, if you do it right, you will get extra points, when you are in love, you will spend some time with her, sometimes happy, sometimes sad, when you are not in love, you can spend your time on things that you think are interesting and happy, whether you are in love or not, the essence is the same, The person who was frowning when she smelled the durian praline cake already had tiramisu waiting for her. >>>More
The first thing you see when you see the bride should be to wish you a happy marriage and full of happiness, and sincerely wish you the sun and the moon to shine together, hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son. Personal opinion.
Even if your girlfriend's very good friend is married, it is impossible to "ask" you for how much money you pay. The real gift money should be as much as it should be, it all depends on the situation, and it is impossible to say that they ask for at least 1200 to get 1200. It depends on the situation, you are still a student, or a consumer, you don't have to give so much money, even if you are working, you can't give so much just because your friends are married, and it is still "prescribed". >>>More
Why is marriage called a cave house? Legend has it that in the primitive society period, when the male primitive saw the female primitive person he liked, he would knock her unconscious with a wooden stick, and then carry her to his cave, which was the earliest cave room, and the marriage word for marriage was one.
I'm sorry to tell you that he is a man with no sense of responsibility, and he has been avoiding this, and you can see that it is evading responsibility! Oh, I was wrong about what I just said, people who are not responsible are not men at all! The first task you have to do now is to pull yourself back from him, don't live too emotionally, be realistic, a man like him who has no sense of responsibility will not have much interest in the future, and also, the economic base determines the superstructure, you must always put the economy first in your mind, this is not to say that you become hard-hearted, that is because feelings must definitely have a certain economic foundation to survive, this truth you don't want to experiment with yourself anymore, and, have you considered your children? >>>More