Is it impossible to be with the boyfriend of your first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I also have a boyfriend now, but he is not my first love, my first love has now become my good friend, in fact, sometimes I think about it and thank him, it is the first love that allows us to taste the astringent fruit of life, at that time we were the most pure, the most innocent, the feelings are still hazy, the first love is our most primitive love, not mixed with any dirty things. Let him be your memory, an astringent memory.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Is it impossible to be with the boyfriend of your first love?This statement itself is false! Although I was very naïve when I fell in love for the first time, but if it has been a long time, I and the other party have grown up, it is best to be the same as before, depending on yourself, you think you are not suitable for being together, so go your own way!

    I am still young, and my career is the priority

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's that you haven't forgotten him, so you think he's still treating you as well as he used to. In fact, when you calm down and think about it, you have broken up, whether it was helplessness or betrayal at the beginning. The results have already been done.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then you can be bold, ask him to go to the place where you have been in love, see if he will agree, if he agrees, then the chance is great, if you don't agree, forget him! When you come out, ask him if he still has affection for you. Happiness is to be fought for, come on!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As long as you really love it, it will be possible!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not impossible, but it's rare.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's so vague, I can't help you,,, it's better to follow your own feelings, like is like, inevitably can't be strong.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Unless the first love is after 20, it is not possible! If it's 16, 17, I'm afraid there will be too few of them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sometimes you have to be resolute in doing things, and you can't regret it, otherwise you will really regret it in the end.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Vary. See if the two of them can persevere.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How could it not be possible.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I feel the most important thing.

    Don't look at people. It depends on the feeling.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Hello, please wait a minute, I'll reply to your question right away. Hope I can help you

    My boyfriend and my first love have never been together, and my first love has been chasing my boyfriend for a year, what should I do if my boyfriend is excited now.

    Hello, please wait a minute, I'll reply to your question right away. Hope I can help you

    If you are afraid that he will be tempted, then you must protect your love. You want to spend more time with your boyfriend. There is no chance between them, so that's fine, I hope mine can help you.

    I've been with him for five years, five years ago he chased me, I can see that he likes me very much, although the two of us have been noisy and noisy in the past five years, separated and combined, but we both love each other so we have been back together until now, this year his first love chased him for a year, the first few times he refused, because he didn't like it, this time he was a little moved, he doesn't feel it now, but there is still a little bit of love, I don't know what to do, he also said that he changed his mind, he hates himself so much! Something, I now feel that he cheated on me in the past five years, the first three years, we were together, and the next two years we were in a long-distance relationship.

    It is possible that this is due to a long-distance relationship.

    He also said that if we were together, would it not be like this, he is the kind of person who belongs to the soft-hearted.

    He was tempted by his first love again, whether it was the girl he loved the most, their relationship was better than the two of us.

    You are one of the soft-hearted people.

    My boyfriend too, he's soft-hearted.

    Is it tempting to love my first love again, my love for my first love is more than mine, the two of them have never been together, but they have been unrequited before, he used to be the girl he really loved, is it possible that he will come back to me? He said that now the two of us broke up and don't tell anyone for the time being, and once last semester, the two of us kept arguing, and then there was a girl from his school who was interesting to him, and then he also said that he liked that girl, so we broke up, he said he didn't like me anymore, he didn't feel for me anymore, like this time, and then two weeks after the breakup, he came to me again to get back together, saying that it was just like this then, and now he likes me again, I'm so difficult.

    It's really uncomfortable, and I know you very well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    To this question, mine is: yes. Because love is a very sacred thing, if you love someone, don't hide your love history from the other person, which is also fair to the other person.

    If you hide your love history, I think it's a kind of deception for the other party. The affection obtained by deception will be happy, but it will not last long. Only on the basis of mutual respect can we gain the trust, understanding and support of each other.

    Although it is said that love is selfish, if you say your love history, the other party may be taboo. But if you hide it, once he knows it later, then she will definitely not forgive you, and it will be herself who will be passive at that time.

    Some people may say that the history of love is already in the past. There's no need to put it in your heart, but I think that since the other party sincerely loves you, and you sincerely love each other, you must have a mutually tolerant mentality, he really likes you and won't care that you have ever been in love, because many people have the process of falling in love, and the most important thing is that you are in love now, which is a kind of fate.

    The root of happiness is honesty. When you meet the right person, you should tell yourself the truth about the history of love. It will make the other party trust themselves more, and at the same time will enhance the real test of two people, and the love that has withstood the test is the real love and the happy love. Good luck.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't ask, there's no need to take the initiative to tell him, at most let him know that you have a history of love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. It shouldn't be said that since he has abandoned you for the sake of others, you have to understand that he may abandon you again, and whether you should choose to be together depends on how you feel about him, and whether you can forgive him for this behavior.

    My boyfriend liked his first love again and he chose me anyway, but he was so sad that I should be with him?

    Hello, I am helping you to inquire about the relevant information and will reply to you immediately.

    The most important thing is to look at your own thoughts, if you can accept it, then you will be with him, but if you feel that there is a gap and you can't accept it, don't force yourself.

    We have been together for five years, and then the first few years were fine, this year's first love chased him a few times, the first few times he refused, and then this time he was moved, and then because of this incident, the two of us also broke up, and after the breakup, he still had feelings for me and was together again.

    The first love was not with him, he just liked it, and then the two of us were together in high school, he said at that time that he didn't like the first love, but the first love was different from others, don't let me take it to heart, after we were together for five years, this year's first love came to chase him three times, saying something from before, and then the first love said that he had a crush on him for several years, - straight were waiting for him, and then this time he was moved, the first few times he didn't, I don't know if we can go back to the past, I don't know if he's just a novelty or what's in his first love now?

    It's definitely not new, after all, the feeling of first love definitely exists, but you also have to be careful, after all, he broke up with you for his first love.

    That means I shouldn't have chosen to be with him, right?

    It shouldn't be said that since he has abandoned you for the sake of others, you have to understand that he may abandon you again, and whether you should choose to be together depends on how you feel about him, and whether you can forgive him for this behavior.

    Well. Thank you.

    It's okay, if you can, can you give a like? Have a great day.

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