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First of all, you have to adjust your mentality, and friends and colleagues go out to eat as a lightening mood, if you invite friends who like to drink, you can bring your friends, like to drink, know how to talk to them, so that the atmosphere will be very good, but you have to drink to a degree, don't drink too much, you can usually read more books on interpersonal communication, and talk more with colleagues.
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You can't drink, there is a way, I don't know if you can use it well, then start by yourself with a big glass。。 That's a good idea...
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You don't have to drink, you just tell him that you can't drink, he must have a hobby other than drinking.
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Find a friend who can drink and chat well with you
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It's best to send money directly! Or give a gift when you go!
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Learn the trick of secretly pouring out the wine.
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Start by understanding each other's personalities and hobbies. Then start simple.
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How to reply to someone's invitation to eat with high emotional intelligence: follow your friend's words and question your friend's sincerity with the same joke.
1. Follow your friend's words and take this branch
If a friend uses a joking remark that he wants to invite us to eat; Normally, I follow what he says. Agree to his invitation and then tell him what he wants to eat, so that the joke can continue.
Of course, in the end, he doesn't really want Honghuai to let his friends have dinner, which goes against his original intention and will leave a bad impression on us.
If someone takes a friend's joke seriously, it can create an awkward situation for the other person. Therefore, when following the other person's words and continuing to chat, we only need to stop in moderation, and in the tone, there should also be obvious jokes.
2. Question your friend's sincerity with the same joke
Among our many friends, there is a very unreliable group of friends who always like to write some blank checks and have fun with them. In the face of such jokes, I think in the first two times, everyone can accept it; But as the number of jokes increased, the slow and sensitive ones lost interest.
In such a situation, I would also use joking words to question his sincerity. They usually ask, do you really want to invite me to dinner? I'm very good at eating, or "You're saying something fake!" "Wait.
Use this kind of words, too remind friends, such jokes are not funny, it is better to try to be as little as possible in the future.
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4. Thank you for inviting me, I deserve to be my good brother. 5. I'm glad you invited me, I'm sure I'll be there on time. 6. Thank you for the invitation, and you will definitely attend at the appointed time.
1. I have to work overtime, and I don't have time to say that my work has not been done and I need to work overtime. If a colleague invites you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can use the reason that you have more recent jobs and need to work overtime as a reason to politely refuse a colleague. 2. If you are not feeling well, refuse on the grounds of physical discomfort, whether it is a colleague or a friend inviting you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can say that you have recently drunk too much, and you are not feeling well as a reason to refuse politely.
3. When your colleagues and friends invite you out to dinner, and you don't want to go, you can say "I'm really sorry, today is our family party, I really can't go, I'll invite you to dinner another day" to refuse.
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From a personal point of view, I think it is okay to accept the invitation or not to accept the invitation, and to accept the invitation should express gratitude and try to attend according to the arrangement of the inviter. If we do not accept the invitation, we should express our wishes tactfully, give appropriate reasons, and treat others politely and respectfully the choices and wishes of others.
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You can hint that you are hungry, tell the other person that you are hungry, say that you forgot to bring your wallet, and ask someone to invite you to dinner.
1. Let the other party invite him to dinnerIt's okay to imply that you're hungry in a conversation, or talk about your favorite food, like to go to restaurants, etc., if the other party has a good impression, they will naturally offer to invite you to dinner.
2. Or just be direct and tell the other party that you are hungry and go to dinner together. If the other party doesn't pay for it after eating, and you don't want to spend money yourself, you can say that you forgot to bring your wallet or something.
3. If you are a girl and want the boy to take the initiative to invite you to dinner, so as to increase the relationship and intimacy with each other, then use the method of suggestion. Normally, the girl directly asks someone to invite you to dinner, and if the other party is interesting to herself, she will never let the girl pay, if the other party naturally makes the girl pay.
4. Invite others to eat first, and then ask others to invite you back to dinner with the reason of "kindness to be repaid".
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If you don't ask for it, you will make a promise. When I do not have please, it is a multi-object. If you please, you will save money for a meal.
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Beggar. I sent a circle of friends to ask who wanted to invite me to dinner.
Make an appointment for dinner, and don't settle accounts.
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Helping others, or making jokes, and the jokes come true.
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It is believed that a dinner invitation is generally an expression of the desire to invite a guest. However, don't underestimate a dinner party, there's a lot to say about it. It's not good that the guest also asked for money and spent, but it didn't achieve the effect, maybe it made the guest angry and offended the guest.
So how to treat guests to dinner to achieve satisfactory results?
If you are sociable, have a lot of alcohol and are outgoing and can speak well, then you are the only treat. You are the host and the host, and you take care of everything. If you make the guests comfortable, the words are just right, so that the guests are satisfied with wine and food, and the purpose of the treat is achieved.
If you are introverted and unsociable, then you must not make your own decisions, or ask your good friend (who has a lot of alcohol and can speak) to help you entertain, and that friend will be the head of the banquet, and he will take care of the guests. However, it is necessary to treat you in your honor, that is to say: this table is a guest invited by so-and-so (you), and I am here to help, please eat and drink well.
Since it is said that it is better to accompany guests, it is generally better to invite friends who are familiar to both parties. You can also ask the guests you want to invite to bring some friends, so that the atmosphere of the banquet is better. At the banquet, it is necessary to pay attention to the obvious difference between the accompanying guests and the host and guest, otherwise others will not know who you are invited?
In addition, if the invited guest is the same type of person as you, he is also very introverted and unsociable. Then you can do it yourself, because everyone is the same, and there is nothing polite to talk about. Don't let those friends who are very good at talking keep talking to guests, and people are not very good at talking to make people embarrassed.
See why the other person invited you to dinner.
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As long as he doesn't make mistakes, be careful and patient in everything, and after a long time, the line chief and his colleagues will definitely know and see his ability.
It's impossible to solve interpersonal relationships with one meal, you have to take your time. When you eat with them, you don't need to pay attention to anything, just be polite, go with the flow, and then get to know each other at work in the future to enhance the relationship, when you see others in difficulty, you take the initiative to help them, so that the relationship with each other can be enhanced. When you eat, talk about things at work or in life, and if your colleagues have children, talk about them. >>>More
Starve him and don't let him have a snack. If you're hungry, you'll eat.
Hello landlord, I think, since the manager doesn't believe you, why do you want you to supervise, you give him an email to tell him a good and methodical analysis, to see if he can understand you, if you can't, you don't want to take this thankless thing, and, the salesman is a very sophisticated and sleek person when he hears it, you can't be so straight, you have to take a tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye, and find an opportunity to completely put him on death row at a time, so that he will not pose any threat to you......It sounds like I'm more vicious, hehe, hehe, but this society is so realistic, the first strike is strong, and the second attack suffers, since the opponents have already taken action, why don't you actively respond to it?