May I ask how my mother in law feels unreasonable?

If you don't care, you just ignore what she says.

It's just a breakdown! Living with such unreasonable and unconscionable in-laws! It's just miserable!

Having children also has to allow yourself to cultivate all aspects of your ability, otherwise it will really harm your life, and the hot potato is talking about you.

Daughter-in-law is sometimes difficult.

When I gave birth, my mother-in-law didn't come, and I didn't cook a meal during confinement, and his daughter gave birth to a child, and she went a month in advance and stayed with the child for 100 days.

Just after giving birth to a child and confinement at my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law came in and said, "I've calculated, you two have my son." "I also said that I don't want to eat as well as others during my confinement, three meals of noodles a day.

I've been with my partner for more than three years, I've been serving his mother for more than two years, and I fell out last night, and I've heard that my parents ask their daughters for money, but I shouldn't ask my daughter-in-law who hasn't been through the door to ask for money.

This is normal, let a woman with a reasonable mother-in-law talk about it, let us open our eyes.

After I married into my husband's family, I saw that his mother couldn't get up, his father was still in his 60s, I was soft-hearted, so I let his father stay, and I served his mother, but his mother was good, and I should serve him.

When I disagreed with my mother-in-law, she always said to me: "You are a woman from other places, it is your blessing to marry into our family, and you still talk back to me." ”

My mother-in-law kept saying that I was not good outside, and I was also when I was pregnant, which made me cry every day and gave birth to my daughter early, because she was very disgusted. My husband was also taking care of me during the confinement, and my mother-in-law didn't care about it at all.

My mother-in-law and my husband have separated from each other, but my husband has to hand over the money to her, and then the two of us have to ask her for every penny, and I have to ask for instructions for every penny, and I am speechless for such a mother-in-law.

Having an unreasonable mother-in-law is a particularly difficult feeling, and it feels like every day at home is particularly uncomfortable. And every time she encounters something, her mother-in-law helps outsiders and doesn't help herself. When there is a conflict with her husband, her mother-in-law will also say that she is not, and she will never complain about her husband.

With an unreasonable mother-in-law, I feel like an outsider and it is difficult to integrate into the family. Especially when this mother-in-law is not good and her husband is stupid, she really makes herself very helpless. In her husband's mind, her mother-in-law is right to do everything, and it is not easy for her mother-in-law to raise him alone.

So no matter what happens, let the mother-in-law go. I think that when a family gets along, they should help each other and not help relatives. If there is always a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the husband is towards the mother-in-law, then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will only get worse and worse in the future.

A good mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship must have played a very positive role in the middle. The husband is always next to the mud, or only helps the mother-in-law, so this husband doesn't want it.

I think the reason why there is an unreasonable mother-in-law is because when my mother-in-law was at home before, she always said the same. No one will refute the mother-in-law's opinion and obey the mother-in-law's words. It is also a habit that has always been formed, so that my mother-in-law has no way to change it.

But I think that if you want to make the family more harmonious, you must take good care of your daughter-in-law's feelings. Because the daughter-in-law is also a little princess who is loved by her parents, after coming to her in-law's house, she takes on the task of taking care of the family. There are some things that should not be undertaken by the daughter-in-law.

So I think we must cherish the dedication of my daughter-in-law.

When encountering this kind of unreasonable mother-in-law, you must stick to your principles and not compromise easily. And after you marry his son, the two of you have established a new family, and for the establishment of this new family, you are the hostess, and the mother-in-law cannot meddle in the affairs of the family. The attitude towards the mother-in-law must be neither humble nor arrogant.

The first difficulty in the world is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there will inevitably be some contradictions between the two generations, and the mother-in-law is an elder who can't contradict it, when they are unreasonable, as a daughter-in-law, they will be very angry but there is no way.

If this mother-in-law's son chooses to marry by himself, there will be a feeling that he has unspeakable suffering. She can't understand what you say or do. If you don't go to work at home, she will dislike you for playing at home and not doing things, only spending money.

You go out to do things, and she will say that you don't care about the house, and you don't care about anything at home. No matter how well you do, she will not be satisfied, she will always pick the bones in the eggs, and even tell the relatives in the family that you are not.

Many married women will face the problem of discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, when we have an unreasonable mother-in-law, what we can do is to meet as little as possible, as much as possible to follow her ideas, although our hearts are thousands of unwilling, but for the sake of our family harmony, we have to wronged ourselves to make concessions.

Feelings of grievance, sadness, sadness. Because in a family, getting along with your mother-in-law is the longest, if your mother-in-law is not reasonable, it is difficult to live a good life.

Although there is an unreasonable mother-in-law who is unhappy in her heart, first of all, you must not say bad things about her behind her back, just keep things at home, understand each other more, and after a long time, your mother-in-law will always see your good side, which will move you, but don't be too enthusiastic about her.

It will be very embarrassing, I feel helpless, and I don't know what my life will become after marriage.

If there is a mother-in-law who does not know what to do, it must be a particularly helpless feeling. And it will be especially tiring to get along with such a mother-in-law.

A mother-in-law who doesn't understand her heart can be said to be particularly depressed and painful, because with such a mother-in-law, husband and wife will often quarrel, and they feel that such a marriage is really too aggrieved.

I feel like an outsider in my mother-in-law's family, I won't get the support of my mother-in-law in anything, and I feel like I'm going to be angry when I get married.

First of all, go to your mother-in-law's house less, out of sight and out of mind, secondly, tell your husband your attitude, get your husband's support, let your mother-in-law come to your house less, and finally, if your husband does not understand, you should be stronger.

It is a very annoying feeling to have an unreasonable mother-in-law, and you will feel very aggrieved, and you will feel that everything you do is not recognized.

Often pointing fingers at himself.,Pick fault with things.,Can't see yourself idle.,Like an overseer.,Very annoying.。

There is an unreasonable mother-in-law who must be unhappy in her heart, but don't say bad things about her behind her back, but don't be too enthusiastic about her, understand each other more, after a long time, your mother-in-law will always see your good side, and it will move you.

If the mother-in-law is unreasonable, it will often lead to constant conflicts between the two husbands and wives, and the chickens and dogs will jump at home. In this case, it is necessary to strengthen communication between the two sides.

If you have such a mother-in-law, then you will feel that you have married the wrong person. My mother-in-law is messing around like this, so my husband is also with my mother-in-law, and I have the urge to divorce.

I will feel that I am particularly unlucky, and when I meet such a mother-in-law, I will be very distressed, and I hope that I can get rid of the sea of suffering.

I feel very aggrieved, very sad, I feel that he doesn't understand anything, he is forceful, and it is difficult to stay at home.

There are mainly the following ways to treat unreasonable and uneducated mothers-in-law: 1. Treat her as a person.

When in life, reasoning with your in-laws doesn't make sense at all, then women don't force themselves to reason with their in-laws anymore, this path is no longer feasible. Women must learn to treat others in the way of others, in this case, women must learn to be tough in order to suppress their in-laws, so that their in-laws can have a sense of awe for you.

2. My son's feelings.

Don't say bad things about your mother-in-law in front of your husband, don't say anything about your mother-in-law behind your back, no matter what you say or not, your husband will be unhappy. It is also unwise to be angry with your mother-in-law and then show your husband's face, you pretend to be pitiful than give him a face.

3. No noise, no noise.

In the face of her mother-in-law's vicious words, most women can't stand it and want to hate each other. It's understandable that I can't stand the vicious mouth of my mother-in-law, but if you want to solve the problem and resolve the conflict, this kind of quarrel will only add to the rift and will not do any good. The best way to deal with quarrels is actually to let the mother-in-law be unreasonable, no matter how obedient the husband is, he will feel annoyed.

4 have their own income.

If the mother-in-law is too aggressive, and the daughter-in-law is not going to tolerate her. At this time, the daughter-in-law should pay attention to the most important thing to use less of her mother-in-law's money. Many daughters-in-law don't go to work by themselves, they rely on their husbands to support, and even rely on their parents-in-law to raise their heads, such daughters-in-law can't hold their heads up, if the daughter-in-law has her own income, then she has the confidence to talk to her in-laws.

5. Keep your distance.

For a smart woman, to deal with this kind of strong, unreasonable mother-in-law must learn to keep a distance, stay away from her, even if the conditions are worse, you must live separately, and you can't live with your in-laws.

6. Give her face.

Now although there is no need to follow what three from the four virtues, but the basic etiquette still has to be followed, the old man is strong is nothing more than love face, fight for a face, hope that the daughter-in-law respects herself, listens to her own words, obeys herself, for the sake of family harmony, let the old man be happy, listen to them a few more words or count a few words is nothing.

The above six methods are how to deal with an unreasonable and uneducated mother-in-law I hope everyone will meet a mother-in-law who is kind and cares about herself and takes care of the family I hope mine will be helpful to you.

Treat your unreasonable and uneducated mother-in-law and minimize communication with her. You can convey some of your thoughts through your husband.

How to deal with an unreasonable and uneducated mother-in-law, I think. When you meet such a mother-in-law, then you don't have to reason with him. Since he also has no culture. You can only stay away from such a mother-in-law and do not live with her