If you suddenly lose the goal you are working for, how can you adjust yourself?

There are only two tragedies in this world, one is not getting what I want, and the second is getting it.

It is easy for people to ignore their true desires, which leads to the frequent occurrence of the above tragedies. Think about it, are you getting what you want? Or the expectations of parents, the ethos of society.

Speaking from personal experience, I used to live as if I was blindfolded and blindfolded. Desires are unsatisfied, painful, satisfied and bored, constantly looking for different goals for themselves, in exchange for disappointment again and again, life is repetitive and boring.

I came into contact with Taoism by chance, talking about Zhuangzi, and a sentence gave me a great inspiration: If people live in the world, if they cannot realize the transcendent realm, it will lead to the occurrence of the situation I mentioned above, and life will be consumed in repetition and tediousness. Since then, I have begun to study Chinese culture seriously, from Confucius and Mencius to the Book of Changes, and I feel that my life has begun to be enriched and has a new meaning.

Of course, there are many paradigms that come into contact with the transcendent realm, the heaven of Confucius and Mencius, the Tao of Lao Zhuang, the Brahman of Hinduism, the God of the West, and the existence itself in philosophy. But they all have the same thing, eternal and unchanging. Our world never stops changing, so we need a constant basis so that we don't get lost.

I hope the above is useful to you, life often depends on chance.

Man is accustomed to dissatisfaction, and when he is satisfied, it is no more so. People will always look forward, those who have no money are like rich, and those who have money are like richer. It's as simple as that, don't you still have a desire?

Continue what interests you.

The pain and confusion of losing your goal is no less than the disgrace of all thoughts when you have cancer, and I think I still need to go out and see the outside world, which can not only relieve the depression, but also find the direction of efforts.

Are you supposed to be emotional?

1. First of all, we must immediately stop the current sluggish state of life, let ourselves change, have the courage to abandon the current life, let ourselves stop this emotion, and change ourselves. There will always be a lot of unsatisfactory things in life, don't be depressed, let yourself be optimistic.

2. If you lose the goal of life, there is no big deal, stop immediately, change immediately, and find a new starting point in life, it can be a break, or a trip, no matter which way, as long as you can make yourself feel happy, it is a good thing.

3. If travel and rest can't find the goal of their life, then contact more with family and friends, understand more about the purpose and meaning of their life, parents give us life, friends give us emotions, and there are many people who give us too much, we can't give up on ourselves.

4. Losing the goal of life, it may be that we have completed the original goal, life needs to move forward, life needs to change, then we should set a new goal for ourselves, if we really can't think of any goal, let your parents or partner set goals, if you don't know what you live for, then live for the people you love.

5. In fact, we will always encounter all kinds of things in life and work, many things are good, and there are many things that are bad, good things will encourage us, but bad things will hit us, what we have to do is to make ourselves stronger, whether it is external or internal, it is good for ourselves and the people around us.

6. Make yourself strong, let yourself change, let yourself stop having a bad mentality, for people who have no goals, it may be difficult to do it at the beginning, we have to give ourselves a time cycle, maybe next month, next week, maybe tomorrow, you are a different you.

This is quite normal because everyone gets lost at times. But don't worry, you have to find your interests and then do something for your interests, so that you can have a purpose, a motivation, and a direction to move forward. Otherwise, you'll be like me, going around in circles all the time, never finding your way.

There's one sentence I can't remember who said that. "People often fail because of their lack of self-confidence." Without self-confidence, there will be a lack of confidence in everything you do, a lack of creativity, and a lack of fear of difficult challenges.

The cultivation of self-confidence I think that you should affirm yourself more, discover your own strengths, and don't always compare yourself with others. ）

It doesn't matter if you don't have a goal, the main thing is that you have to find your own direction, what direction your future career is going, for example, chef, management, car, clothing, etc., etc. You have to find the direction of your own efforts, and as for what you can achieve in the end, it is based on a question of accumulation and grasping opportunities.

The more you read and communicate more with your friends, your direction and goals will slowly emerge in your brain, which will run through your entire brain, and you will work more seriously and harder!

There are a lot of things like this.

Inadvertently when it exists.

Didn't even notice his presence.

But once lost.

will feel that he is still needed in life.

This is the so-called black of the near-ink.

Be in the middle of it. I don't know what I need.

People are lazy creatures.

Too lazy to even think about it.

Reluctance to find out. lost.

I know it hurts. will learn the lesson.

It's good to know.

It's also because of the pain.

So cherish what you have.

People are always fickle, and some people only know how to cherish and realize their mistakes when they lose, so I think the first thing people do after losing is to regret it, but at the same time, they will understand and understand some truths.

There are some things that are missed, and they are missed for a lifetime. People are changeable, and they can't keep an unchanging promise, but they can't keep a fickle heart.

People will only know to cherish when they lose, but I don't ask for it, just nostalgic for the past, which is also wrong, and we must continue to look for it.

Losing is losing, try to adjust your mindset.

There is nothing to lose and nothing to have

I think there are two reasons for this. The first is that you used to have goals, but the environment has influenced you and made you lose the pursuit of goals. Then it is recommended that you go out and walk more, go to other places, unfamiliar environments, strange people, and walk into another environment.

Or look at the successful people around you, it is easy to arouse your strong self-esteem for the future wireless pursuit, you can also find more inspirational articles on the Internet or buy some books can also let you find your goal.

The second is that you haven't thought about what your goal is, it is recommended that you observe yourself more, think more about what kind of things you are suitable for to do, and ask your friends to help you analyze yourself, but this requires you to do a lot of different things before you can make a judgment, you don't have to be too flustered, take your time friends

Maybe you've set a goal that is too big, so you can set a short-term, small-scale goal, and slowly solve the problem, step by step.

Be confident.

In life, you are not afraid of losing your goal, you are afraid of it, and when you lose your goal, you will not set a new goal. In life, survival is the goal of human beings in the world.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

We are just a small passerby between heaven and earth, in just 30,000 days and nights of life, everything is constantly flowing with cause and effect, and our body is constantly running towards aging, it seems that we have experienced a lot in our lives, and we can pursue a lot, in fact, we can't grasp everything, and we can't keep it!

People, things, and things change so fast, like a big dream!

Emotions, careers, money, pleasures, and shelter are all like a flash in the pan between heaven and earth, fleeting, as if they had never come.

It's very simple to completely change your destiny, get rid of all your worries, and achieve real and lasting happiness!

From today onwards, let go of all kinds of sorrows, actively cultivate kindness, and work hard to cultivate the blessed field!

Every day, focus on helping all kinds of lives in the best way you can, even for the smallest things.

Accumulate a lot, gather sand into a tower!

In the future, you will receive incredible blessings!

And at the same time of cultivating blessings and wisdom, the troubles and pains have been gradually forgotten, and at the moment, they have already obtained cool happiness!

Look for your next target.

Maybe it doesn't have to be so urgent. If you lose your goal, it means that you are actually depressed and depressed right now, and this state is not suitable for doing anything else right away.

If conditions permit, first suspend your pursuit of life, take a good rest for a while, and then analyze your next goal when your state is adjusted.

The reality is not bad, think about what to do now, some food and some housing are the goal.

Look for your next target.

Or go out on your own and go around.