Is it true that people who care about survival, making a living, reality, and family have no ideals

No. Caring for survival and making a living in reality.

Is there no ideals and dreams?

Personally, I think. That's not true.

Ideals and dreams.

As long as it hasn't been achieved yet.

It can always be in the heart.

Just face it.

You have to deal with it first.

The problem at hand.

It's about survival and taking on the responsibilities of the family.

The dream is still there. It takes time to make it happen.

People's ideals and dreams are there all the time, just to survive and earn a living, reality and family can't achieve what they like.

It's not that there are no ideals. Instead, every day I only care about survival, making a living, reality, and family, and thinking about ideals and dreams is less and less. Ideal dreams feel farther and farther away.

In fact, people's ideals and dreams are not castles in the air, but the ideological pursuit of life and higher than life.

Ideals are born in life, which is the imagination and expectation of a better life, and the driving force that leads people to look out of the trough of thinking and look at the future, and move their vision from one acre and three points under their feet to the vast world.

However, the ideal is also a specific way of life, and it is a qualitative change and improvement of the original life foundation, so sometimes the ideal is a lofty life plan, and sometimes the ideal is only to obtain three meals a day. It can be seen that the ideal is the plan and expectation that changes with the strength of the individual's ability, so it can be said that the ideal is the spokesperson of the ability, and the ability is the spiritual pillar of the ideal. When the state of personal development reaches a certain level, there will be a corresponding life plan and ideals.

Everyone has a dream.

In the past, I used to dream about what I would do in the future, how to say it, but in fact, things are generally going well, but in detail, it is still much worse than the original intention.

The gap between the ideal and the reality I think sometimes we really can't do it, and a lot of things are not our fault.

Only to face.

Keep adjusting your mindset to calm down and find a solution.

Be calm and sensible.

There is only one thing but to face death and death.

What is imagined is certainly beautiful. The feelings that reality gives may be real.

Repeating it many times, our imagination will follow reality, and even reach reality.

Maybe it's "success" for something.

We just live in, ...... in the process of life

I don't think there's anything wrong with it, I think about my feelings, and I feel my ...... in life

It's a complicated experience.

Pursue your own ideals.

Don't indulge in reality, but adapt to the times.

Embrace reality with a detached and generous heart, and grasp and control reality with a wise mind.

Open your mouth and laugh out loud Don't think too much about it The reality is cruel Before doing things, prepare for the worst, prepare for the best, and you will find that everything is beautiful.

Borrowing wine to dispel worries and boating in the rivers and lakes is the king.

When you feel like your shoes aren't good enough, someone doesn't have feet.

It's very simple, don't accept the ideas you give yourself now, people's ideas are always the pursuit of beauty, but in fact, many times people don't need perfection, perfection needs defects to set off, so I think that the ideal beauty is not the so-called beauty at all, but just an illusion, and the real beauty is still in our hearts, because all the beauty is judged by ourselves, what do you say, I hope you can be satisfied with my answer.

So the doubt is because it is not deeply involved in the world. These are not clichés. You should go to the hospital.

Go and get along with people with disabilities and intellectual disabilities. How those who are afflicted by illness look forward to health. How people with intellectual disabilities want to have a normal life.

Don't think you're wasting resources. What you've experienced is nothing compared to others. People are born to endure hardship.

Just laugh at yourself. Then (if you're not mentally retarded) you yourself should know what to do.

If you don't have ideas, you can't naturally talk about action. How can you turn your dreams into reality without action? Even if you have an ideal and work hard for it, you may not succeed. Not to mention that there is not even this idea, and there is no beautiful reality for the future that corresponds to the idea.

The landlord's personality is too cowardly!! In this information age, a new change every day, 5 million college graduates graduate every year, and 3 million junior and senior high school students are ready to find employment, have you ever thought that you can compete with them? When it comes to dreams, if you don't even have the conditions to survive, dreams are empty talk.

Those who have seen the animal world know a principle: natural selection. It is also suitable to put it in society, life is countless PK games, only by maintaining a competitive heart and putting it into action can you laugh proudly, even if God does not favor you, you have a clear conscience.

A college student still thinks so much that it is already very good for you to be able to arrange a state-owned enterprise for you with this education.

I feel the same way you do. There is no hope, and it is impossible to imagine how to live. But you're nothing, take me as an example.

My husband went from gambling to losing nothing, to the 200,000 yuan that was still in the loan bank last year, and 60,000 private ones, until yesterday, I received a ** for 20,000 yuan, and he ** has been shutting down, probably because he is afraid of asking for money. I really don't understand that there are people who have the ability to play online games at home every day, isn't it even more hopeless. The child is not well nourished, and none of his relatives are willing to lend money, and he does not know where to borrow it.

It's really chilling, really helpless, really lost.

You're still young, I couldn't let go of a year of falling out of love at your age, and then I quit my job and went to work as a coolie for a start-up.

Later, the company succeeded and was bought by a large American company.

Hurry up. It's never too late until you're 30 years old.

Everyone's fate is different. It's enough to do the best you can.

If you don't believe in yourself, who else can believe in you? Not having a direction now doesn't prove that you don't have a direction in the future, does it? You can post here to show that you want to have a direction but you can't find the direction, people will have times when they are confused, and there are times when they make mistakes, isn't Jiang Ziya also 70 to see the direction?

How many years has it been since Bai Suzhen saw love? How old are you? If you don't work hard, if you don't take the first step, where do you get the fighting spirit?

I don't know how many times you've been in the state of mind that you want to die, right? Then come back and say, you're not afraid of death, what are you afraid of? It's rare to have a few times in life, isn't it?

This friend, as far as I personally think, you must understand the big truths of life better than anyone else, but you don't know how to do it, you are more entangled in your own life, you must have your own dreams, but it is still relatively vague, you take into account a lot of things, you don't want to tell your parents that you don't want to increase their pressure, which shows that you are a person who cares about other people's ideas, maybe your road has been paved at the beginning, there is no chance to choose, and it is indeed unrealistic to start over at the age of 28. You can do a good job of the job you have now, at least you don't hate your current job, right, because it is not easy to find a job, especially at this time, the competitiveness is also great, right, and it is not too late to do what you want to do, not necessarily what you do now will be engaged in this job in the future, some people find their dreams when they are old, this is not unusual, life is always dull, and it must be unsatisfactory! Happiness is the most important thing!

I envy your salary! Many undergraduate and master's students are now unable to find a job. You still don't cherish it? What are you swinging wide? Where do you have so many dreams in life, you have read too many books. I don't have anything to say to people like you.

I'm about ten years younger than you.

I didn't study after graduating from high school, and it is indeed difficult to step into the threshold of society.

I'm different from you, and I'm at a turning point. Unlike others, I'm more mature than them.

You're just putting pressure on yourself, and that's not going to do any good.

It may be helpful for you to calm down and think, but being anxious is not the solution.

I don't have any dreams, but I seek happiness, true happiness!

The river did not carry the cover, and the roof of the building was not sealed, so the pig could die

There are too many Chinese, and one less of you is nothing.

Don't try hard enough, don't make too many excuses for yourself. Have you tried? Dude, we are all men, and we can't fall when the sky falls.

Let's find a goal first, that is, what you need most now, and really work hard for yourself in a direction, the greatest effort.

First of all, congratulations! You've got it, you've got it, you've got it going, it's a good start, it's a good start, and the fact is that a lot of people have been stuck in this state and confused, and that's what I did before, and I'm trying to make some changes.

Try to set a goal, there is a goal, there is a way forward, try to do something, make some changes, such as playing less games, and watching more inspirational movies, documentary deeds, adjust your mentality, take stock of your current situation, gains and losses, wealth and debt, and integrate all your resources (personal resources, interpersonal resources, social related resources, etc.).

Listen to what you said, your conditions should be quite good, the point is that you have to do it if you think about it, as long as you do it, you will reap the rewards, and you will definitely succeed.

Otherwise, living a comfortable life as you describe it now is not a kind of happiness, the key is your state of mind.

Since you are not willing to be ordinary, you must realize the value of your life.

The sales industry can allow you to get a thorough exercise, its threshold may not be very high, you don't need a high degree of education, as long as you have courage and resourcefulness, I think you should correct your mentality, in fact, we post-90s or you post-80s will appear when you are so confused when you work, some people are willing to be a small staff of the company, with a meager salary, but some people choose another industry, it requires you to make continuous efforts, do not give up, let you learn from failure, since you have such conditions You might as well try another industry and trust that your family will support you.

You let go yourself, I also want to open a small store similar to **, but unfortunately I don't have the capital.

Now that you have, you might as well try to plan your life according to your heart's thoughts.

Understand you. Sometimes it feels like the meaning of life is all about money. Isn't your distress just that you don't have money? Actually, you.

Life is okay, at least there is food and drink. I don't think you don't understand the truth. It's useless to say anything.

Tomorrow is unknown. At least we can hope for a better tomorrow. Money is important, of course.

But that's not the most important thing. Identify with yourself. Know yourself.

How difficult it doesn't matter? In fact, many things are done well, and they will be happy. Treat friends and family sincerely, want them to live well, and work harder for yourself.

Suffer more. That's for sure, and it's a must. Try out the unknown, why care if you really have nothing.

Having a strong heart is the most important thing! It's not too late for a man to stand at thirty!

Hehe. When I first saw it, I felt a deep feeling. The landlord is much bigger than me.

mmThis year is the third year of high school, and I haven't yet reached adulthood -- I felt like this when I was just a junior in high school, and I felt like I had no desires. When I was a sophomore in high school, I made up math at 10 to 12 o'clock in the morning on Sundays, and then took a taxi for half an hour to learn to dance from 1:30 to 3 o'clock.

Then I took a taxi back and had physics class at four o'clock until six o'clock. I had to go home at night and do my homework, and sometimes I didn't have time to eat at noon and ran to dance, and I was so tired at that time, but I felt so happy. Especially in this situation, learning to dance makes me feel that this time is not easy to come by, and I should cherish it.

As a result, after entering the third year of high school, I felt that I didn't want anything, I didn't study well, I didn't learn dance well, and I didn't practice much. I feel lost. I asked myself what I was going to school for, and my teachers and parents said that studying hard was to get into a good university, and I thought this answer was very superficial.

What are we going to university for? Have a good job? Make a lot of money?

Or is it to find a good husband? I don't think so. Probably because I'm a Sagittarius, Sagittarius admires themselves, and that's how I am.

There is a good saying: life is happy, death is regretless. Only when you are alive live the life you want and live according to your own wishes.

I think that's life. Dreams and pursuits are all built on this. Just like now, I don't think about how to study well and how to get into a good university, I think about how I want to stick to my will to live my life.

As for dreams, when you know what you want in life, you will naturally find out. So I suggest that the landlord think more about what he wants! Life is too short, if you don't know what you want now, if you don't enjoy life, will you regret it before you die?

In a word: My life is up to me. I hope that the landlord will live the life he really wants as soon as possible, and it will not be in vain to walk in this world.

Hey hey * o * little girl humble opinion, don't laugh at the landlord! orz

PS add: I don't think the landlord needs to care so much about how others live, after all, everyone's lifestyle is different. I saw a reporter interview with a cleaning lady and asked her if her life was bad now, but the cleaning lady said that she felt very happy because her son studied hard in school, and his husband worked hard at night like him, and she felt that she was very happy, she had a complete home, a son who worked hard and a husband who worked hard for the family with her.

I thought, if these people who live at the bottom can see their own happiness, why can't we? The standards of happiness are different, and only happiness from the heart is true happiness. Instead of envying other people's lives, let's discover more about the beauty you have.

As for what others say, don't care, we live for ourselves and not for others. As long as you feel that you are living worthy of yourself, then everything is perfect!!