After two years together, I suddenly know that my other half has been divorced and has a child, what

I think you suddenly know that your other half has been divorced and has a child after two years together, I don't think it's a problem, the key is how you treat him now, is he a very suitable person for you, the two of you are also very affectionate, so I think you should accept him, you should accept everything from him, even if he has a child, divorced is not his sin, it may be his other party's fault, so I think you should not leave him at this time, you should protect it, and live with him well, I think she is a divorced person, he should cherish his feelings more, and he should take you seriously, so I don't think there are too many worries at this time, just get along with the two of them.

After two years together, I suddenly learned that my other half had been divorced. There is also a child. It's up to you to accept it.

If you can't accept it, think she's cheating on you. Married. There have also been children, and this matter is very serious.

You can't stand it in your heart. Then be decisive and break up directly. Because this kind of thing will not be possible.

But if you love her so much, you think it's over. If you don't want to mention it again, you can accept it, and with the fact that this child exists, the marriage can continue. Others can only give you advice, but they can't help you make decisions.

The other half is a man or a woman, if it is a woman, it is estimated that your parents will not agree, this is not prejudice, if you are a woman, the other party is a man, and the conditions are not bad in all aspects, you can't do without him, you can only convince your parents.

If you don't know anything about it, then there is a positive sign of deception. If you can't accept it, then the court can rule that the marriage is invalid, and if you can, then move on with your life.

Summary. But I personally feel like you don't have to worry about that feeling of being cheated on just yet. You can start by looking at the relationship between the two of you from your own heart.

If you're true to her. And then she is in your daily love life, you can also feel that she is also sincere, maybe she cheated on you, he has a hard time, right? Then you can calm down and communicate well, listen to what she has to say, and then you can make a decision, okay?

I found out that my girlfriend who has been dating for half a year is actually divorced and has a child, what should I do?

Good morning, I can understand your feelings, do you suddenly have a feeling of being cheated, that you have given sincere feelings, only to find out that she doesn't seem to be so sincere, right, this feeling is actually very painful, but you can see that I think you should still love her very much, right?

But I personally feel like you don't have to worry about that feeling of being cheated on just yet. You can start by looking at the relationship between the two of you from your own heart. If you're true to her.

And then she is in your daily love life, you can also feel that she is also sincere, maybe she cheated on you, he has a hard time, right? Then you can calm down and communicate well, listen to what she has to say, and then you can make a decision, okay?

And I don't know what kind of problem you are struggling with now, is it the question of whether the two of you are sincere in your feelings? Or is it that the future life comes from the pressure of all aspects of life?

Do you love him? If you love him, then give him a while, let him relax, speak from his heart and stand in his position, if you suddenly know such a thing, but it will definitely not be slowed down, this should be understandable.

But don't blame yourself too much, after all, it's definitely not what you want to happen, right, as a mother, you wouldn't just give up a child of your own. In the next few days, you should live a good life first, what should you do, let go of this matter first, and then give him a while, give yourself a while, calm down and slow down first, but you can continue to maintain contact and interaction with him first.

I know you're going to have a hard time facing something like this right now, right? I suggest that you either go out for a walk or find someone to talk to you to relieve your own stress.

Although we have never met or known each other, I am willing to be your friend and listen to your joys and sorrows, because after all, we are also in this business, and I will do my best to help you.

Thank you, I'll be on my way.

Summary. What did you find?

My wife was divorced before, and I have known my wife for more than a year last year I got married last year and now the child is just 2 months old I found her hand a few days ago.

What did you find?

I found out that she had done that with a lot of men in hotels before.

My wife was divorced before, and I knew my wife for more than a year last year, and I got married last year, and now the child is just 2 months old, and I found the secret in her mobile phone a few days ago, and I didn't know me before, and she was looking for a man everywhere in the two or three years of her divorce, and then a man said that she had a soft breast, and she spent 7 years to play with her breasts, but at that time she didn't have much money, and then in the past two years, she went to the hotel with her friends everywhere to do it, and it was also maintained, and my head has grown these days, what should I do.

There is a saying that the prodigal son does not change his money when he turns back.

The previous ones are the previous ones, and it is inevitable that there will be a mustard in my heart.

You're married, and he's still with the old man. Is there an affair?

If there is, make it clear, don't put it in your stomach.

If not, live a good life. At least it proves that she doesn't have two hearts for you.

I didn't know if I was in debt, I shouldn't have communicated with her, she said that she had been divorced before, and she hadn't come out, and then she worked outside for a year, and she rented a small room, and she was very lonely, and then she met a few bad sisters and said that she was broken, and she went to the bar every day, and then I met those men, and one of them said that she had a bad breast, and she spent 70,000 yuan to make a breast, and then she had no money at that time, so she had 2 or 30,000, and then she repaid the loan every month, and then met a manager or something, and wanted to maintain her, and then I was with the manager Later, I opened a hotel with many men, how much is it at a time.

Now I've told you that it's never going to be like this again.

It's okay to promise to live a good life in the future. In fact, such a woman knows better what kind of life she wants to have. I will cherish the moment.

I wish you all happiness.

You should also adjust your mentality.

Ok thanks.

1. You are married to a husband: as long as you tell him the truth, he doesn't care and still loves you.

2. As for his family: I don't think you have to take the initiative to tell them, if you tell them now, they can't accept to make noise, and it's not good for you, you and your children. If you can hide it, hide it first, and wait for the child to be born

If they find out and question you later, you can tell them that your husband knows and doesn't care about your past.

3. "But don't you talk about the past that you can hide?" I'm pregnant now. How can I not let my mother-in-law know that I have given birth before?

You don't need your mother-in-law to wait for your confinement, invite your confinement lady or let your mother come. If you have to invite your mother-in-law to come, she knows it and faces it bravely, anyway, even if your mother-in-law is angry with you and you are not happy at that time, you will not affect the child because of bad emotions.

I believe that as long as your husband stands with you, as long as the children are lively and cute, they will restrain and transfer even if they are angry. It's much better than telling them now that both you and your child are angry and affected.

Explain to your family should be his business, not you to take the initiative to confess something, but it is best to talk to your boyfriend based on facts, he has the right to choose to refuse and not accept, but you should tell him that if you say that your boyfriend has been concealed something, then these things will be known sooner or later, and it will also destroy your basic principle of getting along, trust. Maybe you tell him frankly that he will still have half a chance to accept it, and if it is known after concealment, the hidden danger of your marriage will be great.

As for the family, in fact, this should be said by himself, he has said it, look at his family's attitude and reaction, and then you can guide and solve your relationship in a targeted manner, but if you take the initiative to say it blindly, then, not only the family can not accept it, but he may also feel very troublesome.

So, the key to your problem is your affection and honesty with him, which is more important than anything else.

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To tell the truth, it's all a family, and you now have his baby, his family will still accept it, look down on it, it's too much to say, if you're good, everything will be wiped after a long time.

It's better to discuss it with your boyfriend, see what he means, don't make your own decisions, otherwise you will ruin your boyfriend's good intentions, and it will also ruin your happiness, which will make your boyfriend embarrassed, understand? No matter what, the two of them should discuss it together, so that it won't hurt each other, you say? Personally, I think you should listen to the people in his family.

I think it's better to be honest with his family. Otherwise, it will be even worse if you know about it later. You will be happy.

Let's be honest. As long as you truly love each other. I'm sure they'll understand!

If you don't tell it now, you'll regret it later.