Why don t people like class reunions in college?

Because everyone in college has their own routines and schedules, sudden class reunions are likely to disrupt everyone's plans.

Because it's very social, all kinds of drinking, if you don't drink, you have to talk about you, it's not pure or pure, it's still a small group party, and the class party is really boring.

Because the classmates in the class are originally divided into the same class without any logic. There is still very little to talk about, so it is right that group activities are not welcome.

There are too many friends with wine and meat, and too little sincerity. Too much flattery, too little heartfelt words.

It's good to have a class reunion, it's good for everyone to get together and have a chat, but too often can lead to the idea that it doesn't matter if you don't go, and the next time it's going to be held soon.

Classmates have not yet had a party to call for a fee in advance, and then the money is used by someone to dispose of expenses, and the same scholar has a patient or not a patient by someone to decide, and then buy gifts from someone's supermarket, the benefits are all obtained by someone, and the fame and material are harvested, so I don't like to contact a classmate and quit the group.

Most of the people in a class are not familiar with each other, so what's the point of gathering together? Talking and laughing are lively, but they are all just plays.

Most of the students drink alcohol at class gatherings, but many students don't want to get drunk with people they don't have a good relationship with.

It's good when it's good, and it's still not good when it's bad. Honest people will not do any good to participate, and drinking will hurt your body. After reminiscing about the old days, hurry away, and there are still important things to do......

The people who organize class reunions generally don't have much ability, and they consciously mix it well, and by the way, they want to mix up with the classmates who have a good relationship .........The results ......There are very few people who go, the poor have low self-esteem and find reasons not to go, the rich are busy and have no time to go, the organizers are almost all kind, self-righteous, dissatisfied with one bottle, and half a bottle of swaying people.

It shows that college classmates have no innocent feelings, and there are few same-sex friends.

Don't generalize, our college reunion is very good, there are a lot of people every time, because they are all studying in the provincial university, and most of the graduates work in the provincial capital, and there are many opportunities for gatherings.

Many people in college seem to always deliberately manage relationships, or have memories in junior high and high school.

For a party, it's okay to have three or five people, and it's really useless to have a lot of people doing their own things.

Some like it, some don't.

If you don't want to go, you won't go, and it's best to keep in touch with your classmates or get together.

People who often attend class reunions will find that the number of people who come to class reunions is getting fewer and fewer year by year, far less popular than the first year or two after graduation, maybe some people can't come because they are busy, and often because they are busy people will come to participate in the next year, but more and more people will not come to class reunions again, or have never participated, many people will be unbelievable, why are they sleepy? In fact, everyone has their own ideas, which can be roughly divided into several types, in order to help you know in detail, the following four reasons why more and more people do not attend class reunions are also expected to read through, maybe you will empathize with one or more of them.

First, originally during the school period, there is little closeness, and even incompatible, at best with individual classmates can chat, if you participate in the class reunion, the person who should come may not come, but the family who should not come, from the beginning there is no most embarrassing, only more embarrassing, instead of participating in a large-scale class reunion, it is better to participate in a small range of class reunions, with whom to play well and who to talk to to get together, such as the dormitory classmates.

Second, the class reunion has begun to turn sour, I dare not agree, the so-called reminiscence is regarded as a cliché, replaced by not talking about work, career or children, etc. The class reunion was originally a reminiscence, since there is no old thing to talk about, there is no need to participate, not to mention that individual students will exaggerate and exaggerate when they show off, and participating in the class reunion is purely self-deprecating, rather than listening to individual students blowing the New Year or Kan Dashan, it is better to take time to accompany the family.

There are many meanings of class reunions, so let's take a look at them together.

Significance.

1. Contact feelings and reminisce about the past. The former classmates may be separated for a few years or more than ten years, and everyone has their own careers and families. In fact, at this time, many people want to die to the classmates who used to be at the same table and those who have a good relationship with themselves.

It is very pleasant to organize a class reunion at this time. At the dinner table, everyone reminisced about the old days and talked about the stories that happened in the school at the beginning.

Significance.

2. Find the classmate who worked hard in the same city as you in an unfamiliar city, and take care of each other in the future. After all, friendship in school is the purest and most sincere. Most of the friendships in society are driven by profit.

Especially when I am adrift in the field, I have no relatives around me, and I have a classmate who is better than a relative. Therefore, class reunions are also of great significance.

Significance.

3. Meet the best first love ever。In high school and college, many students began to fall in love, but many parted ways because of graduation, but that innocent love is the most memorable. Take the opportunity of the class reunion to meet the god who once swore an alliance with him, so that he can feel at ease.

Of course, everyone doesn't want to get back together, it's just a happy thing to see each other.

Significance.

Fourth, use the ability of classmates to pave a way for yourself. There are some students who don't mix well and are depressed can find classmates who mix well through class reunions, and in some cases can help themselves. Of course, old classmates will definitely help if they can help.

Therefore, there are many meanings of class reunions, and students who have the opportunity to get together should cherish such a rare opportunity.