How to save a dying love?

You can take a trip, usually people are more relaxed during the trip, and you can recall the bits and pieces of your past and the things you have experienced together in the process. Suddenly, you will find that it is not easy for each other to have traveled so many ways. It turns out that I have been touched countless times in the past, and I realized how important each other is.

Only to realize how childish the endless quarrels are now.

Open your heart to have a deep communication in the comfortable scenery, and say your thoughts about each other frankly, many times you will find that there are many things we really misunderstand each other, maybe a small unintentional move of the other party has been amplified by themselves, and many contradictions may be naturally resolved. Many contradictions are not as deep as imagined, only to find out that the original starting point is for the good of the other party, but the love is wrong at the time, and it turns out that I really care about the other party.

When love is on the verge of despair, don't grasp it tighter, so that you lose it faster, only by calming each other down, love has a chance to be reborn. Sincere communication is undoubtedly the most direct way to understand each other's thoughts, when love comes to the edge, many times each other may have not spoken well for a long time, so that it will repeat the vicious circle, pushing love farther and farther, in fact, managing love is not as difficult as imagined, as long as you do it down to chat and communicate well, there is nothing that cannot be solved. When there is a third person in love, it is not because the love is gone, it is not that he is not good enough, maybe he is just looking for a comfort from the other party, maybe he is just too tired to escape from you, so don't look at the surface of many things, and look at the essence after a good exchange.

To understand how much dust will be blinded by love with the accumulation of trivial things in life, you must know that there is really no gold, no one is perfect, if you want to be long-lasting, you must learn to tolerate some of each other's shortcomings, understand each other, and think more from each other's point of view, so that the other party can feel warm, in order to make love warm forever, in order to let love be reborn.

So when you feel that love can't go anymore, you must communicate sincerely and have an in-depth conversation with each other.

Love is in a desperate situation, but it represents the end of a love, a love is hard-won, no one wants it to go straight to destruction, so we need to pull it out of the cliff so that he can regain his beauty. Since you want to save this love, then I need you to start to find the root cause yourself, it may be that everything needs your own efforts, but everything you do is also for your own pure love.

Since you want to know why this love is coming to an end? First of all, you have to find the reason from your own side, for example, you still have a lot of things for her now, or she is tired of your current personality, there are no reasons here, I suggest that you still want to find some fundamental ones from your own side, which will help you solve some embarrassing situations now. Of course, you can also start by asking some of the things she hates about you, so that at least she doesn't hate you, which is a big improvement for you.

In fact, if a person falls in love with each other for a long time, the two of you will slowly reduce that intimate feeling, and she may feel that there is no such love transmission between you and lose your belief in love. This will help you regain your love and bring you back to the so-called temple of love. Of course, this is a bit too long-term, everything is still looking at the immediate situation, and a small change can bring you great surprises.

Here are some of my suggestions, I hope it can help you, I don't have much experience with this kind of thing, it doesn't help you much, he still hopes that you can regain love. After all, you want to save this love so much, I hope you can succeed through your own efforts!

I remember seeing the story of a divorce restaurant in a book before, and many people must have seen this kind of story, but in fact, this story teaches everyone how to save a relationship that is about to collapse.

The two sat down and talked quietly, from two people knowing each other and falling in love to knowing each other. should know each other very well, think about how you fell in love with each other in the first place, and think about what attracts each other to each other. Then ask yourself, are you really willing to give up?

Think about why two people keep having contradictions, in the end, there is a problem, understand each other's ideas from a different angle, think about the problem from the other party's perspective, summarize the problem, and then think about it, whether these problems can be solved. Is there no other way, must we separate?

Finally, think about the feelings that two people have been together for so long, and the feelings that the other party has given for themselves and the touching things they have done for themselves. Is it really going to be separated?

If after this kind of careful thinking, you still feel that the other party is not suitable, just let it go, people always have to meet what is not suitable for them, and then they will know what is suitable for them.

1. Schedule an appointment.

Just like before the wedding, pay attention to the holidays, make an appointment in advance to plan your time, create those romantic waiting surprises before the date, and the two of you look forward to sharing the joyful moments of the night together.

2. Praise him.

Many partners often complain and complain about each other with negative emotions, or even put on a bad face. In fact, this is not effective, and it often makes you unpleasant yourself. Try replacing blame with praise and you'll be surprised at how great it works, and it's almost more effective with less!

3. Create surprises.

The endorphins of love only last for 18 months, and relationships that can exceed this time must be carefully managed. Surprise him once in a while and make him feel the importance and love you have for him. Nature is the best aphrodisiac, and a picnic in the countryside and a kiss on the grass are unforgettable memories for each other.

4. Remember to kiss.

According to research, regular kissing can be a great help for partner relationships. Many sexless couples start by not kissing each other at first. Kisses tend to be more intimate than **, please remember to kiss him on time and don't forget!

5. Empathy.

When encountering the bottleneck period of love, don't panic, at this moment you are no longer "in the eyes of the lover" but choose to escape from reality and find comfort around relatives and friends, but it is not feasible to escape. First of all, you have to learn empathy, emotional intelligence is simple empathy, you used to be very happy, that is the way you temporarily put aside your life, but with the passage of time, you still have to choose the way you used to it, at this time, friction gradually has, so you have to learn to empathize and consider how they feel.

6. Try something new every day.

Try to make time to do something you haven't done with your partner every day. So that you will have shared experiences, experiences, and memories. It will even make you feel that you are one through your common actions.

7. Don't consider the spare tire.

A calm heart, do not leave yourself a way out, just like writing, if you use a pencil and an eraser, then you will inadvertently choose to erase, but if it is a ballpoint pen drawing, then there is less chance of mistakes, don't consider the spare tire, give the other party a chance, but also an opportunity to prove your vision, a story: tomatoes and potatoes in love, at first, constant friction, but they did not give up the relationship, and finally turned into fries and ketchup. This is long-lasting love.

I can't experience the feelings of reunion, but I can give some objective advice:

1.It is not an easy thing to reunite, and it requires sincere communication and efforts from both parties, as well as reflection and correction of past mistakes and shortcomings.

2.The success of the reunion depends on whether both parties are willing to continue to deal with the problem in the right way, and whether they truly understand, respect and support each other.

3.Rebuilding a relationship takes time and patience, and you need to make sure that your feelings and interests are protected in the process.

4.If the two parties can't reconcile, there is no need to force it, and a peaceful breakup is also a way to solve it.

In general, reunion is a more complex emotional issue, which requires comprehensive consideration of one's own situation and the other party's situation to make a wise decision.

Hehe, I think she is shirking the responsibility for the breakup, I know that you are in a very sad mood right now, very bad, but this relationship is irretrievable, believe me,

Wow, it's been too long, even if it's a moment of anger, and now the daylilies are cold. You'd better ask why, and then see if she gives you a chance.

You can go and chat with her directly. Take her on a trip.

It may be that she cares too much about you, so she has a later one....Now you should go to her and tell her how much you miss her...

1. Analyze the problem and prescribe the right medicine If the problem has reached the point of divorce, it means that there must be contradictions in all aspects of the husband and wife that need to be solved urgently. Maybe these are small things, such as the man doesn't like to change socks and habitually returns late, or the woman doesn't like to do housework and spends money lavishly. To be honest, it's not a big problem, but it is this kind of small problem that causes both parties to be friends with each other, and over time contradictions will accumulate, and finally only need a fuse to ignite the marriage.

How to save a failed marriage at this time? In marriage, the only way to calm both parties is to analyze the problem first and have the courage to admit their mistakes in the marriage, so as to save the marriage from the abyss of divorce. 2. Don't give the other party the idea of divorce No matter how you make trouble with Li Luhuai, you have to let the other party understand that you will not divorce, you have been with the other party for so many years, and what you have lost is not only your youth, but also because you have chosen to live with each other for a lifetime.

When you got married before, you promised to be together through thick and thin, but now you won't give up so many years of perseverance because of a little wind and rain.