I hate myself like this, and I don t dare to face him anymore, what should I do!

This is really a kind of torture for your boyfriend, it may be that you have been remembering the breakup two years ago, and you have not been able to let go of this matter, so every time you quarrel, you will want to make a big fuss with him, and regret it afterwards, because you really love him, but there are still some small things that will affect your feelings, love has been together for a long time, the relationship will be flat, not as strong as the original, love is to withstand the dull years before it can go all the way, maybe this is also the transition period for the two of you. So try your best to change yourself for him, and try not to care about what you can bear...

Since you have threatened him with death, what else can you not change, be your original self and care more about him, in fact, men are sometimes very fragile and need someone to support and encourage him.

I wish you happiness, it is really not easy to be able to get to this point, learn to cherish it.

It is better for people to be saved if they hate themselves than to be narcissistic and lost.

When you are a fresh, simple and beautiful girl, no one knows that you actually have an ugly side, getting along with people is to find a mirror of the soul, the more you quarrel, the more ugly you are, on the surface it is someone else's fault, a slap can't make a sound, you are his mirror, he is also your mirror. How can a woman's life be perfect, first start by thinking about what kind of person to be, what kind of life to live, if you want to be a rich and noble life, don't find ordinary people to be boyfriends, you must desperately arm yourself to enrich and beautify yourself, fishing for golden turtles alone or desperately junior, eating ready-made meals is very safe but not delicious, you must have the courage to cry silently in the BMW rather than be happy behind the bicycle, if you plan to be an ordinary happy woman, you must practice a few things: the husband has skills, the hall and the kitchen, slowly forget yourself, He loves his family as if he were his own family, and he is tolerant and skillful, and he teaches his children well.

I would like to say that the person who can forget himself is the truly great person, the heavier the selfish component, the heavier the suffering in life, and the person who can give up is the happiest person, whether it is a man or a woman.

··· I look at this big paragraph... I think you should first explain to him your current situation, tell him the truth, tell him that you always quarrel with him because you love him too much and are afraid of losing him, and hope that he will tolerate you and comfort you in your quarrel, so that you can feel more secure. But you're so for no reason... It's too much for you· For you, you just want him to keep you and accommodate you, so that you feel more secure, and for him, have you thought about it? He thinks you're excessive, you're vexatious, and you put his dignity in the a**?

He's going to think you're showing your superiority over him, and he's going to make him angry. You need to apologize, you need to tell him the reason why you always quarrel with him, the reason is as stated above. There is nothing more important in the life of two people than to be honest with each other, as long as you know each other's temper, each other's stories, and each other's troubles, you can always think of it when you are arguing.

You may want him to value you. But the extremes of things must be reversed! Talk to a psychiatrist, or read a book on psychology yourself. Or go outdoors more with your boyfriend, nature will give you more care and a better mood!

People will be like this if they have been together for a long time, maybe you still need to run in with each other, separate for a period of time, let each other calm and calm, Xiao Bisheng is newlywed, and when you are separated, you will care about each other very much, which should alleviate the current situation.

The key to dealing with emotional problems lies in the understanding and tolerance of both parties, and the quarrel shows that you still care about each other, but I think it is better to quarrel with the right person and solve it immediately.

Let go of yourself! Don't take yourself too seriously, but don't take others lightly either. I think the last thing you understand is yourself!

No kidding, I suggest you see a psychiatrist or consult a psychiatrist, and bring your boyfriend.

What a contrarian trend! Treat your own man like this, this is all self-inflicted, I will not have the slightest sympathy for you.

Find a psychiatrist to adjust...

Maybe you care too much about him.

That's right.. It's more reliable to find a psychiatrist...

It's just that I'm afraid of losing because I care too much.

Love hurts deeply, and the more you want to let go, the more unwilling you are.

If everything goes well at the end of the day, you can call it a day and go home one step at a time. If you encounter setbacks and difficulties at work, it is easy to remain frustrated and immersed in them outside of work, sometimes lasting for a few days or even longer, making it difficult to recover.

I hate myself: in this case, I first blame myself for the problems at work, thinking that I didn't do a good job, in fact, no matter what the problem, I blame myself. Second, worry about the consequences and continue to dream anxiously.

In the end, because of this kind of thinking, I denied myself and hated self-blame even more. I can't get out for a long time, and I don't have the heart to do anything, a vicious circle.

In this situation, how can we help ourselves to regain our calm? Work is just for a better life, or for me, just a tool to make money. You can't put the cart before the horse, because work affects your daily life.

Pay attention to life itself, it is like a complete painting, the working picture in this painting is **, how much to draw depends on yourself, even if you don't have to paint.

Think about what you have, maybe it's a healthy body, maybe it's the company of your family, maybe it's someone you like, maybe it's a hobby. You know, many people may never have your seemingly ordinary beauty, or never shine away.

Segregate things from work after work. The facts cannot be changed, but we can decide how we react to this matter and ourselves. These emotions are empty, and they are not trapped in the small emotions that Kuanna's self creates.

Things change according to objective laws, existence is reasonable, and it will pass. Accept the facts, accept yourself, do your best, and don't blame yourself for the results you can't control or the reactions of others. This is internal friction.

Stop, look at your emotions from the second person's point of view, and keep it up.

Self-loathing, you hate yourself, how do you make others like you? What do you hate about yourself? Since you're uncomfortable, why don't you change it?

In fact, the reason is very simple, you must first change your mental outlook, take care of your hair and face, change your clothes, change your past ** behavior and speech, take your time, don't rush to let others accept you, you have to learn to accept yourself, at least you will not be self-loathing, others like you or don't like you, are secondary, first of all, let your spirit change, listen more, read more books, and then get in touch with nature in the suburbs, so that you are not quiet in your own gloomy world, Slowly, you will find that everything is fine.

Take courage, face the future bravely, work hard, and live your own style.

How can a person who has no self-respect and self-love desire others to respect him!

So change your mind first! People live for themselves, you don't need everyone to like you, and you don't need to like everyone.

Don't forget to find your lost self and live happily.

Have a great day!

Now that you're tired of this work and environment.

People hate you too.

Then you can try to find a new job.

Handle all kinds of relationships in a new environment.

Or there are new discoveries and gains.