There s a long question, just say it in the detailed description?

This is a tradition left over thousands of years in China. As the saying goes, "A daughter who marries out, spills water." "The water has been spilled, how can there be any reason to come back. This is also the meaning of "marrying a husband".

The girl is rich, and when she grows up, she pays more attention to the man's character, and the boy will have to raise the family in the future, and he must have a sense of independence from an early age.

The daughter is married and lives in her husband's house, so the son lives with his wife and parents. Then parents naturally see it every day. Is this what you're asking?

Girls have to be spoiled, they must be raised, otherwise they can't get married, men, they have to be responsible, it doesn't matter if they are poor, they can't afford to be poor, what else can they do.

Poor raising, to have a boy responsible. Rich, the girl has seen the world, and she will not be given some benefits by others, so she runs away.

If the female number is poor, when she grows up, she sees a little rich and runs away. If a boy is rich, he will not be able to survive in society when he grows up!

Because the boy's parents pinned all the best material and all their hopes on their son, and my parents were like that.

There is also the fact that the girl's family does not pay as much to your family material as the boy's family.

Girls are not all like you, some are in the material and some are in the heart, do you think that your family is still material or heart, and you pay as much as his family?

If you talk more about family conflicts, you can talk more about them and less depending on how you think about them, negative thoughts can be thought, and positive thoughts can be thought of even more.

Chinese tradition! Actually, it doesn't have to be like this!

The poor boy wants him to be in charge of the house as soon as possible, and the rich girl wants him to go to his in-law's house without being wronged.

If a man is poor, he will be profitable, and if his daughter is rich, he will be profitable.

There is no real equality between men and women.

You're talking about ancient China...

The girl lives in the boy's house, and traditional, conservative ideas exist.

Ideas that have been left over for thousands of years! Understandable.

The woman is married, of course, at her husband's house

Then the daughter will find a marriage that can be close to home. There are gains and losses, and it is not so perfect.

Because the matter of succession was handed over to his son.