How on earth am I going to solve such a problem

People sometimes have to think about their own future, you don't owe them anything, since neither of them can give you happiness, just find a good one! If you don't stay together for a long time, you will forget about your boyfriend in prison, and then you will find that it is wise not to choose them.

Don't, really, a life partner is not a small problem, don't gamble your life, if you can't meet the right person, then please stay in the boudoir with a quilt, I am not an ideal candidate, if your hunger conditions are okay, age is not a problem, or not a big problem, then wait, there will be a prince riding white to find you.

For a lifetime of investment, be thoughtful.

From the time the landlord described your imprisoned boyfriend, you didn't have deep feelings for him at all, and your own psychology is already an answer, that is, you won't choose that boyfriend;

And for the boys around you, you'd better get along for a while, and if everyone gets along, give yourself a chance.

I want to ask you, are you in love for the sake of falling in love? Or do you fall in love for the sake of getting married for the rest of your life?

If it's for the former, whoever can bring you joy and laughter, whoever can give you romance, choose whomever you want.

If it's for the latter, then I advise you, it's better not to wait for nothing, and the reason for this, believe me not to say, you should also understand that those people around you who are really good for you and have a bit of brains should give you a careful and serious analysis.

It's a difficult question, like asking "life and love, you can only choose one". Do whatever you feel happy with your own feelings, and the people who love you will respect your decision and want you to be happy.

First of all, it is necessary to recognize your own problems and be willing to change, which is the first step to solving them.

Secondly, it is advisable to communicate with friends and family to seek emotional support and advice. If possible, consider consulting a psychologist or counselor who can help you understand where your emotional problems lie and provide solutions and support.

In addition, we must learn to take care of ourselves and try our best to create a healthy, positive, and open life for ourselves. Through your own efforts, cultivate a positive and optimistic attitude, pay more attention to your inner feelings, enhance self-awareness and self-confidence, and attract a suitable partner for you more attractively.

Finally, don't give up and be patient and confident in yourself, there will always be setbacks on the way to success, but that won't stop you from continuing to seek positive change and move forward.

First of all, I want to congratulate you, you have met a peerless good man.

But when you want to get this hard-won relationship and a good man you don't want to give up, the price you need to pay may be great. I can't make a decision for you whether to leave or to persevere. I can only give you an analysis of what you need to pay and what you can get.

If you think it's worth it, go for it. If you feel that it is too hard and thankless, then give up.

The first is to persevere, and to try to win his mother's understanding.

First you have to figure out why his mother did this to you, but you must not misunderstand her, because his mother will do this for the sake of his son, your man. Because you have people you love together. Even her love is countless times greater than yours.

Only by knowing the cause can you solve the problem at its root.

Second, you need to work hard to infect his family with your kindness and love, I believe that even if his mother is a difficult person to get along with, if other family members will support you, your chips will increase. Time will make you harmonious, but how long is it? You need to endure more grievances that others can't bear.

You have to be mentally prepared. But I believe that as long as you are good to his family, good to his son, that is, your man, and your mother-in-law is not crazy, there is no reason why you will be fine.

Thirdly, you need to have good communication with your man and let him understand why his mother is doing this to you. Let him help you do more with less.

Then it's time for you to weigh up your gains and losses. In case, I mean in case. If you persist for ten years and pay for ten years, but his mother is still against it, then what you get will not be happiness.

Because it is difficult for any man to deal with the conflict between his mother and his daughter-in-law. Maybe you're both tired, maybe for a year or two you feel like a man has given up his family for you. You feel happy, but you're all tired after a long time.

Even if you're tired for so long, there's still a chance you won't get his mother's support. This is the worst-case scenario. At that time, you will no longer be young, and it will be difficult to marry if you want to.

Finally, let me talk about my personal opinion: people only know if they will regret it when they do it, and they can only regret it if they don't do it. Because I believe that if people have to give, they will definitely be rewarded. But don't ask for anything in return.

Marrying is not just about marrying a man, but from a certain point of view, it is also about marrying another family, if he has a "vicious" family, then hurry up and say goodbye, although it is easier said than done, women should choose that family when they marry.

Why do you think he doesn't reply to you? If you are really a peerless good man, will you not give you an explanation for dragging it out? At least reassure you, don't you?

Good communication is necessary, but you have to think about what your situation will be like in the future. If it is still possible to improve, your efforts will be rewarded, I support you to persevere, after all, true love is not easy. But having love doesn't mean that you can care about everything, first you have to know where your bottom line is.

Don't think that it's his mother scolding you now, it's very helpless that he doesn't reply to you, who knows what he thinks. Anyway, don't be blindly optimistic until he makes a clear statement.

You lack faith, so you should build faith. I think the best way to build confidence is to succeed in something, but if you don't do it, you don't have confidence in yourself, and you enter a vicious circle.

If you want to get rid of it, you must try to do it. If you do it, you may fail, but if you don't do it, you are not even qualified to fail.

First of all, think about what problem you are facing? I asked myself what I wanted, what was my goal? Only when these questions are clearly thought out can you further resolve to take action.

It's the same for both of us, but I've changed it now, and there's a way to do what you want to do as a person or as an individual.

This has something to do with people's self-confidence and has always been related, and it is impossible to succeed if you don't change it if you know where the problem is.

Now that you know, how do you want us to help you? Read more inspirational books, I think what you lack is self-confidence and fighting spirit!

It is recommended that you find Carnegie's "Successology" and read it several times, maybe it can give you some inspiration. Good luck up!

We used to calculate that a 100 million yuan bill weighs a ton. People who can earn more than 600 tons of banknotes in their thirties are actually solving their own problems. I didn't want to go out to eat, so I ran to deliver it to someone else's house.

This is the mindset that an entrepreneur should have.