My grandma is unreasonable, really unreasonable?

Hello landlord, for the elders in your family, you still have to respect them.

Because they are elders after all, sometimes they are unreasonable, and we as young people have no choice. Or follow their temperament.

So sometimes you don't want to talk to them about big and small things, their older generation has their ideas, and sometimes their concepts and ours are. It's not the same, so sometimes it's hard for us to reason with them.

But as juniors, we must respect our elders, and even if sometimes they say things that don't make sense, we can't contradict them. It is easy to make the elders angry, and getting angry will affect their physical health.

So what we usually do is try to talk about things less with our elders. And even argue about something, because we are not different from their ideas. So there will be different opinions on the same thing.

So what we have to do is to talk less about things with our elders, and if there is anything you can do with your peers, you can talk to your peers. I believe that the opinions of my peers will basically be the same.

Try not to talk about these issues with your grandmother at home, and then you won't feel that the elders are unreasonable!

Your grandmother's age should be very big, so old people are generally very young in reading, so his concept of things is also very different, you don't have to refuse with him, don't argue with him, he said he is right, you are not sick, after all, he is your grandmother, his knowledge is not the same.

Older people are generally very young readers, so his concept of things is also very different, you don't have to refuse with him, don't argue with him, he says he's right, you don't have to get sick, after all, he is your grandmother, his knowledge is not the same.

Grandma is unreasonable, it has become a habit, you can't change her, only you usually don't argue with her.

Old and young, the older people are, the more they will fall back, what to do with her when they are so old, don't mess with her if you are unreasonable, just try to accommodate her and avoid her.

Your grandmother is unreasonable, so you leave him and talk to him, but what should you do or how to do it, when the grandmother takes care of the grandchildren, it is rare now, when you are older, you have your own parents in education, and when you are a grandmother, you should not be overly involved.

You also seem to know very well that the problem is **. Quarrels are always two people, and one slap can't be slapped. Why do you want to push her? You don't want to hear her, so why do you have to put things on the top of such conflicts?

It's not that grandma is unreasonable, it's that grandma and you have different concepts, so her reasoning is inconsistent with yours.

Then don't say it, she thinks she is reasonable, you don't object to it, just do it according to your own ideas!

You are a young person, even if grandma is wrong, it is right, and it is right or wrong to earn with grandma, even if you are right and wrong.

Your grandmother is old, and if you are confused, you will reason with her, which is equivalent to talking in vain.

Hello, for us, grandma is old and can't communicate, you can use another method, but you can't force it. As the saying goes, that's what old kids mean. Sometimes the old man will become quite unreasonable, not that the old man has become unreasonable, there are physiological factors and psychological factors, which is an inevitability.

For example, he obviously bought a very beautiful dress for the old man, but the old man Peiqiao scolded himself for spending money arbitrarily, just saying a word, chattering endlessly, at this time, the best way is to pretend to be deaf and dumb. Pretended not to hear, so he didn't tell anything, and followed the old man to scold and speak. Slowly, the old man forgot about it.

2.Relieved understanding. If the old man has several children, he must be the most concerned about the most distressed child.

As the eldest son and eldest daughter in the family, you must be relieved and understand the elderly. If you are obsessed with the partiality of the elderly, not only will it not help, but it will cause contradictions, provoke outsiders to watch the excitement, and the old man will also get angry and sick. Why bother, so be sure to relax and don't worry about it.

3.Distract the elderly. Some elderly people become very reluctant when they get older, and they have to do things that they shouldn't do.

At this time, forcibly stopping the elderly will cause conflicts, which can be solved by diverting the attention of the elderly. For example, some elderly people are superstitious about a certain health care product and have to insist on buying it. At this time, you can accompany the old man to travel and so on, distract his attention, and slowly forget about this matter.

4.Earnestly teach. When we were young, our parents always taught us earnestly.

And when our parents are old, they become our children again, and we need to teach them earnestly. For example, the elderly like to eat foods high in sugar and fat, which we know is not good for the body. At this time, we need to teach the elderly patiently and meticulously, so that they know the dangers of excessive consumption of these leaky key foods.

5.Finally, magnify the trick and treat it cold. To treat the elderly who are really vexatious, it needs to be treated coldly for a period of time.

Cold treatment is not a cold war, nor does it make the old man feel hurt, but to keep a certain distance from the old man, and when the old man feels that he is wrong for a long time, he will turn his mind and slowly accept the correct way and method. It should be noted that you must not be in a hurry to get along with the elderly, be patient and slowly influence them.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

This kind of person, especially the elderly, has a big ** with you, which is very unreasonable. Only adjust your own mentality, don't get angry, and deal with it calmly. The most important thing is that you have to work hard, do what you have to do, have a profit, and earn money.

If you don't have a job, you can study hard to learn knowledge, master one or several skills, and have the ability to settle down, and your situation will be fine! Many people have experienced your experience, don't go to your heart, just treat it as if there is nothing, this is also cultivating your character and self-cultivation, which is also cultivating your character and self-cultivation.

Can't afford to provoke, you can afford to hide, don't be like the old man, she scolds you, you just go away, don't quarrel with her old man, lest you get angry and get sick.

When she says you, you just say okay, pay attention next time, and it doesn't matter if she listens to you or not, you just go away.

The selfish old man has been selfish all his life, and he can't change it, you can only change yourself, look lighter, relax your heart, and look farther, you will treat her as having a low IQ and not the same as her. Do you think about who she is and does it have anything to do with you! It's okay, don't care what she says, just don't hear what you do, so everyone will think you're sensible.

Hehe, if you don't get angry, she should be angry! Try it if you don't believe it!

This kind of old man is patriarchal and feudal. Just ignore her, sooner or later spoil your brother.

The neurotic old woman her and took it.

Why doesn't my grandma look at me, no matter what I do, my grandma is not content to talk about me every day.

Are you a man or a woman? Females are normal, and males are a little abnormal