Why don t you want to marry her, why do you want to marry me if you don t love me

This is relatively normal, people are complex contradictions.

Although you think you love her, there is also a degree of love, and you still have a mustard in your heart now, because she is not beautiful, you have no confidence, you are afraid that you will regret it in the future, you are afraid of losing face, and you are afraid of betraying her when you meet a more beautiful one. These can be the cause of your mental blockage. But if you can be sure of what you have in mind, you will figure it out.

You can make a list of the reasons why you want to marry her and why you don't marry her, the reasons why you love her, and then think about it. It's a bit formulaic, but it's also quite effective.

Either way, the key is that you can get through that hurdle in your heart.

Finally, I wish you all happiness!

If you are of marriageable age. I ask you to let it go. A woman's youth cannot afford such a delay!

At the age of marriage, you can no longer play with love. You have a certain responsibility. I know that there is a saying that does not presuppose marriage is a deceptive love game!

You might say that you'll end up taking him for a variety of reasons. But my gut tells me that you are from the Appearance Association. You can marry her now.

But your current melancholy can also make you fall in love with a good-looking, talkative person in the future. What do you want to do with your current woman. One cried, two troubled, and three hanged.

For yourself, it's better to let go early!

Love must be completely loved, otherwise don't love.

Marry her. Life is the connotation of taste.

It is not the temporaryness of appearance.

In this case, it is better not to marry her, otherwise life will be difficult.

Don't always think that being beautiful is to do a good job, good character is the most important thing.

You care about what other people think, right? Vanity is not satisfied.

Maybe you're all young, and you'll understand when you're older!

You don't love him! Love is not unexpected.

People who are suitable for marriage have become words that are not unfamiliar to us. We are helpless to face society, our age is getting bigger day by day, and the pressure of social forced marriage is also increasing day by day. Where do we go from here, should we stick to ourselves to find that person, or should we marry him if he is suitable for marriage!!

Perhaps, at our age, it can no longer be demanded that the person we meet is a blank slate, without any emotional experience. In fact, everyone has a past, and everyone's past cannot be stopped, and if there is no past, there may be no present him/her. But as a mature person, how should you deal with your past?

The girl who asked this sentence, his husband was living with another girl in his heart, and he couldn't be together for various reasons, so he chose to marry her, because she was suitable for marriage at that time, and the man no longer went home after marriage, and for this man he just had a legal escape.

Actually, I don't want to discuss whether it is moral for a person to marry when he has not let go of another person. Suffice it to say that when you choose to run away from this marriage, at least you should abide by the basic values of marriage and should not involve another person in your impulses.

The value of marriage, looking at more and more divorce cases, I am more and more confused, whether people still know the value of marriage, in this small three, materialistic society, what is the value of our marriage, every month to tear up a lot of marriage certificates, whenever they tear them up, always thinking, what is the value of modern marriage. An old-timer said to me that it may be better to marry blindly and dumbly in the past, because, when there is no emotion, there is at least one kind of responsibility, but now marriage has become a kind of child's play. When you are willing, it is such a certificate, and when you are unwilling, it is your life and death, no longer for feelings but for material disputes.

What exactly is the value of marriage?