I ve been dating my girlfriend for a month, but my family is against it

You should get to the point of the problem, which is why your parents are against it. There must be a reason for parental opposition, and you must remember one thing. Until you get married, only your parents will always be the best for you in the world.

If you're still a high school student, don't say your parents are against it. Even hitting you is right.

After all, your family has to think about everything, everything is for your good, your approach must make them worry about you, try to understand your family, tell them what you really think, let them understand you.

Real gold is not afraid of fire, and one day you will get the consent of your family when you are together.

Believe me!

Try to convince your family to bring her to your house more often, although your family will start to object, if the girl is good, they will like her over time.

You have a good discussion with your family, but your attitude should be kind, these are just my heart's words, my thoughts, don't be angry, I'll just say it, you say that if this position is your parents and you, will you be willing to separate? I hope you don't scold your parents, it's not easy for your parents to raise you, you will understand it in the future, you have to use time and patience, it won't take you much time, good luck.

Find your own reasons.

Find parental reasons.

Find a girlfriend reason.

Ask the parents to explain why it's going on.

If everything is reasonable, consider breaking up.

After all, it's only been a month together.

Remember: there will be a girlfriend if she loses it, but there is only one parent!

Try to persuade them, if they ignore them, ignore them for the time being, and if they are reasonable, they will listen to the old man.

You idiot. If you love her, don't care so much!

Try to convince your family.

Don't bother with them, it's just vexatious.

You should make it clear, why your parents don't like her, is it because she looks ugly?

Find the willingness to solve it again!

Why not accept her?

Find out what the problem is!

Hey, that's an interesting question.

Your question is, "I've been living with my girlfriend for a month, and my family is very against it, what should I do?" And then you list the wealth of your family, the poverty of your girlfriend's family, the fact that you don't have tens of millions of dowries, the backing of your father-in-law, etc., and so on. Or do you feel like you've lost a lot together??

I don't see how deep your feelings are for your girlfriend from your question supplement You just say she's a good girl and you're afraid to be sorry for her, so there's a lot of pressure on you because of your sense of responsibility and guilt And the unfree marriage arrangement makes you rebellious, and you've almost decided to give up, but you're disgusted and resistant to this kind of marriage arranged by your parents based on the interests of the people.

And you still seem to care a lot about your girlfriend's first time is not yours Your parents are also your own hearts Do you still think you can go a long way?? Even if you are together now, your parents reluctantly agree, do you think your life will be harmonious in the future?

As long as you truly love each other, you will definitely be together. Find a way to convince your parents. Prove with your actions that you have grown up and have your own ideas!

Don't give up your love because of your parents' opposition. Don't wait until you lose to regret it. Cherish the present brothers.

Wishing you happiness!

You should first know the reasons for their opposition, and then find a way to change, if you really love your girlfriend, then you can make it clear to your family, after all, it is you who live with your girlfriend.

It's been a month, and it's impossible to move against it. Tell your girlfriend to please your parents. For example, wash the dishes after eating. Cut the fruit, do the housework, so that you can see her good at home, and you won't say anything more.

You're certainly not very old, at least your parents don't think you're mature enough. So this is a big reason why they stop you, if you are mature enough and think through the problem, I believe that your parents will support you. You must know that your parents are successful, and successful people must have a lot to learn.

Besides, if you really mature, I believe you will have a new understanding of your feelings and relationships. Don't look at things too emotionally.

Money is not romantic, but romance would not exist without money. The reality is that love without material guarantees will not last long.

If you can keep your love without hurting each other and each other's relatives and friends, you will definitely be able to touch your parents with your actions. Parents will agree.

Communicate well with your parents and why you oppose it is the first thing to know. Then look for solutions.

Is it against cohabitation? Is it against the union of the two of you? Or against this woman? If you don't figure this out, you'll be completely passive.

However, it is recommended that you do not provoke your parents in the first place, otherwise there will be no good fruit to eat, and then, communicate with your parents, this can be the best of both worlds.

Do whatever you want. Don't fall out with your parents, or it will make them hate your girlfriend even more. Let them get in touch with your girlfriend more and discover the good in your girlfriend.

There is actually a certain truth to the door-to-door pair... Your dad is against you, and you think that the more you are like this, the more I want to be with my girlfriend, maybe you have thought clearly, but maybe you are just angry with your dad and think twice.

You are responsible for your future, no one can be the master, only you have the final say on how you want to choose. If you listen to someone else's words and ruin your own happiness, no one will pay for you. Just choose what you think is right, and even if you choose the wrong one, it is much better than regretting that you ruined your happiness with your own hands.

The key is that you still love your girlfriend Everything else is not the main thing You and your girlfriend just do the ideological work of your parents and hope you are happy.

If you really love each other, why do you want to marry a woman! Whether it's important to marry or emotional, you can measure it yourself! Only with love will we go longer and be happy!

Money can be saved later! Just like the name of the movie, carry on the love to the end! Don't let yourself regret it!

Find out why your family is against your cohabitation, then address it, what you are against, and why.

If you love him, stick to it

Work with her

Don't let yourself regret it, after all, she is the one who will live with you for the rest of your life

It doesn't matter, the key is to have a rod and scale in your heart.

Follow your parents When you are in power and mature, what do you want? There are women and women Love her and marry her back haha Remember to give me some money haha jealous Billionaire.

Your life is up to you, not to God! I can't even grasp the major events of my life, I think you will have no success in the future!

You really like her, you want to be with her, just give up your family property for her, are you willing?!

Otherwise, don't pretend to be innocent here! ok？

The best way to communicate, love is hard to come by, please don't let go easily.

Elopement is unrealistic, only hard work, or cut first and then play, and then talk about it after getting the certificate.

If you're really like keeping a girlfriend, you have to ask yourself why you want to keep until you convince yourself, and then you can convince your parents.

If you can't even convince yourself, then it's useless to ask anyone.

It's normal to have been dating for seven or eight years, but what's wrong with you for two months.

Two months have just started to see my parents, there is no need, and it is not to the point of talking about marriage.

It's a normal phenomenon, the time is not there, the degree of affection is not there, this is all influencing factors, generally parents need between 3 months and 1 year.

Maybe it's because you're not good enough in any way, so you'll hesitate!

I've only been dating for two months and I've thought about it? Then she's too casual, do you think she's buying things to take home for her family to see? Lifetime events are not allowed at will. Wait patiently, it will come to fruition, and I wish you a positive result as soon as possible.

It's normal, it's only two months, and it's not two years.

Normal, still need to know more.

It's normal, it's not ripe yet.

First of all, you can't be blamed for this. Because your family has raised you until now, it is also very difficult for them. But I want to tell you that the maintenance and interference in your family is only on the day you are able to work.

Now you need your own sky, and the inside of your home can only be opinions, because you need to have your own way to go.

Secondly, why are elders more realistic than us? Because the elders will think more than us, there are objective factors such as family, education, personality, appearance, work, etc., but what they don't understand is your heart. You are no longer the scales, and your scales have faded away under the influence of your home.

At the same time, you are very cowardly, really cowardly, and I am not worth it for a girl, although you are in good condition, but you don't even fight for your own love, so what is it? You must know that everything is earned, and the same is true for your future love and life.

Again, even if you try to get it? Even if you fail, what can you lose? Efforts may not be successful, but giving up will be a failure. What your girlfriend needs is a brave man, you are so unbrave, do you think she can not be sad?

In the end, the pursuit of hard work will be incredible ...

Advice: Talk to the girl and then go together to meet your family and her family. Persuasion requires determination and verbal expression.

Then in the face of your family's answer, you need to hold the girl's hand and answer together, which is your initial solidarity. The girl you are talking about is self-motivated and filial. Then please take her hand and show it in front of your family.

You can also talk about your future plans in front of your parents, and then work together to change their perception with facts. Because you are their son, they will not be too difficult for you.

I'll give you a quote from what I said: life needs a goal. Take one step at a time, there will be no way out, and when you face an intersection, one step, there will be no way to regret it.

I don't know how you guys are now, I also encountered the same problem, I haven't been in love since my first love in college, I met my current girlfriend through a friend's introduction, but my family, especially my grandparents, are very opposed to me dating her, I think she doesn't have a stable job, and the burden will be very heavy when she gets old, and recently the family introduced a female civil servant, family conditions and work are better than my girlfriend, I have to talk to this girl, grandma almost every day to persuade me to break up with my girlfriend, But we really like each other, I want to live a plain life with her, and I don't want to get promoted and get rich, not to mention that my family doesn't have the good conditions of that female civil servant, and I'm going crazy!

If it's true love, let's be together.

Two people together are not just two people, but also the integration of two family cultures and ideas. You admire your courage, but that's not realistic. Love your other half, and even more so your own family, they don't understand, you two can try to get them to understand.

Why hurt the family who loves you the most and cares about you the most. There's something you can't get by.

The raw rice has been cooked into rice.

Let's go for it. Be honest and bring some special wine or something.

Would you be happy without the blessing of your parents? I hope you can go back and talk to your girlfriend's father carefully, and be sure that you will not let him suffer in the future, and try to give her happiness. I don't think your girlfriend dad will be against you anymore.

Try to get his family to recognize you.

Brother, you have to be cautious about this. After all, feelings are your own. Cherish it.

Well? I don't think people in my family represent my opinion.

After all, I am me, and my family is family. If I marry someone else, it shouldn't be my family who marries her.

So, if there is not some real objectivity, there is no reason to give it up.

I thought, I would choose to be with this woman.

Personal opinion: What is her attitude towards you and your family, is it good or bad, is there a big difference between the family situation and your family, and so on, and so on, and if it is enough, don't care about anything else.

Give up, to a certain extent, a relationship is not blessed by the family, and it seems difficult to be happy.

The whole family is resolutely opposed, proving that this woman is indeed not good. After all, your parents should be more accurate than you are, let it go.

If you really don't like it very much, I advise you to have a showdown with the girl directly for your happiness and for the sake of other people's lives.

Look at yourself and really love her, then you have to make some sacrifices and show your attitude in front of your family. My boyfriend's parents are also against us being together, it's not that I'm bad, it's that his family dislikes me from the countryside, hey.

Don't choose one or the other, but how to balance.

Stick with your girlfriend and slowly change your family's opinion.

The family will definitely want you to do well, so they will eventually understand and accept it.

It's okay for you to love each other, are you financially independent? When you are independent, you can find a house and move out on your own Parents who love their children will respect their children's choices, so you let your family calm down.