The relationship expert helped me and told me what to do with the limited points, and they all came

As a girl, it's a bit difficult to ask a guy what's going on, and it's not together. But, depending on your situation, you like him, or you won't feel that it is a torture for you. What I want to say is that this situation is the most annoying, and it has a great impact on your emotions, so what you have to do is to cut through the mess quickly and ask clearly in the shortest possible time, because now it is clear that it is still limited if you are not together, but if you are not involved for a long time, it will hurt you a lot if you can't be together in the end.

So let's make it clear now, and you can still be a friend to talk to, otherwise it's not good to drag on for a long time!

This kind of man is too difficult to get, does he think life is acting? It's also self-directed.

It's best to have a showdown with him and tell him that if he can be with you, he won't play the same tricks today and tomorrow. If I can't be with you, let's get together and stop dwelling, because that will hurt you even more.

You have to withdraw a little bit yourself, be a little more sensible. If you can, end him and find someone who can really give you a certain future.

Then you just tell him clearly, what do you want? If you like you, be together, if you like but can't be together, don't come to you again, this kind of vague thing will end up in the end, you yourself will not be able to figure out the situation, maybe it shouldn't happen at that time, but you don't have a formal relationship, it's even worse!

I found that many relationship problems are that both men and women hold a bunch of words in their hearts and don't say anything, and then wait for the other half to leave before they begin to regret what they did earlier, and if they have something to say, they will be fine.

A: I have been talking about the rich girl in Beijing for several years, and my parents are optimistic, but I feel that I just have a good impression and have little contact with each other.

B: After talking to a local woman for more than a month, the other party's mother is optimistic about herself. Now especially like, local together.

Suggested steps:1After your parents asked how you and A were doing, they showed embarrassment, and then slowly said that you have had little contact with A in recent years, and the relationship is not as good as before.

2.They will naturally be anxious to help you analyze the reasons and find a solution, and then you will slowly lead them to the conclusion that the long-distance relationship is unreliable, and here it will fully explain that you and A Mu have a clear future, and your feelings about A.

3.And then they won't accept your decision to give up on A, but they're not optimistic about what you call a confused future.

4.At this time, you start to tell them that time waits for no one, and the parents naturally want to hold their grandchildren early (because they want to buy you a house), and you tell them that dragging on like this and a fruitless will only make them hold their grandchildren late, and it is estimated that the parents will also feel anxious.

5.When your parents are disappointed that you and A are not optimistic about your prospects, you tell them that there is a girl who has been very good to you these days, and that you have a good relationship, that the girl is also a local, and that the other person's mother likes you very much. Don't make them feel like you're giving up on A because of B.

Chances are your parents will want to meet this girl.

6.Take b to see your parents.

In fact, most parents will be very rational about their children's marriage problems now, after all, you are the leader in this, so parents should understand you.

Your problem is said to be an emotional problem, but in fact it is not an emotional problem, but a real problem. You may have to consider more realistic pressures and may be in a passive role in the marriage in the future, while B is more comfortable and emotionally natural. If you really love B, just because you are afraid that your family will not agree, then you don't have to, if it is because choosing A may be better for the future, then you can also sacrifice your love for B and choose A, depending on how you think about it.

But I think in the end, your love for two people is not too enough, if enough, you will not think so much, you will not hesitate, so you can also choose neither, and then find someone who you love more, of course, some people's personalities, may not have that kind of deep love in their lives.

If you don't love it, make it clear, why think about it so much! That's a lifetime of happiness!

Marriage is not child's play, think carefully! After all, the things of a lifetime are constantly being long or short!

Let it be, long-distance relationships feel a bit hard

When everything is solved, if you want things to go in a good direction, then work hard for the good, even if it doesn't get better in the end, it won't get bad. If you don't pay attention to it and go with the flow, it may go in a bad direction. All in all, just do what you have to do, work hard, fight for what you should strive for, and at least you won't leave regrets.

Please ask the experts for help, it is better to solve it yourself, because only you know the things of your own family, and others can't help you, so it's better to work hard yourself.

It is said that this rich girl is the right person, do your parents only look at each other's money?

If your parents are only interested in other people's money, you have to educate them tactfully. Actually, B is a very good choice. If you choose A, you have to analyze why A loves.

The most important thing is to have a good mindset in everything.

I'm psychological, I can help you analyze the situation, see what the problem is, what should you do, and write an analysis report to you.

You have to be able to say what you're talking about.

What exactly is going on, and I have to be able to say it.

What is it, I have to be able to say.

What's going on? Can't see your question.

Some people may find this useful, while others may find it useless.

It depends on what the specific thing is, and I have to make it clear.

He was hit hard, so his heart was cold, but he still had a little hope, hoping that you would change, and he would definitely not love you as unreservedly as before, for fear of being hurt again. But he has loved you for so long, not that you can let go of it, he still has feelings for you, and you say to change, then he will naturally give you a chance, just for fear of being hurt again, he will control his heart, not the same as before, crazy love you, crazy pay, if you don't change well, he may become more and more cold to you, this is a process, many people have come over like this.

As for thinking about him, send him a message, and say: "I miss you, nothing else, I just miss you very much, so I can't help it, send you a message, you don't have to reply".

And then even if he doesn't reply, don't be angry, but most men will reply, if he does, just talk about it for a word or two. It's over right away. Don't talk about it at length and annoy him again.

Then next time I miss him, send a message again, step by step, the more we talk every month, and slowly get back together. It works, you can try it, don't be stupid and really cut off the connection completely. Every time you take the initiative to contact him, if he takes the initiative to send you a message, you must not reply, until the feelings are restored, you have to be mentally prepared to recover, and it is difficult to completely return to the past.

How can a man who loves you deeply be hurt by your temper, and there are shadows, is it that you have shown yourself in front of him before, and you have not shown your true side? If this is the case, then he only loves your good side, and loving someone deeply is not only loving the good side of the other person, but also accepting your bad side, including hurt, because a single injury can become dispensable, indicating that it is not true love, and true love can withstand any test! If time can dilute the shadow of your harm to him, then time will also dilute your love, once a relationship has changed, it will never go back to the beginning, not so much that you change but let him accept your temper, if he can accept it, it is to love you, you have affected the impression and position in his heart, to face the facts, go with the flow, don't force it, if you change yourself even if he can still love you, don't you feel wronged?

Because you will always pretend to be someone he likes in front of him in the future, not the real you! It's inevitable that a relationship will be separated and missed, it's normal to think about him, just think about it, don't force yourself not to think about it, it's going to get better slowly, be strong!

Oh, yes! Time will dilute everything, including the original foundation of love, including whether you have ever appeared in these and so on, which is the most terrible, so I recommend that the separation is not too long, at most a month. If you miss him so much, then why don't you make the relationship between you a little more muddy, come on girl!!

Victory is yours!

You really need to calm down! Are you sure he still loves you now? Remember that men are also very rebellious and fickle!

During this time, you can work hard, hang out with friends, do some things you love, and after a while, your heart will tell you rationally, do you still want to get along? Remember: in front of the "bread", love is only a moment!

There is no love without "bread"! Do you have love to drink water? There are many more important things in life waiting for you to do!

Is it just your temper that hurts him? I don't think that's the case, right? If there really is nothing else, just because of your temper, you can be sure that he doesn't love you anymore and there is no hope.

Also, your temper changed in such a short time? It's okay to talk about it, but it's impossible to change it so quickly, the country is easy to change, and the personality of a person is the result of the long-term effect of heredity and the external environment, and it will not be changed in two or three days.