I think I m nothing, but I m nothing

The landlord is not mature enough.

Maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not greasy sound, a kind of calmness that no longer needs the other party to observe words and colors, a kind of atmosphere that finally stops complaining to the surroundings, a smile that ignores the noise, a kind of indifference that washes away the extreme, a kind of thickness that does not need to be spoken, and a height that is not steep.

When you're relieved, you're mature.

There is no need to feel uncomfortable, in fact, no one is valued by others.

Some are just mutual help and mutual comfort.

It's just that you don't have what others need now, so think about your own reasons and improve your own quality.

Man has to live for himself! How tiring it would be to live forever in the eyes of others!! Only you care so much about your feelings, and no one else has time to pay attention to you alone!

Don't overthink ......Eat some of your favorite Xidong, go and make yourself happy, if others can feel your happiness, then you are a welcome person in life!

Know that you are a good boy. How do you know that your parents don't think you are a good child, how do you know that your status is very light among your friends, everyone can't be perfect, you can't be someone else, you want to be what kind of person you want, just smile at everyone around you, try your best to help others, let others experience your goodness. It's as if I see you hanging your head now, silent.

How can you make others pay so much attention to you and treat you like this? Love yourself, then love others, and life will be fine.

If you don't think you're anything, others won't take you seriously.

The most important thing is self-confidence, self-confidence can reflect your charm, stand firm in everything, don't want to be an all-round person, you can do a good job in one aspect, you will be affirmed by others.

I used to do real estate, and some colleagues said that I was not "strong" enough to hold down others, so my performance was not good, which is also an aspect of lack of self-confidence.

You value yourself, how you think you are what others think of you, you were very confident at the beginning! When you were young, you thought you weren't valued, why? Maybe your parents aren't good at expressing their love for you.

This society is full of competition, everyone wants to stand out, and your colleagues are like this, so have you thought about how to make you perform well? If your girlfriend thinks you're bad, will he be your girlfriend? It's just your own view, is that really the case?

Think about it.

Who says you're not??? Everyone craves the promise of someone else. You're too concerned about other people's will. You also have to learn to be considerate of others, and you have to value others.

Work hard to enrich yourself, and if you have strength, you will naturally be valued.

It's not as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think. The key is how to live freely and authentically.

As long as you persevere, you will always find the one that suits you best. When it's tough, think about what you have.

When things are going well, think about what you're lacking.

Bless LZ!

You have to use your own strength to make others respect your strength, so that you will not be taken seriously.

It's good to value yourself, you don't need to be sympathetic, and you don't need people to pay attention

Everyone is unique and has their own strengths and weaknesses. If you can appreciate your own strengths, you will be confident and not blindly compare with others; If you know how to accept your own shortcomings, you will consciously improve yourself!

Maintain an optimistic and calm attitude and mentality! Because we can't be 100% perfect for all kinds of things in life, but if I can, I just want to live ordinary!

自動是 [zì yǐ wéi shì].

Chinese idioms. This entry is a polysemous term, with a total of 5 meanings.

Self-righteousness, a Chinese idiom, pinyin is zì yǐ wéi shì, which means always thinking that you are right, believing that your own views and practices are correct, not accepting the opinions of others, describing subjectivity, and not being modest. From "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace".

The Chinese name is self-righteous.

foreign name be opinionated; be self-righteous

Pinyin zì yǐ wéi shì

Zhuyin Source: "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace".

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Cited explanations. Yes: Yes. I always think I'm right. Describe subjective, not modest.

Xunzi Honor and Disgrace": "All fighters must be self-righteous, and people are wrong." ”

Mencius: "Everyone is pleased, self-righteous." ”

Ming Feng Menglong's "Warning to the World, Drinking and Hating Banshan Hall": Jing Gong is self-righteous, and he advocates for the three deficiencies: "The sky is not enough to fear, people are not enough to be compassionate, and the law of the ancestors is not enough to abide by." ”[1]

Qing Li Ruzhen's "Mirror Flowers" Chapter 84: People in the world are often self-righteous and boastful of their abilities.

Self-righteousness, a Chinese idiom, pinyin is zì yǐ wéi shì, which means always thinking that you are right, believing that your own views and practices are correct, not accepting the opinions of others, describing subjectivity, and not being modest. From "Xunzi Honor and Disgrace".

Self-righteousness is believing one's own guesses, judgments, imaginations, or other people's statements without investigation, analysis, and evidence collection, so that the perception does not match reality, and then does wrong things.

No matter what they think or do, they think they are right, and they don't listen to other people's advice and insist on going their own way.

Self-righteous "yes": Right. I always think I'm right. Describe subjective, not modest.

Self-righteousness, a Chinese idiom, pinyin is zì yǐ wéi shì, which means always thinking that you are right, believing that your own views and practices are correct, not accepting the opinions of others, describing subjectivity, and not being modest.

From: Qing Li Ruzhen's "Mirror Flowers" Chapter 84: The world is often self-righteous and boastful of its abilities.

Translation: People in the world always think that they are right and praise themselves for their abilities.

1. Think your own views and practices are correct.

2. I always think I'm right. Describe subjective, not modest, and do not accept the opinions of others.

The main meaning of self-righteousness is to say that what you say and think and do is correct, and you don't take other people's ideas as one thing, and Qingshu doesn't follow anyone's advice. Generally, such people are more selfish and blindly confident.

I'm right, listen to me.

Usually self-righteous people have a colloquial language, and I think I think that they often impose their own so-called correct ideas on other people's heads, and feel that their thoughts are other people's inner activities. Very disrespectful of others, but also very overestimating their own abilities.

Go to bed on time and wake up on time every day. I want to sleep lazily, but there are thousands of ants swirling in my heart. Maybe it's obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Will all the hard work pay off? If it weren't for someone around me who was upset, I guess I wouldn't have thought about it. I have always believed in my mind that since I have paid, there must be a reward.

After all, everything you do now will definitely be returned to you in a different form in the future. But I slowly found out that this is actually all fake. Where's the fake?

If you think you've worked hard, your heart has been soothed. As a result, it will still end in failure! It's not effort, it's perfunctory.

What's the use of working hard for a few days to get something? None of us are gods. It's a long process that requires calming down.

Is planning everything to be responsible for yourself? No, the so-called plan can't keep up with the changes. In the past, I liked to plan every detail to perfection and wait for things to happen.

Now, I don't believe in my own plans anymore. What's the use of rehearsing in your head? Will it still happen in reality?

No, only approximately. The details play on the spot. It's just taking what you think about too seriously and putting it in a high position.

One day, the quantitative change will become a qualitative change, and you will lose very badly and fall embarrassingly.

The teacher said that it was not until he was in his 30s that he understood who he was. At that time, I was no longer immature, I experienced more things, and my way of thinking would be more mature. Perhaps, I am nothing now.

Nothing, but always thinking that they are great. Does face and dignity bind us from throwing away the burden of self-righteousness? If you can, throw it away.

Don't touch your own principles, and try to transform yourself as much as you like.

One day, my roommate showed me a passage and summed it up by saying that it's not that when you reach age, you have to do something that is appropriate for that age. It's very good, everything is as you like. But how lazy are our hearts?

Too lazy to follow the rules. I hate my current self, and I think I'm growing up to be nothing. Maybe at the end of the day, I spent too much time, and I fell asleep while writing.

I was always thinking about the content of the article. I woke up suddenly, and I forgot all about what I had just thought about in light sleep. I wondered, do we have a perfect self living in our hearts?

The heart can say all the near-perfect words, but when it comes to moving the mouth, it sinks. And what do we think we are who we imagine ourselves to be? It's all a lie.

Lie to yourself.

I deviated from the topic as I wrote, and I didn't know what I was writing. I've written a lot of articles and they don't end up, all of them have no feelings, no ideas, and can't write. My mind was disturbed, and I forgot how to write.

To sum up a truth, never take yourself seriously in the future, and don't take yourself too seriously. It's so restrained, it's really tiring. What you think is perfect is the same in the eyes of others.

You're the first person they knew, unless you become like a different person.

Caring too much about a person who is easy to be cheap, this person also includes himself.

There is a kind of greatness, not that others think you are great, but that you think you are amazing. Thinking you're great will make you proud and stop improving.

When I first did an event after becoming a cloud store owner, the master told me that I was ranked third in the 8500 team. A few days later, the master told me that I was already the champion in our small team.

The last championship has been maintained for a while, and she has been doing it for more than two months. And it took me less than half a month to surpass her.

Although, her performance is not something I envy, because I set a higher standard for myself. However, when I surpassed her, there was still some snickering in my heart, and I even felt that I was amazing.

I thought I knew a lot of things and learned a lot of things. If you think you can do it, even if others know it, you may not be able to do it. Feeling that he was no longer humble, he began to his tail. even, he posted a self-righteous circle of friends in a high-profile manner.

One day, I found that she was working harder and more serious than before, and her performance was getting better and better, which made me feel a kind of pressure inexplicably.

However, even then, even in the case of poor sales, I was arrogant enough to feel that I had no problem. Believe that you have the strength to do better.

However, until one night, there was a new owner who had been in the store for less than half a month at the training meeting, and her sales in three days were worth half a month's sales in me.

I laughed at myself as I listened to her share. I think it's amazing, but I haven't seen it before. It's like a frog at the bottom of a well, just staying in a narrow well, how is it possible, you will see the world farther away.

When I heard one shopkeeper share, two shopkeepers shared, and three shopkeepers shared. I used to be high and self-righteous, but suddenly, I lowered my head in shame.

At that time, it was like being poured a basin of cold water on me, and I became sober. I feel that there is still a big gap between me and them, and what I have done is really insignificant.

However, when I blamed myself and ridiculed, I calmed down. began to secretly rejoice again, fortunately he had found out in time, otherwise he would have been self-righteous.

What we need is to share with each other and keep each other warm. See what their advantages are, and find out what my advantages are? Eventually, bonding becomes the best way for yourself.

Only in this way can we go faster and more steadily. Because the strength of the team is strong, and the strength of the team can be really strong.

Although I used to be self-righteous and made me feel ridiculous, I also want to thank her. It was she who made me see my shortcomings and the direction of my efforts. Come on! Come on and work hard friends.