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They slowly became less reckless, and their lives returned to the appearance of ordinary people.
Everyone wants to occupy an important place in life, but convincing others is not an easy task. In life, some people sometimes do things beyond their ability to show that they are strong, but they will eventually learn to recognize themselves and learn to compromise for life as they grow up.
Young and frivolous and reckless, just to attract the attention of others. When we were young, we all wanted to be the protagonists, we wanted to be the center of attention. That's everyone fighting, fighting for the position of the protagonist, fighting for the center of everyone, and striving to be the so-called first.
I've been through that phase where I always feel like I can do it, whether it's possible or not. I dare to try what others don't dare to try, I do what others don't want to do, I just want to be the most special one. But I'm just an ordinary person, and there's really nothing special about life.
But I'm not reconciled, unwilling to become a supporting role, so it becomes inevitable to do something. Some things are lucky, and I am overjoyed; Something failed, and I was bored.
But as long as there is such a thing, I am always willing to try, just for the dream of the protagonist in my heart.
The reckless person slowly becomes less so, and life returns to its normal trajectory. In the school days, there are the most stubborn people, but after entering the society, there are fewer and fewer stubborn people. Because everyone on campus is tolerant and doesn't care too much about something, even if you make a mistake, most people just laugh it off.
But no one in society will bear your mistakes for you, a mistake is a loss, so we become less and less courageous, and less and less daring to be strong, because we can't afford some consequences until we have some consequences.
I only really understood this truth after working for a few years, we are all for a better life, being able is capable, and if you can't do it, you can't do it, and you won't have any good results except for bringing losses to yourself and causing trouble to others.
This may be the process of a person's growth, we always need some time to grow up, we need to go through something to mature.
Every time you are strong, it may become a stepping stone on your way to growth.
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People who love to be strong in life may eventually become dumb and eat coptis, and have the mentality of not being able to speak, because they don't know how to do what they can.
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In fact, there are good and bad in life, but no matter how good or bad life is, you can't be strong, because strong people are often just people who talk big, and in the end they will be looked down upon, because your stubbornness can't do anything, and what you say makes people become handles, so if you can achieve it, you can achieve it, and you can't work hard to achieve it.
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In fact, these reckless people end up living a very miserable life, because they easily make themselves miserable.
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I don't think those who have any strength but still love to be strong don't end up very well, because they always do things that slap their faces and make them fat.
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Only with reverence can we stop.
I am no longer reckless because I know that only by cherishing myself first can I have the ability to protect my family and protect my happiness.
You don't have to be reckless because you have learned to reconcile with life.
Why do people choose to be strong?
Perhaps, it is the fear of spreading out the vulnerability, and not being able to meet the understanding and understanding.
Perhaps, it is the fear that once we back down, someone else will take over our role.
Perhaps, because I don't want to trouble others, I always want to prove that I can, so I have to force my mind to make trouble.
Perhaps, I just don't know how to refuse, and then let myself be burdened with full expectations, and I will never be able to get off the shelf if I am caught up.
As everyone knows, only when you let go of stubbornness and face yourself honestly, can you meet the truth and exchange for the nourishment of love. Only if you show weakness reasonably and keep the bottom line, can you win the cherishment and respect of others.
Only by choosing to face the imperfections of life, not suppressing the heart, not pretending to be calm, and crying and laughing out loud, can we achieve reconciliation with life.
May you be lonely no longer be reckless, and someone will understand all your appearances and share your sorrows.
May you be strong, have a shoulder, take off your guards, and harvest the power of gentleness and warmth.
May you and I who walk in the world be strong, but you don't have to be strong!
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A strong person is good at covering up his inner sadness with a strong appearance, and is accustomed to Ling Gao replacing the sadness between his eyebrows with a gentle smile.
Learned to be strong.
But I can't let go of it.
A strong person doesn't like to trouble others, and he has to do everything himself; People who like to be stubborn, even if they can't do anything about it, will smile and say it's okay.
Stubborn people are physically and mentally exhausted, and have too much helplessness to tell; People who like to be stubborn are actually very tired and accustomed to taking responsibility, but they are always embarrassed by themselves.
Stubborn people seem to be invulnerable, but in fact they are all pretending. Many times, if you are obviously weak, you can be treated gently, but you want to be strong and reject people.
People who like to be stubborn will also be sad, sad, crying, and painful, but they are used to hiding all their negative emotions in their hearts, not letting others see them, and not letting others worry about them.
Reckless people are very good at disguise, they can just shed tears, and then smile and say it's okay in the blink of an eye; You can talk and laugh, but your heart is bitter.
People who like to be stubborn are not hurt if they don't have a ruler, nor are they not heartbroken, but they are not used to being cared for and comforted.
A reckless person will not easily shed tears in front of others, will not easily open his mouth to beg others, no matter how hard and tired he is, he must endure it silently, and no matter how painful it is, he will bear it by himself.
People who like to be strong, once they cry in front of others, they are really heartbroken; Once you open your mouth to ask for someone, it is really the end of the road.
A strong person is very fragile and insecure in his heart. That's why I use the strong side to disguise myself and protect the scum and destroy myself. In fact, they are very eager for someone to love, cherish, and warmth, but they are used to watching coldly.
People who like to be strong are because they have no choice, helpless and no support, sad and no hug, not strong, not strong to face everything alone, who else can be brave for themselves.
Life is not easy, and it is even more difficult for people who are reckless, because they always grit their teeth and carry life on their backs. If you can, give them a little more care, a little more love.
In fact, it's not that we love to be strong, it's just that we are used to knowing ourselves.
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In our lives, we often meet some people who are very reckless, and they have to say that they can do what they can't do, just to listen to a nice word from others and satisfy their inner vanity. In fact, I know my own strength, but blindly loving and being strong will only harm myself and will also give myself great consequences. Therefore, don't be reckless in life, do what you can, and don't force yourself if you can't.
One: Let yourself be wronged. Two:
The other half often quarrels with you. Three: their own interests are harmed.
Therefore, people can't be strong for a while, how much strength to do how big things are, otherwise you will be wronged in the end, and at the same time, it will bring great consequences to yourself, which is not good.
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People who love to be strong in life, the final result is that they are under great pressure, and they will pay a lot of price for their love, and even make themselves feel exhausted.
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People who love to be strong in life, generally speaking, they will reap the consequences, after all, they are beyond their ability, and there are many things that must not be done well, or they can't do the best with their hard work, and they will only make themselves very helpless.
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People who are particularly reckless in life, the final result must be very bad, often annoying, and sometimes doing some stupid things.
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People who love to be strong will only make their lives worse, because people should do what they can, not force themselves to do things that they can't do, which will only do half the work.
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People who love to be strong are generally unrealistic, and there are many things that break their teeth and swallow them in their stomachs. Because they like to do things that slap their swollen faces and make them fat.
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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.
There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.
They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who really love you may not say how much Xu Payou loves you, but they will do many things to love you.
If you find that there are such people around you, please cherish .......
Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.
In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back.
If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.
Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.
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