What are the causes of children losing confidence in learning?

I remember a painter who said that her goal at that time was to go to a good university first, and not to think about a major first. Sometimes I think what she said is quite reasonable, advanced to a good school, has a good atmosphere, and is trying to figure out a way to do professional things to the school. Many school majors can be adjusted, although it is a bit difficult to transfer to science, but it is not impossible, and you can also take the postgraduate entrance examination in the future.

Last year, I heard a teacher teach GRE, he studied computer and nuclear missile engineering in college, but now he speaks English at New Oriental. How many people have entered the major they want to study in college, and how many people have found the right major after graduation. To say that I am not motivated is that I have no courage, and I don't have the courage to face it.

Dude, I didn't turn around, I'm in the same basic situation as you, but even if we choose, we should stick to it. Now we should do our best to learn.

Don't worry about whether it's better to study literature or science, since you have changed back to literature, stick to the end. Cultivate your interest in liberal arts and develop good study habits. Stop worrying about the future and live in the present.

I'm a sophomore in high school, and I was like you at the time, I didn't want to study, and I was afraid that my parents would be disappointed if I didn't study well. However, I just have to work hard.

Everyone has a reason for his existence when he is alive, and it may not be time to show it now, but you must be useful, don't be discouraged, there is still a long way to go, it is important to read the book well but it is not the only way out, look forward, come on!

Actually, I wasn't good at science before, but I chose science after listening to my classmates' advice. I was also negative at the time. But then I didn't care about it, anyway, I just let it be, and think about things later, just like I'm a sophomore now, and the major I studied is not what I like, and I haven't lived it the same way.

The landlord thinks too much, as long as you put down the psychological baggage and then try to find the interest in learning first, and then go to study The effect will be very good.

Introduction: Cause children to lose self-confidence, many times because of parents, so parents need to consider their own education methods, to know that the establishment of children's self-confidence in the process of growth, is also established through some small things in daily life, for example, some parents will have very high expectations for their children, will set some goals for children that are not suitable for children's growth, when these goals are beyond the child's ability, I am easy for children to fail, when these feelings of failure stay in the child's heart, It's easy to hurt your child's self-confidence. There are also some parents who will always use some particularly bad language to criticize their children, you must know that children attach great importance to their parents' evaluation of themselves, if parents always educate their children with some hurtful words, it will completely damage their children's self-confidence.

There are also some parents who always compare their children with other children, in fact, parents want to motivate their children, but in fact, it hurts their children's self-esteem and cannot make their children correctly understand their own value.

Some parents will always force their children to do some things that parents think are right, in fact, it is easy to hurt children's self-esteem in this process, because everyone does not like to be forced by others, and it is easy to hurt self-esteem and self-confidence in this process, so that children feel that they are dominated, and it will make children lose their self-confidence in learning.

Some parents love their children very much, so they will do everything for their children in daily life, protect their children too much, and will not let their children do any little things in life, and children's self-confidence is slowly cultivated through these little things, in this process, if parents can not give their children the opportunity to practice, it is easy to let their children's self-confidence not be established, so parents should learn to let go appropriately, let children do some small things by themselves, so that they can slowly cultivate children's self-confidence.

Finally, if the child does not have self-confidence, it will affect the child's success in life and future work, and he will not be able to establish a good interpersonal relationship with others, and it will be easy to show low self-esteem.

Parents often hit the child, the results of every test are not good, the teacher denies the child, the child is very hard, still there is no way to get good results, and the gap between ability and other children is getting bigger and bigger, these things will cause him to lose self-confidence.

Caused by not having a good learning method, often hitting the child, not having a good education method, resulting in parents not understanding the child, resulting in parents not accompanying the child.

The pressure is very high, the learning content is very difficult, there is no correct learning method, I am blamed by my parents, and I am hit by my teachers.

What should I do if my child regresses in learning and has no confidence in learning after entering middle school?