What do people who are adamant not to divorce think?

He wants a divorce, I don't leave because many things are not what you imagine, if you want to leave, find a person and be afraid that the child will be hurt, or don't leave him, everything is done with the child, can you persist or persevere, many things can not be imagined.

I want to give my child a complete home, I can find my father and mother when I encounter something, and there is pressure to leave my child, and I want my mother and father to run together, and when I am sick, I can't take care of my children, and I can take care of each other when I am old, and when there is one left, I will go to a nursing home.

Men leave when they mention divorce, but women leave when they mention divorce.

First, the sin has not been enough, and the second is a happy marriage.

I love her very much, I really don't know what she thinks, why do I love her and why do I still lie to me, I have endured it, for the sake of the child and the family, I love her so much, I love her to the bones.

I almost signed and drew the pledge. Would love to leave alone. But I gave birth to the child in desperation.

I don't seem to be willing to give it to him. But I'm divorced and will face nothing. The child will definitely have to suffer if he follows me.

I did my best to love him with all my life. But it seems like I'm still so humble. I just want to leave quietly alone.

If you really love her, you should stay the course and never get divorced, and after a few years, you will know that you made the right decision.

After getting married, I planned to give birth to a girl, and my business was also a little eyebrow-raising, and I planned to do a big job, even if I didn't have a car or a house, I thought that I could fight for the future, and reality was a blow. Never thought of going this far. It seems that it is better to do a good job of breaking up the psychology of entering a marriage, otherwise the reality will not be able to bear it.

Marriage is a combination, it is really impossible to control, and if it is divided, it means that you will lose your children and lose your business, and you will be helpless.

People's hearts are unpredictable, no matter how good the relationship is, it can't resist the betrayal of people's hearts, I just got divorced,,, but I don't regret what I did wrong, I regret why I met this kind of woman in the first place.

Marriage is for money, and divorce is inseparable because of money.

There aren't too many families who are happy.

I also want to divorce, I have paid too much for him but he still doesn't change, I have suffered a lot of blows from his brothers and sisters, I don't care about all the suffering, in the end I chose to divorce but he didn't agree, their family said to him that they would drag me for the rest of my life, and now I don't know what I should do, I have been separated from him for more than a year, and he still doesn't agree to divorce, what should I do?? Friends, can you give me an idea?

Parents are under pressure, children are reluctant, life changes are not adaptable, and the next one may not be good.

Everyone is gone, the heart is gone, what if you don't leave?

It's not that you don't leave, you have nothing to do with you, and now you have someone else who wants me to take my daughter away, I just want to say, it will be better to be realistic, and if you can't meet the requirements, at least there is a place for your daughter!

I'm sorry I got divorced and didn't hold on. She doesn't care about her children, forget it......Give it all to her, and I will take the child out of the house.

The cost of divorce is too high, and she will take half of my property, and I must be reluctant to do so. Although there is no relationship for a long time, it is also a good choice to maintain the relationship between husband and wife in this way.

There are really very few good men in this society now, and the current husband is not good, but who can guarantee that after the divorce, he will meet a better one instead of a worse one.

I don't want my family to worry, I was so determined to choose to marry far away, if my parents knew that I was not doing well outside, how sad they would be, I still can bear it, I can't divorce.

Sometimes I feel that I am useless, knowing that he doesn't love me anymore, but I have hope for him, and I feel that after so long together, I should still love me.

If the other party does not divorce, he may file a lawsuit with the court for divorce. Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. In a litigated divorce, if one party files a divorce lawsuit with the court, the court can grant the divorce if there is evidence to prove that the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down and the mediation is ineffective.

Litigation divorce does not require both parties to divorce voluntarily.

How do you write a divorce agreement?

A divorce agreement is an agreement reached by both parties at the time of divorce on the handling of divorce matters such as child support, property division and debt bearing. In general, the divorce agreement needs to include the following, but the specifics will vary depending on the actual situation of both parties:

1. Basic information of both husband and wife;

2. The first paragraph of the divorce agreement shall state the marital situation of both parties, including the time when the marriage was registered, whether children were born after marriage, etc., the reasons for the dissolution of the marriage relationship now, and the expression of intention of both parties to divorce voluntarily.

3. Consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt disposal. "Consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt management" is a necessary part of a divorce by mutual agreement.

Tips: The content of the divorce agreement seems simple, but it contains many complex legal relationships, and if there is no clear agreement, it will have a great impact on both parties in the future. Therefore, it is recommended that both parties find a professional lawyer to help draw up the divorce agreement, or consult a professional lawyer after drafting the divorce agreement to see if there are relevant legal risks to avoid disputes in the future.

Legal basis

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce in paragraphs 1, 2 and 3 of Article 1079 of the Civil Code, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Because there are children in the middle, in order for the children to grow up happily and happily, they will choose not to divorce.

Everyone will have a different answer to this question. But in general, there are two answers. One is choosing not to divorce for the sake of the children.

And always keep a smile in front of your child. I want my child to always feel that he is living in a happy family. The other is for children.

chose to divorce after a loss. Or choose to divorce for your own sake. If you choose to divorce for the sake of your children, it may be that such a marriage is no longer possible.

Even if you insist on it, it may be a heavy injury to the child. Choose to divorce for your own sake. Why?

People have their own things to pursue in this life, and they can never pursue them in marriage. This will make your life feel very defeated. So I will also choose to divorce.

If the child is very fond of his mom and dad. I have always felt that my parents are also very harmonious. Every day when I come home, I see the smiles of my parents.

Every day after returning home, the family is living happily, so that the child feels particularly secure. So in such a situation, if there is a more serious conflict between mom and dad. Or irreconcilable contradictions.

And such parents should also be very mature, Mom and Dad. Therefore, they will not show such a contradiction and such an emotion in front of their children. In their minds, children may be very, very important.

One way or another. It doesn't matter what you do, as long as the child is happy as long as the child is safe. If it is such a family, parents are also thinking like this, and they are also such mature, so such a family, I think you can choose not to divorce for the sake of your children.

Because children are the future of the whole family. You are such a father and mother, the most careless and caring person on the tip of your heart. They will be willing to choose to sacrifice themselves for the sake of their children.

If it's the one I'll talk about later. Even if the family is not divorced, the children will not be able to gain security and happiness. Then such a family may divorce as soon as possible, which is still a good thing for the children.

Because the child is in such a family, he will always be the punching bag of the father and mother. It is impossible for a child to find happiness in such a father and mother. They also don't stop arguing because of their children.

It can even be more one-sided quarrels, which will hurt the child or affect the child because of the escalation of the emotional conflict between them. So what does such a family mean to children? Of course, in such a family, parents must be immature, because they will only think about themselves and only because of their own emotions.

And harming the child without taking care of the child. It is not a good thing for such a family to choose to divorce without pants.

So. Look at the problem from a different angle. The state of maturity is different. Whether to divorce or not depends on the quality of the whole family, the whole parents themselves, and the kind of family towards the children. Attitude.

Because the husband and wife have no feelings, this kind of life is also a kind of harm to the children, the damage to the soul, the harm of divorce is not necessarily comparable to the harm you have to the children now, if you are for the sake of the children, it is not necessary. If it's because you are reluctant to give up this relationship, then you can communicate well with him and work hard to get this relationship again, don't ruin the child because you have wronged yourself. In the era of soaring divorce rates, many people choose to divorce, but there are also many people who choose to persist in marriage, and there are many reasons why they choose to insist, but what I hear most from friends around me is:

I can't divorce him for the sake of my children, what should I do with my children if I divorce him? Or: "If it weren't for the sake of the child, who would be able to continue living with him?"

It's long gone. "We all have children, and we all love our children deeply, and the first thing that comes to mind when we divorce is our children, thinking that children can't do without father's love or mother's love, so the two people who are broken are still insisting on the so-called marriage, even if the two people are relatively speechless and tired of each other, they are also insisting on the sake of their children. We all love our children very much, and we are reluctant to let our children suffer a little, so we think that our persistence and grievances in marriage have brought the happiest life to our children.

But isn't the seemingly detached attitude of the two people a kind of harm to the child? Many times, we say "don't divorce for the sake of our children", so when you say that, please give your children a happy and harmonious family before saying this. Naturally, when you can give your children a happy and harmonious family, you don't need to divorce.

But if you can't do it, you're still saying "don't divorce for the sake of your children". So when you say this, please think carefully about whether the conflicts and feelings between the two of you will affect the child. It is not to persuade divorce if the relationship is not good, but to say that marriage and divorce are very important things, and both marriage and divorce must be considered.

Of course, there are also those who are willing to fight to the end with marriage, that is, they will not divorce, and there are even those who are making a big fuss about divorce while still busy giving birth to a second child, some people can't help but be surprised, what do these people think?

A classmate of mine got married in the same year as me, and gave birth to a beautiful girl in the second month after marriage. After giving birth to the child, I threw it to my mother-in-law, and I didn't feed it for a day.

After the full moon, the young couple went out for their honeymoon and took wedding photos by the way. Immediately after that, they went to their own classes, and went to their mother-in-law's for a few days during the New Year's holidays.

She didn't bring a child, so naturally she didn't want to look for her, so she was relatively free. My husband said that she didn't look like a mother at all, and she didn't care about the child, and the child would leave, and I don't know how big the child was wearing.

The two quarrel every day because of this, one thinks that his wife is an incompetent mother and is not good for the child at all, and the other feels that he is busy with work every day and has no time to take care of the child, anyway, the child's mother-in-law also takes it well.

Normal couples are reluctant to divorce, because two people together is fate, after so many years, if the separation destroys the family, it is a harm to the children and both parties, unless it is unhappy, or quarreling all day long and being beaten!

Some of these reasons may include:

2.Family pressures: Many women may worry about the negative impact of divorce on the family, such as the impact on children or the relationship between family members.

3.Cultural and social pressures: In some cultural and social settings, divorce may be seen as unethical or unacceptable behavior. This pressure, when triggered, may make women reluctant to divorce, even if they are victims of domestic violence.

5.Lack of resources and support: Many women may lack resources and support, such as legal help, counselling and housing, to help them.