In the world of love, why are there always some vexatious people?

Because in love, too many people have never found the security they want.

Love needs two people to take care of it with their hearts before it is possible to embrace happiness. But in the world of love, we can always see some people making trouble unreasonably, pushing the happiness at their fingertips farther and farther, but they cry bitterly in anxiety and fear.

People are not the same, and the views on love are naturally different. As a child who grew up in a healthy family, my greatest expectation for love is to have someone who will accompany me to old age like my parents. In every relationship I have, I hope to grow old with each other, and I hope that the two of them can live happily ever after.

Although everyone wants love to be happy, because of the difference between the growth environment and the living environment, not everyone is willing to manage this happiness in a normal way.

I think love needs tolerance and understanding, but some people think that love is possession, and it is not about who is right and who is wrong, but they have different views on feelings.

The lack of security in the heart pushes many people to seek comfort through vexatious trouble. Two days ago, my friend and lover quarreled, I went out to drink with him, and he complained to me that his girlfriend is always a little unreasonable, and a little thing in life is always endless, and he must pay enough price to be willing to settle things.

But the next time there is a quarrel, the other party will still be like this, and sometimes even bring up all kinds of unreasonable troubles in the past, which makes him miserable.

I smiled and didn't say anything at the time, but after thinking about it, I thought it should be his girlfriend's serious lack of inner security, hoping that in this way I could find a sense of security from his tolerance and care.

But this way really hurts the feelings of the two people very much, maybe the two people who should love each other will be separated because of excessive unreasonable trouble.

No one doesn't want to live a happy life, but everyone has a different path to happiness. Those who are unreasonable only feel the tolerance and care from each other through various temptations, so that they feel that they are truly living in a period of happiness.

There is never anyone right or wrong in love, and vexatious may just be a way for some people to test happiness.

I think these vexatious people, they are caused by insecurity, they want to win the attention of the other party in this way, but this can only affect the relationship between two people.

Because such people are selfish people, they are self-centered and always do not think about others.

Because these vexatious people don't really give their feelings. And there is also some selfishness in the heart.

In the world of love, there will always be some unreasonable people who want the other party's care and concern because they are insecure.

Those who are vexatious in love, they are actually insecure and unconfident, so they want to attract the attention of the other party in this way.