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First of all, we need to understand that now that we are in the period of physical and intellectual growth, the so-called love must not affect our study and life. Since everyone's study, life and psychological state are different, I should carefully consider where I should focus on and how to deal with the feelings of the people around me in the face of the onset of adolescence. Only by fully learning and facing the people and things around you with an open mind can you spend this good time of youth rationally and happily.
Secondly, some people say that adolescent love affects learning, and some say that it promotes learning. In fact, this varies from person to person, adolescent love may be able to relieve the pressure given by campus and parents in the process of study and life, but it may also cause a loss of interest in learning, resulting in a lot of unnecessary irritability and depression. Therefore, for adolescent love, do not be afraid and disgusted by such a phenomenon, nor do you want to affect the deliberate pursuit of learning, but face yourself first and examine whether you can handle your studies and feelings in an orderly manner.
The criterion for the examination is whether it does not affect one's learning, and if it does, it proves that oneself is not suitable for pursuing love in the current situation.
Finally, on the issue of sex, our minds and bodies are still in the immature stage of development, and we are not fully prepared in terms of psychological bearing and social responsibility, so sex can wait, do not have excessive behavior at this stage, and the green apples will be sweeter after waiting for the redness.
Therefore, teenagers, in the face of adolescent love (early love), should consider the above three suggestions on the premise of recognizing themselves. If you can really do it, who will stop such a wonderful relationship? Valentine's Day should be just an ordinary holiday!
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It's just that they have just stepped into the stage of maturity, and they are very vague about the true meaning of love, and the so-called love is just out of a curiosity and mature desire. Of course, there are people who find true love, and it's hard to say about fate. Take care of yourself.
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There will be such a stage to face up to the problem of early love.
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In fact, the answer is simple.
First of all, adolescents are in adolescence and have a strong imitation and rebellious mentality, and adolescents in this period have a strong desire for new things.
Imitation power,And,The pursuit of youth idols also accounts for a large aspect.。
Secondly, they will think that it is cool, someone is intimate, someone understands, and there will not be a generation gap like with their parents.
Furthermore, there is not enough understanding of the opposite sex, hoping to attract the attention of the opposite sex.
As long as the friendship between teenagers is properly handled, there will not be many things about early love.
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Puppy love is an excessively intimate mutual proximity between two unbridled sexuals during the sexual maturation of adolescence. Nowadays, most people call puppy love too close. Boys and girls begin to mature because of their sexual development, and they instinctively develop feelings of love for each other.
Feel. Some people show unrequited love alone, some people break through the shackles of shyness, hand notes, date, pour out their love for each other, help each other under the pretext, and are inseparable, while others have further sexual contact.
Adolescent adolescents are prone to emotional impulsiveness, but they are very fragile, emotionally unstable, think about problems simply, and rarely consider the consequences, this psychological condition makes early love as unpredictable as a floating cloud on the horizon, and the emotions of young lovers will fluctuate and fluctuate, and their feelings between each other are often volatile.
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In the case of early love, there is a factor of family Wang Xiao, and there is a lot of contact at school, which will produce a good impression, and over time, there will be a phenomenon of early love.
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Because of loneliness and adolescence, they will have a good impression of someone of the opposite sex.
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This is just normal.
And I personally think that there is no such thing as puppy love. Because it's just what teachers and parents impose on us.
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