I had a crush on a boy, but I was afraid to say it because I had been hurt before

Updated on healthy 2024-06-10
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can contact each other through casual activities, such as sports meetings and other activities, if you really feel good, and the other party also shows a state of being more willing to be friends, then be brave! Slowly start with a friend.,Be sure to make sure he's really suitable for you.,That's fine.。。。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Girls have to know how to protect themselves! But you have to work hard for your own happiness! There is a saying that if you pass by this village, there will be no more shops、、If you really like him、Just be brave!

    And remember to protect yourself!! Then there will be no regrets. I met a girl I liked very much in my first year of high school, and I was about the same as you, but because I had been secretly in love with 、、、 now that everyone is married, I regret it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's better to get to know But I know you have hesitation, but if you don't know, nothing will start, and you can't think about it too much in your life, and I know that there is a saying that you can't do it, you can't do it, you can only do it, and I'll cheer for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can test him and let him take the initiative against you. Like whether he plays WeChat, or do you know his QQ, or where he often appears. I don't think a girl has to take the initiative, you test him, if he likes you, he will take the initiative to come to the door.

    If he doesn't like you, it's useless for you to take the initiative.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This girl, what about you now, first see how much impulse you want to be with him in your heart, weigh whether you want to watch from afar or want to take the initiative, you must not be too anxious, but you must be clear about your current goals, you can slowly approach him, see if you are suitable to be friends or lovers, sometimes the friendship between men and women is better than the relationship between lovers. I hope you are happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do you believe you have results? If you believe it, don't hesitate to chase it decisively. Maybe he's really the right person, don't miss it.

    You can also ask a friend for their opinion, a bystander. You can also find out how the boy behaves first. Remember, don't give up when you're decided.

    Even if the process hurts. As long as you believe in it. On your own.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Think about it for yourself, if you really like him very much, then be brave enough to chase your own happiness. Don't let some external conditions affect the expression of your feelings, love should be said out loud. Otherwise, it will be bad to miss your happiness, good luck.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The choice is in your own hands, no matter how much we say, it can't represent your thoughts, it's just a reference, and the more people who reply, the opinions will not be unified, and you will be more confused. Ask yourself what your heart thinks, don't let others control you, no one can represent you, just think about it, if you really like it, be brave, even if you are hurt, how little you once had, but if you miss it like this, it is a regret ...... your life

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hey, definitely take the initiative. Look at it is no result drop. The wound can be cured with medicine, so why not try to treat it?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are sincere, then you can try to take the initiative to approach, and it may be successful, because, men chase women, mountains are separated, women chase men, and the veil is interlayered!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's watch from afar, remember, there are no eternal lovers, only eternal friends!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be brave and love speak out

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't matter if a man is chasing a woman or a woman is chasing a man, as long as he meets the criteria for your boyfriend, try it. You can ask him generously, why don't you have a girlfriend now, what are you looking for? If he says xx and you can go back, what about me?

    Think it's okay? If you refuse, it's nothing, just say I'm so disappointed, you have always been a glorious image in my mind, but it doesn't matter, say it happily, remember that we will still be friends in the future, don't be embarrassed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Feel that the girl is interested in you, and then make a decision.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Have the courage to express yourself and be a real man.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Me too! I've had a crush on her for half a year, I'm going back on vacation, I'm going to try to say my love, how can I succeed if I don't try! Good luck!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Say, the sky is just the size of a bowl

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Talk to him and have a good chat, so that he can see your sincerity and remember to adopt it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You haven't officially fallen in love, so you have a little temper and delete his QQ, and you also said that he is a person who has been emotionally hurt, so he will only feel annoyed if he goes on like this, and sometimes don't take the initiative too much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't, it's too late to regret it. Who can not have a past? The past has nothing to do with him, just don't be full of him. Just give him a choice.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's okay, I used to love a boyfriend online, not long after I broke up, I met a handsome guy chasing me, I had a good impression of him at the time, but because I thought too much, because I just broke up not long ago, I felt that the pain of love was greater than the sweetness, and rejected him, and then I let go for a whole year, this is a sad story, you are still young, don't give up the right to love and be loved, don't leave yourself regrets, come on, bravely pursue your own happiness, let it drift away with the wind in the past!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If that's the case, you have to see if he likes you or not, and then examine the character or something, and what you think about the abortion, liking you can't just rely on your feelings, this is not allowed, you should make it clear to him, everything must be put on the table and said, if it can be accepted at the beginning. And little girl, don't you know about contraception, if you didn't know it before, you should know it now, don't add to your sins.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's okay! If you like it, don't think about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Be brave enough to try, there will be surprises.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When you love someone, you should say it. Life is just a pause in time, and all meaning is only at the moment when it happens. Don't wait. Don't tell the story later. —Janet Winterson, "Watching the Lighthouse."

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Focus on your studies, don't deliberately get close to him, treat everyone including him with an upward attitude, and if you become a singer, wouldn't you have a better chance of letting him see it?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't think you're worthy of him, don't confess. Because what if the confession fails. It's going to be embarrassing how you guys deal with it. Sometimes the crush doesn't have to confess and pay for him silently! It's better that way.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'd like to talk to you in detail**.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you have the courage to accept it, it doesn't matter if you don't deserve it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Didn't think much of it. First love is beautiful. Crushes are tangled. Time will push us forward slowly, and finally bury it in our hearts, which is a good memory.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, if he doesn't like you, he may be indifferent no matter what you do, if he likes you, you should show something, maybe he will be a little embarrassed, the so-called female chasing male compartment yarn, come on!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    e, I can only say that I don't care, but it should be that maybe I said, have you had any contact with him?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, it's not necessary, it's just complicating things by doing that.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, he doesn't want to fall in love, maybe he has been injured before, and he is afraid of being hurt again. It will be very uncomfortable for you to do this, if you like him, start with a friend, be the best friend with your heart, spend more time with him, sometimes quiet companionship is the communication of the soul, better than all words.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Since you like it, tell him directly, what's the point of acting around.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you really like it......It should be, but the most important thing is to heal her injuries quickly.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    At first, if it was like this every time, I guess the man would be unhappy.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There are limits to human beings. Maybe he will not change now, but it will definitely be different after a long time.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Yes, until I don't say anything.

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