I hate to be unsociable, introverted

Damn, I've found a lot of people who are just as introverted as me. When I saw the girl, I bowed my head and didn't dare to talk to others. You see, I don't have a real friend right now.

It's all floating on the Internet. Work hard. This thing is learned, you see how other people do it.

I'm actually a much better personality now than I used to be, but I'm still not very open. It's like my grandfather said. Who are we afraid of, we didn't steal, we didn't rob, what are you afraid to talk to others, dare to speak.

It's good, but don't talk nonsense, it's good, you know it. Actually, it's very simple, as soon as you meet, you say, teacher, uncle, aunt, good, face a smile, pay attention to your eyes, this is the first step. Make friends.

I don't really know how to hand it in now.。。 Ha ha.. Excuse me.

Your problem is the lack of exercise, some people are naturally outgoing, and they also have the disadvantage of doing things too floatingly.

Introverts are perfect if they are very sociable, and those who want to learn can't learn it.

You can try to contact some strangers in strange occasions, anyway, strangers, they may not meet in the future, so you don't have to be afraid of losing face, just as exercise.

The reason why people are closed is because the sense of self-protection is too strong, and it is not in line with the actual situation if you open your heart, and you will find that communication is actually very natural and easy.

Don't be afraid of losing face, sociable people will inevitably lose face, but they will see it. Really, it's just a layer of paper, just pierce it.

How bold? No one can teach you this, the only thing we can tell you is what you should do, and as for whether you dare to do it, you can only rely on yourself.

How? Always greet others, always pay attention to whether the people around you need help, do not need to say anything, and one practical action is better than all words.

You practice talking to girls first. Just kidding or something. Over time, you'll be able to change a little. I used to be just like you.

Why hate, hate doesn't solve anything. In fact, any kind of personality can be successful, but I'm afraid you can't find a path that suits you.

The most common and effective way to do this is to talk to them about their hobbies. It's a bit hard, though, because you don't know what they like, or you don't like their hobbies and don't want to talk to them. So the importance of common ground comes out.

I think first of all, you have to be bold and brave enough to explain to them that you really want to be friends with them, but you just can't express them in words! Don't be shy or anything, or you'll always just be spinning in circles!

Learn to communicate from books and from others.

You can read some books that teach you how to speak, how to deal with relationships, maybe you just haven't mastered the skills, and after reading these books, you suddenly become a social expert. You can also pay attention to how others deal with these problems, and these problems can be overcome if you put your mind to them.

If you don't like to talk, just smile more.

If you are really a person who does not like to talk, then try to avoid maintaining an indifferent look at all times, arrogant attitude, you can smile politely when you meet colleagues in the corridor or elevator hall, even if you have fewer words, but it will give people an approachable and kind impression.

Don't reveal too much privacy and break trust.

When discussing and joking among colleagues, don't reveal too much privacy about a colleague, especially those who have only told you and don't want others to know, be a person who can keep secrets, so that others can communicate with you with confidence.

Find help and spark interest in the job.

Many times it is difficult for us to integrate into the work group because we hate our work and have no sense of belonging to the company, and we will subconsciously think that these colleagues will not have too many contacts in the future, and we have isolated ourselves in the depths of our hearts.

Relax your body and mind.

Although the working environment is a more real occasion, but everyone is working together, there is no difference between each other, but there are a lot of common topics, the first thing we have to do is to relax ourselves first, with a very normal attitude to communicate with the people around us, and be friends.

The only person who wants to save you is you, and no one else can help you. Because there is such a saying, you can't change the environment, then you can only change yourself to be able to integrate into the environment, this is the only way.

Then you have to reflect on yourself, what's the problem, it's bothering you, it must be your problem. Listen more and talk less, and invite colleagues to afternoon tea if you have nothing to do.

Try to fit in with the family. Treat everyone with integrity.

Then you have to quit your job.