Will my boyfriend look down on me because of my poor family conditions?

Updated on society 2024-06-23
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The remarks he says, saying that who is not in a good condition, do not represent his opinion of your family situation--- because you are the person he likes, and the person with whom he has the most affection and acquaintance, so he is more likely to value you and not think too much about your family background;

    It is recommended that you take him to your house to meet your parents first. If possible, it is best to briefly talk to him about the real situation of your family, although it is not easy to say, but it is also necessary to --- when love is based on family background as the main trade-off factor, then a relationship has come to an end, you can consider giving up.

    Hope it helps.

    Have fun!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, your worries about him reflect your worries about yourself.

    If you really like him, he really likes you, you both like each other and understand each other, and family conditions may be a factor to consider, but it will not be a determining factor, nor will it be a reason to worry.

    Have you ever felt that you are not worthy of the other person? Otherwise, how can you add your own family conditions to think that you can talk about marriage? If you don't feel that you are worthy, then the behavior of others will reflect your thoughts on the outside.

    Wishing you happiness and happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your own quality is very important, and nothing else will be looked down upon by him.

    Don't be bothered by these little things.

    Since you have talked about marriage, you should say that you are still good.

    If his family has money, the cost of marriage should be paid by his family, and you can make it simpler. If his family doesn't have any money, you'll be the same.

    So there's no need to think about it, just get married.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you communicate, you should have less to design family conditions, talk to him more, if you can't pass these tests, it seems that marriage will have to be postponed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he really loves you, he won't care about this, if he dislikes you for this, then you should also be glad to see his true face earlier, this kind of person is not worthy of your nostalgia, because even if you get married, you will not be happy, take him back as soon as possible to see, so that you can really understand how he is to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Look down, look up, you know it yourself, but now it's the economy and society, most people are very realistic, and you have to face the reality, before taking him home, explain the family situation clearly, look at his expression to make the conclusion, if he is a villain, you pay the greatest love is not happy, if he doesn't care about it, at least be mentally prepared, which is beneficial to you and harmless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If that's why he's going to break up with you

    Then I can say to you with certainty

    He didn't mean it

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Most of the time! Only women look down on men because they think their family conditions are poor!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I agree with most people. If he really loves you, he won't mind your family conditions.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he really loves you, he won't care.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think it's okay to have a boyfriend like this, I look down on you like this, if you marry him with him in the future, you will have endless grievances.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think you should have such an idea, if the man's parents are quality people, they will not look down on you, and they will treat you as a family member.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If so, I think you can talk to your boyfriend, and if his family looks down on you, you'd better not be with him, because even if you're together, his family won't take you to heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you have to improve your own ability, your family conditions are not good, but you have to be better than your boyfriend, so that their family will not look down on you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then work hard to make yourself an excellent person, so that the other party will not say anything, after all, you have changed the conditions you should have.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Thinking like this before you go, are you looking down on yourself?

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