What can be used to wake up a person who has lost confidence in learning?

I was one of those classmates (and I'm not a classmate anymore). From the perspective of learning motivation, he should attribute his failure to internal, stable and uncontrollable factors in the theory of success or failure. To put it bluntly, it is low ability.

If this learned helplessness continues, it will cause him to fall into great pain, until finally he thinks that he is not the material for learning and stops moving forward. I haven't done any research, and as far as I'm concerned, I think he has a lot of flaws: lazy, fearful, complaining, pretentious, ......However, only practical actions can truly change oneself.

It can be some easy goals to achieve at the beginning, followed by a series of goals, and towards a virtuous circle, he will be a potential stock. A sentence popped up in my mind: Thousands of sails passed by the side of the sinking boat, and ten thousand trees were spring in front of the sick tree.

Although the boat has slowed down, there is still a chance. I am studying pedagogy, and I have cracked some of the confusion from the book, insisted on persevering, and made a fortune! So sometimes it really takes to go hand in hand.

In fact, everyone has unsatisfactory times, there will be times of sadness and disappointment, and there will be times when they feel unbearable; But in fact, nothing is so scary, and any hurdle can be overcome as long as you want to. If you want to start a little, don't get too caught up in the little things.

You have to work hard, but you also have to find a learning method that works for you. Many children do not have good academic performance, often because they do not adopt different methods according to the different characteristics of the curriculum, so they should take the initiative to learn from teachers and classmates around them, read some books about learning methods appropriately, and gradually explore their own learning methods. With the right approach, learning efficiency can naturally be improved.

Learn to be interested and motivated, and find a reason to support learning! Not only for yourself, but also for those who care about you You have to calm down and learn, you must have perseverance, learning is not loved by everyone, it is normal to be tired of learning, it's okay, go to the suburbs to relax, and then try to learn something, maybe it will be better, but don't push yourself.

Teach him how to grasp the study time: 10 minutes to concentrate, 20 minutes to concentrate ......Lengthen gradually. There is Zhang Youchi, improve efficiency.

Don't lose your interest outside of studying: continue the joy of leisure to study! Learning an extracurricular interest that you like is also a bloodbath, isn't it?

Have you ever seen the March Eclipse in Twilight? In the movie, at Bella's graduation ceremony, a girl said something like this (poorly translated): "We have to make mistakes often, so that we can be more aware of what we want to do and what we don't want to do in the future."

You can also see that you care a lot about what others think of you, but have you ever wondered how you think of yourself? Not confident? No goal?

If you think so yourself, what will others think? So you have to cheer yourself up first. Mindset is important, and so is confidence o( oThe last sentence that Maslow once said:

If your heart changes, your attitude changes. When your attitude changes, your habits change; When habits change, your personality changes; When your personality changes, your life changes. Be grateful in good times, still be happy in bad times, and live seriously in the present.

Tell him, Sanmao said: "What is the heart, it is like a maze, thousands of miles away, and there is no boat to cross." People, except for self-crossing, others can not help.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, no matter how bad things are, they won't get worse than they are now. It's better to calm down and work hard slowly.

You can learn other things.

You also said that because he has lived a comfortable life for too long and is not suitable for the current study life, and he understands some truths, so no matter how many practical and profound truths he is told now, it can be regarded as a kind of playing the piano to him, so there is no need to talk to him about many truths, it is useless. I am also a student who has just finished the third year of high school, and I used to have no interest in learning at all, speaking of which, even now, I have no interest in learning, but the cruelty of reality, I have to come out to learn a craft, I dare not say that I will be able to honor my parents well in the future, but at least I can support myself, instead of living my life by relying on the help of my parents, it is impossible for my parents to support us for a lifetime, for them, they can give up the obligation to raise us until we are 18 years old, But this is not the case in China, all parents have been raising their children when they are able, and they are worried about their children all the time.

Since he has no interest in studying now, and just wants to live a comfortable life, I am afraid that he will not be able to reflect. I think that unless he realizes his mistakes, otherwise, no matter who tells him anything, it is useless, only let him step into the society, let him fight for his future life, he can realize how naïve he was to not complete his studies well and live a comfortable life. Maybe it is because the parents are too accommodating to their children, so that he just wants to live comfortably and has no motivation to study, so what can be done is to let him get out of a comfortable life, let him see the fierce competition for social survival, and let him worry about his future life to let him get out of the current lazy thinking.

Let him start with a small thing. For example, the dao who doesn't think about the zhi bed in the morning

When I thought about it, I couldn't even get up on time, and I could do something big in the future. How will you live your life in the future? Whatever you do, ask yourself that.

Maybe it will be of some use. I usually do this when faced with things I don't want to do and things that I am tired of.

If he himself did not wake up

It is useless to persuade anyone

The road is its own

The future is in his own hands

Let him remember the phrase "I am in charge of my future."

I think that's better than preaching

You can try...

Let's let him go out and break into society.

He will find the lack of his knowledge!

I'll learn it myself.

1. Learn to set goals for yourself (big, small, long, short) first, so that there will be a direction for learning; Then we must learn to sort out our own learning situation, based on textbooks, combined with the notes we have made, test papers, weak links we have mastered, existing problems, etc., reasonably allocate time, and target and specific to overcome and implement little by little.

2. You can learn to master the ability of speed reading and memorization, and improve the efficiency of learning and review. Speed reading and memorization is an efficient learning and review method, and its training principle is to activate the potential of "brain and eye" and cultivate the formation of eye-brain direct reflection reading and learning mode. For the practice of speed reading memory, see "Elite Special Whole Brain Speed Reading Memory Training", practice with software, more than an hour a day, a month's time, you can double the reading speed, memory, attention, thinking, comprehension, etc. will also be improved accordingly, and ultimately improve the efficiency of learning and review, and achieve good results.

If your reading and learning efficiency is low, you can practice it well.

3. Learn to integrate knowledge points. Classify the information you need to learn and the knowledge you need to master, and make it into a mind map or knowledge point card, which will make your brain and thinking clear and easy to remember, review, and master. At the same time, learn to connect new knowledge with what you have already learned, and constantly integrate and improve your knowledge system.

This promotes understanding and strengthens memory.

4. When doing problems, you should learn to reflect, classify, and sort out the corresponding solution ideas. When you encounter the wrong questions (carelessly do it wrong, you can't do it), it is best to collect these wrong questions, and each subject has an independent set of mistakes (the set of mistakes should be classified), and when we review before the exam, they are the key review objects to ensure that there are no more mistakes and points on the same questions.

First of all, you must have the confidence to study, read your previous books when you have time, and ask teachers and classmates if you can't, and there is a sentence that is not ashamed to ask. Be humble and learn with an open mind, make progress little by little, improve a little bit every day, and believe that you can. I didn't want to go to high school for a while, but I finally got in, because I wanted to go to university, so I started working hard for this little dream, and there will definitely be difficulties, but I have to learn to overcome it, come on, have a dream in my heart, and then put it into action, it will be fine.

Have you really studied hard? Are you sure you don't think twice about it when you're in school? Find a quiet room, stay away from mobile phones, computer comics and beds, buy this book, calm down and slowly make up for it from the beginning.

Don't think about playing all the time during the summer vacation, and spend five or six hours a day reading books. If you want to play and have good grades, who has this kind of IQ? Even if there is, it is clever, too unsteady.

First of all, you must have the confidence to learn well and have the perseverance to persevere. Sophomore learning is the key, you'd better talk to the teacher, let him help you guide you how to study like this, it's best to draw up a study plan according to the teacher's suggestions and your actual situation, and implement it to the letter, so I believe your grades will be good.

First of all, you have to have faith in yourself and believe that you can do it.

Actually, the high school curriculum is not very difficult. Start with the basics and read all the knowledge in the textbook yourself. Mathematics, physics and chemistry focus on understanding, and you can't be in a hurry when you learn, everything starts from the basics and slowly accumulates. If you are willing to spend time studying, I believe it will be enough!

Doing everything is persistence, it doesn't matter how much you know, just insist on learning a little bit every day.

Life is about constantly pursuing perfection, learning to learn the best in your own circle, working to excel in your field, and living better than the people around you. In the process of pursuit, you need to face all kinds of troubles, difficulties, and setbacks, but no matter what you are facing, as long as you insist on making a little progress every day, you will be successful! Have you ever seen a soldier assault?

Maybe you can learn something from that character in Xusanduo.

Don't worry, as long as you want to learn hard, it's actually very simple, and it all comes from there.

It is recommended to be demoted, the experience of senior seniors, because it is better than studying in the fourth year of high school in two years.

Take a little more time to look at the formula!! Derive the process!

It's a holiday, and your chance has come.