Boyfriend is 16 years older than you Can you accept it

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    From my personal point of view, I can't accept it, the age difference is too far, to put it bluntly, you can be your father.

    But if he really likes you and really wants to be nice to you, age is not a problem. In fact, in real life, many male stars have married a wife who is more than 10 or 20 years older than him, such as playing Tang Seng in "Journey to the West". He doesn't mind if you want a man to marry a wife who is more than 10 years older than him, and you are your boyfriend who is older than you, and since ancient times, marriage has been more male than female, and this practice is also easy to be accepted by the people around you.

    Actually, the main thing is to see what you think. Do you think it's worth entrusting him with your youth and the happiness of your life, if it's worth it, then you accept it, on the contrary, you know it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is unacceptable, the greater the age gap, the greater the generation gap, and it is easy to have contradictions if it is too big, because it will be easy to disagree on many things.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, because he thinks I'm 16, he's in his thirties, and he's uncomfortable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he didn't have a family and he loved me, I think I would.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on how the other person treats you, if the feelings are true, it doesn't matter that night; When you ask like this, it means that you actually want to be with him, but considering your age, you are afraid of the influence of the outside world, and then it depends on what you think in your heart!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You also have to look at the feelings of the other party.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Having a boyfriend who is 15 years younger than myself is a bad experience for me.

    1. My boyfriend is 15 years younger than me, and he will provoke meetings from the people around him. Many people are more likely to accept that a woman is smaller than a man, and if a woman is much older than a man, it will easily cause a lot of criticism. Some people will point fingers at this woman, thinking that this woman has some moral problems, so they will seduce a man who is so much younger than themselves.

    If my boyfriend is 15 years younger than me, I think my relatives, friends and neighbors around me will talk about me, and I can't bear such gossip. So if your boyfriend is 15 years younger than me, I think it's a very bad thing, and I care about the eyes of the people around me, and this experience will be very bad.

    Second, my boyfriend is 15 years younger than myself, and there will be big problems with each other, and my boyfriend is 15 years younger than myself, and there will be a big difference in both psychological maturity and appearance. When you go out with your boyfriend, you may be considered a brother or a mother and daughter by others, which will make you very embarrassed. There is also a boyfriend who is 15 years younger than him, his psychological maturity may not be so mature, and he may be relatively naïve in dealing with some things, and the ideological compatibility between the two people is not so high.

    You may also not have as much energy when doing some things, for example, your boyfriend is younger and more energetic, and you are much older than him, and you may be more stable. There is a large age difference, and it is more likely to have some problems.

    Third, my boyfriend is 15 years younger than me, and I will be insecure. If my boyfriend is so much younger than me, I will be insecure, and I will worry that my boyfriend will one day fall in love with a young and beautiful woman. will worry that one day he will dump himself, and he will worry that when he is old and decrepit, he will give up on himself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I feel like my boyfriend is like a child, very naïve in his thinking, he doesn't know how to take care of himself, he needs to care about him in everything, much like his mother.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't dare to go out shopping with each other at all, because there are always people who say that we are mother and son, and there are also people who say that we are sisters and brothers, which is really annoying.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You will feel like each other's mother, always taking care of each other, always tolerating and understanding each other, especially hard.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's a stressful experience. will feel that there is a certain communication gap when you get along with such a boyfriend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I feel that when I go out with him, I will always be pointed at by others, and my heart is a little unbearable, and there will be a lot of generation gap between two people together, and there will be a gap in lifestyle.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What age is it! Mind so much! Just like each other and have fun!

    Let it be! I think it's a little simpler to be younger! Fifteen years younger, as long as the mind is mature, it is no problem!

    Look at the French ** wife, so much different happiness! The most important thing is how to operate! Take care of your body!

    And to have money.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hee-hee, fortunately, I also seem to be very small There is no sense of disobedience at all together His mind is more mature than many men I have come into contact with My boyfriend is full of strength and I feel very happy and happy I don't care about other people's eyes at all Isn't the power of love to be able to contain everything Isn't it?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a very proud experience, because it proves one's own ability, and people who don't have it can't find it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I feel like I'm in a relationship with a child, there is a big generation gap between the two of them, and he doesn't seem to care about everything in life, and he doesn't plan for his future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    will feel as if you are in love with your son, and you will be very awkward and helpless.

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