What is it like to live every day the way you want it to be?

I don't know what I want to live like I want to be, people are always changing their minds in the process of growing up, one day you feel that you have achieved the goal you want, but when you reach it, you will have a new goal. Tell me about my own life experience. I met my wife in 2011 when she was 19 and I was 25.

We met in April, and I'm still studying, and I can be assigned a job after two years of study. In August of that year, my father's illness** had previously undergone surgery. The doctor said it was only a few months, and I broke down and cried on the guardrail of the hospital for a long time.

My father wanted to see me get married before he died, and let me marry my wife. I didn't want to get married at all, because my father's sick family spent a lot of money at that time, and my father owed a lot of debts due to business failures, and finally it was nearly 400,000 yuan. I told my wife to break up, and she said that no matter how difficult it was, we would fight together.

My wife resolutely married me, and I still admire my wife's courage, I think 90% of girls will not be able to do it. In this way, we got married in October, and we lived in an old house with my parents. I especially remember that winter, eating potatoes and pickles for the winter.

I didn't know how to fry before, but I learned it that winter, and every time I finished frying, my wife smiled and said it was delicious, and I never complained about the single food. On New Year's Day in 2012, my father passed away, and life has been very tight, my mother's salary is almost not much, and my wife pays me for the tuition for the second year of study. Inviting friends to dinner is at home, and there is no money to invite friends to a restaurant when you make something yourself.

At that time, my goal was to earn money to buy my wife some clothes and things that I liked. In the past 14 years, I have been working, and my life has gradually become better, and I can meet the normal expenses of the family, and I will buy some new clothes for my wife. At this time, I have achieved what I want, 16 years after the child was born, the house is very cold, the air conditioner is turned on in winter, and I have to wear cotton clothes, at this time I want to buy a new house so that the child can live in a warm house, and I bought a house at the end of 17.

People are always not satisfied, it is difficult to live as you want, but I live a life that my friends envy, although I am not rich, but my wife is very good, the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and my life is happy and happy. What you work hard to get will be very happy and meaningful.

Two years ago, I was a junior in high school, and I was immersed in the same light as I do now, but the difference was that there were piles of test papers in front of me that year, and now, I have the scented oat milk in front of me. In the third year of high school, although busy, although tired, but at least every day has a goal, I know what I should do, and I know that I must be admitted to college, so I can relax. Now, I finally got my wish and walked into college, but when I got used to this leisurely life, I actually felt a little empty, I didn't know what the current goal was, I didn't know the direction of the future, it seemed that the edges and corners of the middle school years were smoothed out by life, and I would never be self-righteous and feel that anything could be done.

Everyone wants to live their life the way they like, but most people don't know what they like to live their life like. You may say, rich and free, etc. But these are things that you don't have in your current life, how are you going to live it, so first of all, you have to understand yourself first.

Only when you understand yourself can you know life. Down-to-earth, full of heart, every day is a meaningful day.

My current life is the heaviest burden, several students, have entered the most important period, learning and being a person are critical periods, both adults are still a little sick, it is to take the uphill road of life, one is tighter than the other, everything has to be done by themselves, personally. I must encourage myself to do more dedicatedly and better, to care more for others, to make myself Guo Yaru more satisfied and do my best, to be a generous woman, but also to be a sunny woman, so that Guo Yaru This woman can live a solid and conscientious life, do her best, live with self-esteem, self-confidence, self-improvement, and send the light and heat on her body, so that everyone can experience and feel.

My profession is a secondary school teacher, and the life I want to live is to use my hard work and hard work to educate students well, so that my students can have both ability and political integrity, graduate from middle school, be successfully admitted to university, and have a good future in the future; That's the life I want! I hope that my wife will be healthy, my children will grow, my family will be harmonious, and I will be happy with each other, which is the life I want. In short, dedication, housekeeping, and making students successful and family happy are the lives I want to live.

People's life, from near to far, from far to near, when young there is no condition to go far, old like a migratory bird flying far away, after all, to guard their own nest. Now that I'm getting old, I'm going to try to keep going, going far, until I can't swim anymore. I love to travel.

Do what you love. There is nothing to fight, so I am happy.

From a farmer to a businessman, after decades of hard work, he has a car, a house, a storefront, and a deposit in the city; There are more than 700 square meters of single-family buildings in the township. There are also two or three acres of fields. The body is very healthy, and the little life is good.

I have been accustomed to recording my life in words for 25 years, recording the joys, sorrows and sorrows of my life. The form also ranges from junior high school to university, from a thick diary, to QQ space, WeChat circle of friends, and then to a new beginning. I hope this will be another home for my soul.

Start another brilliant life.

More than half of my life, I looked back silently and found that I had lived a wonderful life. There is a direction in life, insist on learning and self-awareness every day, and treat people and things around you with sincerity. Gradually, there is a group of loyal followers around me, a group of friends of the same frequency.

And the reason they follow is that I am always full of positive energy. was confessed by such warm words, and his heart naturally blossomed back to chaos, but after contemplation, he found that he had lived every day as he wanted.

Life is a mirror, if you cry at it, it will shed tears and be dull; You smile at it, and it smiles and reciprocates. Instead of complaining about the injustice of fate, take life seriously and live it the way you want it to.

Text|Wei Wei

There will always be a chain that destroys the sky, I no longer lose sleep, and all the thoughts of the middle of the night can become a star, illuminating the road ahead of me.

There will come a time when I will no longer hesitate and think that I can't get over the hurdle, and I will take the first step with a slight leap.

There will come a day when I am no longer at a loss, and those problems that cannot be solved will be slowly groped to solve them one by one.

There will come a day when I will no longer wait, pack my bags, see all the beautiful mountains and rivers, and taste all the delicious special snacks.

There will come a day when I no longer miss a story, a person, to write a new chapter and step into the next journey.

There will always be a day when I don't look back, and sometimes the regret of missing out is to meet a better version of myself.

There will come a time when I will no longer be dependent, the so-called safe haven is not safe, and it will not be difficult to get up and start again.

There will come a day when I will no longer be sad, smile and tell about the passing years, write about my youth, and record the best times.

There will come a day when I no longer hesitate, life is so short, and the longing of my heart is the distance I want.

Don't be in a hurry, the best will always come when you least expect it.

— Taichizhigor

**Originated from the Internet, invaded and deleted.