What was it like to still be connected to your first love in junior high school?

You thought that reliving the beauty of the two of you, meeting and chatting was just her boyfriend and her story. You talk about all this and all that you say, and she talks about her and her boyfriend's future. After the greetings, there was an awkward cold scene.

After breaking up for five years, I will see each other every summer vacation, and my excitement before chatting eventually turns into an urge to find a girlfriend.

Through a certain taxi software, I actually contacted my first boyfriend again, and in retrospect, we met through the Internet. I said, thank you for feeding me so well as a foodie back then. He said, I'm really sorry I couldn't give you a good first love.

Then we looked at each other and smiled, and the grudges were cleared. This is my most indifferent first love, some regrets, some sadness, some misunderstandings, some sweetness, and I will miss it.

Although I have been in love all these years, and there are people who are very entangled, your story is on my lips. I haven't forgotten about you, and I haven't thought about it. Last summer, I saw someone who looked like you at my mom's colleague's wedding.

Mom kept asking me to take the initiative to say hello, but I didn't have the courage. A few times, I even deliberately walked to the side, and when the other party's eyes drifted over, I ran away like a coward. I was like, I'm so ugly today, I can't let you see me like this.

I can't let you see me after all these years as I did when I was a child.

I can talk and pay special attention to proportion, I won't be particularly freewheeling but I don't want to say it's very rusty, but it's usually him who chats with me, it's okay, anyway, he deliberately avoids some sensitive topics, or I feel quite sad, I'm not his first love but he still likes me, he is my first love, I also have a special attachment to his first love, but it's still separated for some reasons, anyway, I will miss the time we used to be together.

Everything can be discussed, and many things don't need to be hidden anymore as jokes. But you know what you didn't talk about is what you really wanted to say.

At that time, they were in the third year of junior high school, and they liked each other silently, and it was 21 years after saying goodbye, and they still didn't dare to look her in the eyes. I don't know if I like the person in front of me now, or if I like the taste of memory when I was young, looking at the avatar of WeChat, we are keeping a distance from each other, and a kind of longing is on my brow and heart, and I can't chase it.

It's not that I don't have time, it's that I don't know what to say, and there's no need to talk about anything. took a look at her circle of friends, she was doing well, and her boyfriend had been celebrating her sixth anniversary.

At that time, my best friend fell out of love and asked me if it was because she confessed too early that she had been caught by others, and I told her that I had been regretting that I had not confessed at the beginning, so I told my crush for the first time. So my best friend tried her best to cheer me up and let me talk to him, and I thought about it for a long time and only said the words "How are you doing lately" for a long time, but tears fell. I felt that whether he was with me in the end or not, I had to go through him, otherwise, I wouldn't be able to like someone else.

At that moment, I suddenly felt relieved. We've been in touch ever since. He wouldn't have known that I had liked him for so long, he wouldn't remember the days we had sat together, and I'd never let him know.

My first love and I broke up peacefully at the time, and it is still a good memory to think about it, we have kept in touch, as if you know each other very well, and you seem to know each other's past very well, but you are very tacit and no one mentions the past.

The feeling of first love is unforgettable, pure love, pure love. Some people will fight to the end for their first love, and some people will be forced to leave. In fact, it is a feeling that can't be let go. Everyone reminisces about their first love.

First love is the stage from the development of love consciousness to the first love behavior. This stage is characterized by the willingness or acquiescence of both parties to develop a more intimate heterosexual relationship.

Many people call the mutual admiration of boys and girls "puppy love", but in fact it is an embarrassing word because it is unscientific. The affection of boys and girls should be called first love. First love is beyond reproach, first love is the first blooming flower in life, as beautiful as the rising sun.

A person who is physically and mentally able-bodied, in all fairness, who has not had fond memories of his first love as a teenager.

Educational guidance: In order to better educate students, parents and teachers should understand and study students. Once a student's first love consciousness is generated, it must always be reflected psychologically.

Foreign sex psychologists say that girls like to dress up at this time, and boys suddenly love to be neat and tidy, pay attention to their appearance, and boys behave very well in front of girls.

They are willing to approach the opposite sex and are a little shy, they are not attentive in class, and people with lively and cheerful personalities will suddenly become calm, and open-minded people will become eccentric; The two of them have frequent correspondence, and they tend to be indifferent to the collective, especially to same-sex friends.

Teachers and parents should be good at analyzing and studying the dynamics of students' first love and finding out its regularity. For example, Russia discovered.

Seventh and eighth graders, found junior high school in the United States and Japan.

The first lovers of second- and third-year students are mostly good students. Male students tend to be taller, stronger, and more upright.

Girls tend to be elegant, lively, beautiful, and excellent students. Those boys and girls who are usually taciturn and weak rarely slip into the pool of love. However, first lovers in high school are often students with poor academic performance and students who lack family warmth, because they need the sympathy and understanding of others more, and are more likely to pursue the comfort and warmth of the opposite sex.

In short, students can only be understood by studying them in depth; Only by understanding students can we better educate students.

Generally speaking, the first love is everyone's first love will leave a very deep impression, especially for students, although the first love may not be able to be together, but he will remember it for a lifetime.