I want to talk to a guy I like, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-11
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Characteristics of adolescence, curiosity and sexual fantasies about the opposite sex are normal, and it is also a sexual impulsive behavior, there is nothing bad about chatting with boys, but properly control emotions, avoid impulsiveness, divert energy to study, transfer interests, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's talk to him. Do you want to confess to him?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'll talk to you about my situation, yesterday I also explained my attitude to the person I like, like is like, I don't cover up, for the college entrance examination, I chose to keep this beauty, I was very happy to say my heart, she heard that I liked her after she was also very happy, before she confessed to me first, I also liked her but didn't say it (for fear of affecting our learning), and finally I couldn't help but say, just see this matter thoroughly, everyone will have this feeling of being attracted to the opposite sex, I think if you like it, let the other person know that you are happy and the other party is happy, if it is a special situation, then make another arrangement.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's normal for everyone to want to talk to someone they like, and you're not wrong, everyone thinks so.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Who do you like? Of course, who can you talk to, and if they want to talk to you? That's another story, but anyway? You should go for it, what if you succeed?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then you just go and talk to him, what can others do about this? You can. Say to him, I want to talk to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want to chat with the boy you like, then hurry up and find it, you must take the initiative, otherwise people will ignore you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Girls must keep themselves reserved. You like him, you can take the initiative, but remember not to be able to take the initiative every time. If the person likes you, he will definitely take the initiative to find you, rather than waiting until you take the initiative to find him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it's a guy you like.

    If you want to talk to him, this is relatively normal, so go directly to him to see if he will reply, if not, then keep it in your heart. Go with the flow and don't think much about the rest.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I like a guy, but I don't know if he likes me or not, I want to talk to him, if he wants to talk to me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is a normal state of mind, everyone wants to talk to someone they like.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to talk to the boy you like, then you should take a brave step forward, and when you love a man, you should be brave enough to express it, and you should not torture yourself silently.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I want to talk to a guy I like, then you can talk to whoever you like, as long as you like him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you want to talk to a boy you like, then you can talk to him, and the most important thing is to see if the boy has a good impression of you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to chat with a guy you like, then you can chat with the other person, and I believe he can feel that you like him and care about him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's normal to want to chat with a guy you like, so take the initiative to send him a message and see if you get back, and if you reply then there's no problem.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you look for it slowly in life, and you can't find it all at once.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since you want to talk to the boy you like, then you go to him, if he doesn't want to be with you, then you can only leave, emotional things can't be forced.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Be brave, if you want to talk to someone you like, then be brave, maybe you will have better in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is a very normal thing, no need to ask what to do, then go to him, since you like him, then go to him straightforwardly and confess to him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Sometimes you can directly find such a boy to stay here, you can contact directly, and if you communicate text messages, it must be very important for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want to talk to a guy you like, go for it. It doesn't matter if it's your best friend relationship or something else, well, if you want to chat, go ahead and chat.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If everyone has someone they like, it may be like this, and I feel that if you really like her, you should try to buy a little time and then chat.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why are some girls always able to talk and laugh with men, while some can't arouse the other person's interest, and don't even know what to say? So what topics are more appropriate to talk about with the boy you like, and how to find a topic to chat with the boy you like?

    1.Naturally, it's just about doing what they like and seeing what the other person likes. For example, if the other party likes to play games, then you can start with the game, and even say that you can also play games, and if you can't play, it is just so that the other party can teach you to deepen your relationship.

    If a boy likes basketball or something like that, it's too physically demanding to play basketball, and it's not suitable for girls, but you can watch the game, he likes to play basketball, and there will definitely be a star he likes.

    2.It's to see if the two sides have a common hobby. If there is, then it is great, there will be endless words to talk about like-minded people, and because of the common language, the sense of closeness and trust between the two parties will skyrocket.

    3.It's about trying to get the other person used to you. How?

    You can often send messages to the other person, when his weather forecast, remind him to remember to bring an umbrella on rainy days. You can send a good night before going to bed every day. Maybe sometimes he won't reply to your messages, but after a long time, he will inevitably get used to your existence, so that you will slowly enter the other party's heart.

    4.You can send the funny jokes you see, the interesting things you see, and even some of your trivial things to the other person. Then it's just to see how he replies to you, and when he replies to you more.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    1.Be proactive, but don't always be proactive. If you take the initiative too much, he will think that you are easy to talk to, and even if he does not take the initiative, you will always take the initiative to talk to him, then he will no longer bother to think about topics to chat with you, after all, you have already thought about it.

    2.Don't talk about your feelings for other boys in front of him, you may think it will make him jealous, in fact, talking about these things once in a while can have a subtle effect, but if you keep mentioning it, it will only scare people away. He will really think that you are chatting with just to get to know another person.

    3.Don't talk to the end alone, but give him a chance to speak. Don't be afraid to run out of things to talk about, so that he may find it boring.

    Chatting is a two-person thing, and if you've been saying something he doesn't want to hear, it might make him less likely to want to talk to you next time. So he should be allowed to say and talk about some common topics.

    4.When it comes to text chatting, people's attention spans will be shorter, so if you can't attract the guy quickly, then he may be attracted to some things in life, such as watching TV, listening, or chatting with people who are more interesting than you.

    5.Do some mental warm-up ahead of time. What is a mental warm-up? This means that before starting the chat, you should preset the direction or topic you want to chat about, and greet you at the beginning before getting to the point.

    6.Guide the other person so that the other person can't help but say what he wants to say. If you're not that talkative, that's okay, it's good to be a good listener too. Don't worry too much about what you want to say, just focus on it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Back to chatting, how can girls express themselves to improve their attractiveness? Capture the hearts of boys? What's the wrong way?

    What is the right way? Girls are usually interested in humorous guys, so could boys be the same? Should girls be humorous in front of boys?

    Girls should never use jokes to attract boys.

    Let's start with humor. If you're just trying to gain the favor of guys, you're going to tell jokes, and it's no problem to be humorous, because everyone likes humorous people, but if you're just funny, you're most likely to be a guy brother. If you want to capture the hearts of boys and make you intimate lovers, you have to control your expressive desires, as we mentioned earlier, girls who are good at showing themselves will not have much attraction to boys based on the opposite sex.

    It's really a matter of cognition. Our habitual thinking always makes us treat others as our own, and take our own preferences as the preferences of others, just like when it comes to humor, many girls take it for granted that boys like funny girls, because they themselves like funny boys. Yes, girls do tend to have a crush on humorous boys, but that's girls for boys.

    Boys to girls, on the other hand, are the opposite, and girls who are relatively reserved, reserved, and unpredictable are the ones who can arouse boys' interest more. Boys are explorers by nature, full of curiosity about the unknown, you hide yourself appropriately, which can arouse the interest of boys to explore and discover you, and it is precisely because of this that Mr. Bai Juyi's "still holding the pipa and half covering his face" can become a famous sentence through the ages.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think you can first understand each other's interests and hobbies, and then have the opportunity or relevant knowledge to chat, in fact, it's still very good, anyway, knowing yourself and knowing each other, you can deal with everything perfectly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    How to chat with the boy you like in this place, know what interests and hobbies this boy has, and then go to this instant noodle to recharge and cultivate your own interests and hobbies in this area, uh, you have a common topic in chatting!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First understand what he likes, such as playing basketball, football or something, as long as you talk about the topic he likes, he will talk to you himself, and then you can listen. Remember, don't talk about yourself, don't ask why, listen to me prepare for the wrong!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Pay attention to the other person's expression or tone of voice when chatting about the topic. When the other party is not interested, it is natural to change the topic with interest. It's best to find someone who is both interested.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Being with the guy you like should be the sweetest moment, when you don't have time to think about it so much, even if you have already arranged the words, and you don't know how to mess up the plan in front of the person you like. So you don't have to worry about someone you like hating what you say, feel free.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First find out the boy's interests, and then find out about it yourself.

    When you talk to him again, you will.

    There is chat. There are endless common topics.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    First know what he likes.

    Slowly you will find that you have a lot in common.

    And then. If he can't talk to you, don't talk to you.

    Forced feelings are unhappy.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    How to talk to him without chatting.

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