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A long time ago, in ancient China, there was actually a relatively serious phenomenon of preference for sons. For example, girls are not inherently respected than boys, and they do not have the same "treatment" as boys. In ancient times, women were "virtuous if they are not talented".
This sentence was a deep-rooted concept in the hearts of ancient people at that time. Moreover, the society at that time also paid attention to three obedience and four virtues. At that time, a man could marry more than one woman.
The existence of these various phenomena shows whether women were too respected in the society at that time. Today, that notion is long gone. Today's women have the right to learn knowledge, to work hard, to rely on their own efforts, to get a better life.
Therefore, women nowadays are very capable and brave. It also expresses the notion that women are no worse than men and that men and women should be equal.
So the question we have today is. Does the lower the level of education, the earlier a woman marries? This is not the case.
There may be some women who are not able to receive a good education for family reasons or other reasonsBut this does not prevent them from continuing to work hard the day after tomorrow, because people are always growing, and people will definitely learn knowledge in the process of growth. As long as a person has the heart to move forward, he will definitely not disappoint himself.
Therefore, whether to marry or not is a girl's own choice, and I don't think it has much to do with the level of education. And. If a girl chooses to start a family, she has to bear much more than just lack of knowledge.
He is also responsible for the education of his children and the maintenance of family relationships. So there's no easy way to go.
I also want to say to all the girls, even if your current education is not high. But don't be easily discouraged, because of this society. Academic qualifications are secondary, your abilities are the most important.
I also hope that in the future in life, girls will not rely too much on others. We must rely more on ourselves to live and strive to become a better version of ourselves.
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Most of the time this is the case. Since he doesn't have much potential for development, he can only start a family as soon as possible.
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Yes. In general, the more educated a woman is, the more independent her mind is. The more opportunities there are to work or start a business, the older the age of marriage, and the wider the choice.
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Generally in rural areas, this is indeed the case, if a girl has a low education level and cannot find a good job, the family will tell her a family affair early, and the girl usually marries herself in a daze. Nowadays, the education level of girls is getting higher and higher, and it is rare to marry very early.
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In recent years, more and more survey data show that the higher the education level of women, the lower the standard for mate selection. This phenomenon has an important impact on society, and it is formed by the interaction of many factors.
1. The influence of circumstances on the criteria for choosing a mate.
Women with higher educational qualifications usually live and work in a better environment. The draft seeps up their requirements for quality of life, and the requirements for men are also higher, such as having a job, a stable income and a good family background. However, the advantages of highly educated women in terms of social environment, educational background, etc., do not translate into the ability to get along with potential partners.
On the contrary, as women become more educated, they actually become more lonely and have a greater need for stability and love. In this case, they will gradually lower their requirements for men and pay more attention to the balance of family, friendship and love.
2. The influence of traditional culture and values.
In traditional Chinese culture, the status of women is low, and they are more dependent on men's protection and economic support than men's status. Therefore, it is very important for women to marry and have a family, and they will seek stability in this regard, especially when they return to their homes when they are older. In such a situation, women may pay more attention to the actual living conditions and environment, and lower the requirements for male education and occupation.
In addition, Chinese women have a very high proportion of traditional filial piety, family and social responsibility, and have requirements for graduation, finding a job, and having a stable income for the other half of the opening half. Once they find someone who can create happiness together, they are willing to lower the standards of mate selection and work together to achieve results in family life and other aspects.
3. The change in the perception of women's roles.
With the gradual transformation of social development and cultural concepts, women play a more independent and autonomous role in modern society. They attach more importance to affirming personal values and independent thinking, and gradually get rid of the shackles of traditional family concepts such as love and marriage. This has led to a change in the focus of women with a high level of education in the selection of mates, taking into account not only the actual economic and living conditions of men, but also more attention to the personal character and character of men, so as to ensure that they can obtain a more balanced emotional life.
In summary, the phenomenon of women with a high level of education lowering the criteria for mate selection is affected by a variety of reasons, including circumstances, traditional culture and role perception. As a scholar of contemporary society, this phenomenon needs to be studied in depth, and more mate selection standards and practices suitable for contemporary women can help them find a partner that meets their personal wishes and emotional needs as soon as possible.
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There is no simple answer to this question, as marital choice and mate selection conditions are influenced by a variety of social, economic, cultural and psychological factors, rather than a single factor.
One possible explanation is that there is no fixed or inevitable relationship between a woman's mate selection and education level. On the contrary, the mate selection conditions of different women are often more affected by various factors such as family background, socioeconomic status, and values. Therefore, there is usually no single causal relationship between the level of mate selection conditions and the individual's education level.
In addition, the relationship between a woman's education level and mate selection conditions may also be influenced by social and cultural background. In some societies, women's cultural restraint may adversely affect their marital and family life, leading to lower expectations of marriage and mate selection conditions. In other societies, women's education may increase their economic and social status, thereby increasing their requirements for mate selection.
Therefore, the view that the higher the woman's education level, the lower the conditions for mate selection may not be applicable to all situations, and it needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
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I think this kind of problem is a bit discriminatory, low culture does not mean no ambition, there are many girls who have no culture through hard work still made the first pot of gold in life, they have reached the pinnacle of life, not by education, but by unremitting efforts.
Is there a necessary connection between effort and cultural level? I don't think so, just like there are a lot of people around me who don't have any academic qualifications, they are still living positively, they don't want to rely on anyone, they only rely on their own hard work.
That's right, this is an era of fighting for academic qualifications, but you can't guarantee that some girls with academic qualifications will still hope to get married, and they may not want to work hard, after all, marrying a good man may have to work hard for decades, which is a very real problem.
Of course, it is not excluded that some girls will want to change their fate through marriage in order to live a good life, they can marry a good person, so that they don't have to work hard, most girls may have this idea, all of a sudden fall to a golden beetle son-in-law, the rest of their lives don't have to worry, but everyone seems to think so, which has nothing to do with the level of education.
I have a classmate next to me, he didn't go to school again after graduating from junior high school, but through part-time work, he served dishes to others at the beginning, and then started his own business, and now he has his own chain brand of catering stores, does this have anything to do with academic qualifications? And he doesn't have any academic qualifications, he just relies on that kind of perseverance, he has an idea, that is, to change his fate through his hands, and one day he will be able to get ahead.
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For those with a low level of education, they do not have enough thinking about the future, so it is easy to have this kind of price increase, so we must know how to guide children to consider their own lives.
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I think it's like this, the education level is relatively low or close to zero, I don't understand many things, and the traditional concept is relatively strong, so I will hope to get married.
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I think this view is biased, a low level of education does not mean that his ability to survive is low, so a girl with a low level of education, I found that there are many such girls, his ability to resist frustration, his entrepreneurial ability is very strong.
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It's almost, if they are not admitted to a good school, their parents will say that if they don't study well now, they will have to see if their husbands marry well in the future, and they will be happy for a lifetime if they marry well, otherwise they will be working all their lives and find a good husband.
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I don't think it's that the lower the culture, the more you should work hard, work hard to have ideals and goals, there are many girls who have a high salary, good performance, sit in a good position, and work hard will change their fate.
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In fact, it can't be generalized, some people want to marry a good person, want to fly on the branch and become a phoenix, but I think this will not be successful in the end, most people want to find a reliable person to marry, just live a plain life, I now believe more and more in the right statement.
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Some people think so, because they don't want to work too their own, but choose to take some paths to achieve success, and they have less knowledge to accept, so they are short-sighted.
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Yes, the environment I'm in now is like this.,I'm not good enough but I want to be a good object.,I don't want to improve myself but I want to talk about how people are.。
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I don't think it's necessarily, education level does not determine the thoughts of all girls, I think there are still many girls who want to change their destiny through their own efforts.
It's not a scumbag boy, it's a man who is humorous and funny to make women happy! But girls too, it's not a business to catch up, you have to be rewarded and punished, coaxed and scolded!
Learn about the general life experience of your parents, the major events before and after marriage, and so on. Be more considerate of my parents, don't ask my parents to understand my experience and thoughts, they really want to understand, so I have to say what I have said a few times more times (the attitude should be good, the tone should be sincere, and I should be in a good mood - speak patiently, communicate - very patient, be able to explain and communicate with my parents patiently) It is very difficult to talk to my parents (I have to say 2 or 3 times patiently for some things before they can barely understand).
Yes, the more you sleep, the less you remember.
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No, the emotional matter is not more and more chaotic, if you are you and another person has a problem with the relationship, at this time I suggest that you are the two of you sit down and communicate well, that is, he will say his dissatisfaction, you will express your dissatisfaction, and the two of you will finally find a common way to solve the problems of the two of you, then in the end it must be clear, it is impossible to sort it out, if you can't do it, it means that you have no intention of sorting this matter out at all.