With my girlfriend, what topics should I talk about, I m stupid, and I want to solve it

If you can't say it, don't say it, do more things that care about her, you can't force someone to do what he's good at, that will only make it ......worseBig truth!

She can talk about whatever she likes, such as talking about the fun things she had when she was a child or what she wants to do with her in the future, and the places she goes, and she doesn't need to prescribe any topics I wish you a pleasant time

Say what she likes to hear, what she likes, try to please her, pretend to be a grandson.

Let's talk about human reproduction and reproduction.

Talk about him being more beautiful and in good shape.

Look at her mood, talk about family life, comfort and laugh at her when she is in a bad mood.

Let's talk about what happened today.

Talk about what she likes, what she likes to eat, and how she likes to go there when she travels.

Look at what kind of topics your girlfriend likes, if you like celebrities, you can find more gossip! Brother cares about national affairs, you just watch the news! Anyway, what does she like You Feng Chentong will make up for the class a little, and there will be something to say.

It also depends on whether your girlfriend likes to listen or likes to tell herself, anyway, since it's your girlfriend, you won't even know about this! Say more beautiful things, women are very emotional.

Please, talk to your girlfriend and say whatever comes to mind, don't just want to engage in romantic or heartwarming topics, Mom, I'm in this situation too! It's stressful every day now! I don't think I'm in love!

If you love her, go on, and if you don't, divide it. Selfishness is right!

You mean you think you're dirty, you can only encourage her to keep trying, 69, you try, she can't help but try.

I don't think if that had happened to me, I wouldn't have felt like I loved him ...

I've always been to the person I like, even if we both don't have anything to say, I just look at him super happy, and I don't feel annoyed at all. And I can't stop beeping as soon as I speak, he just listens, and he doesn't like to talk very much, I can't find a topic for a while, and the two of us sit together, and we will feel very comfortable, not embarrassed at all.

I went to find it myself, the topics that you are all interested in, these are the ones that need to be discovered slowly, hehe.

Real chatting isn't about deliberately finding topics. The topics are all naturally carried on. If it is deliberate, then it will be unnatural.

Of course, that's better than no topic at all. As long as you are good at discovering in life, discovering details, and observing life carefully, then you will find that no topic can be talked about, not no topic. I suggest you watch more jokes and try to tell them in front of your friends.

Telling jokes can develop a person's sense of humor, and if you want to talk about it a little longer, then you can try to tell a story, which can be something you see, hear, or happen to you. After finishing speaking, you can still ** it. If you think about it, as soon as a few stories are told, time seems to pass very quickly.

The most important thing is to be confident, to speak confidently. It doesn't matter what you say wrong, I'm most afraid that I won't be able to say it.

This is normal, the run-in period is coming, I also feel this way when I talk to my girlfriend for more than a year, I don't want to hit her, I feel that I have nothing to say to her, I am annoying, I persuade you to think about your girlfriend's good, think about why I fell in love with her in the first place, I wish you happiness

Is it because you don't want to make friends yet?

So, I didn't take the initiative to find a topic.

In fact, you make a few more friends.

That's good, too.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

If you really love each other, you don't have to say endless things together, but you won't feel embarrassed if you don't speak!

Maybe it's psychological, you're too nervous!

In fact, if you think about it, you will have to live together in the future, what can you say to avoid misunderstanding! Right!

Try to communicate with her more and get to know her better! Let go of your heart!

1.Don't be deliberate.

Many times, the more deliberately you look for topics, the more nervous you will become, especially if you have just fallen in love, in fact, your girlfriend accepts you, and you have a time to get to know each other slowly, and you don't need to rush. Just go with the flow.

2.Say what you want.

After all, the purpose of chatting is to be happy, to relax, not to suffer, and many times you feel very relaxed when you let go of yourself.

3.Talk about interest and fun.

For friends in the early stages of love, chatting needs to talk about interests, after all, people who can come together will always have something in common. It's also worth mentioning that if you really don't know what to say, you can tell a little joke or care about the other person.

4.Mindset is paramount.

The more you pay attention to the topic of the chat, the stranger you will become, and it is easy for girls to see if they are not stupid, so you should focus on relaxing yourself. Also, chatting is a long-term thing, and you can practice it slowly.

5.Care-oriented.

6.Improve connotation.

Last but not least, falling in love also needs to be learned, many times you can't tell it because your own knowledge reserves are insufficient, and you can't squeeze it out if you want to squeeze it at a critical moment when you have less ink in your stomach So you need to always have a few jokes, stories, chicken soup for the soul or something, in case of emergency!

I wish you happiness.

Girls like to talk about gossip and like to share gossip with you, and at this time you accompany her to become a gossip man.

Girls like to talk about wearing sails, holding, dressing up, cosmetics. So work hard to thicken your wallet and improve your taste.

Girls like to complain about nothing, and at this time, they either listen silently or give support, and they must not be attacked.

Girls like to talk about celebrities, and obviously you have to have some knowledge of the stars she likes.

Girls are happy to talk about constellations, obviously you have to be familiar with constellations, especially her constellations.

There are also girls who like to watch movies, watch TV, anime, blind air, and variety shows. Let's take your time.

Gossip. Boyfriend. Listen to songs. Movie. Handsome guy. **。

You don't have to think too much, don't think too complicated, just be straightforward.