Why do some people don t look likeable?

This is normal, just like love at first sight. As the saying goes, when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, and there are so many people in the world, and it is not impossible for people who are not likable. Just like the wind and chick Pang Tong in the Three Kingdoms period, the celebrity of the cow was not valued under Liu Bei because of his appearance, so he wanted to be in a hurry to show that he was too impatient and was played to death, isn't it very humiliating.

Because some people are grandstanding, some people can be eloquent, some people are honest and honest, some people are ice and snow smart, some people are flattering, some people are shrewd and capable, some people are eccentric, and some people are beautiful! People gather like others, and people who like others have more points that others like.

Because I'm such a person, I feel like maybe it's because of my incompatible personalities, because I don't have a common topic with some of my colleagues, and I'm a more serious person, and I like to get to the bottom of some things, and I have to tell what is right and wrong, but some people don't like me like this, they think about coping with the past, it's not necessary, so I don't seem likable to them.

The most taboo suspicion among friends, unwarranted suspicion of others. Some people always suspect that others are saying bad things about them, and have no reason to suspect that others have done things that are not good for them, chasing after the wind and shadows, and lack a minimum of trust in people. Such a person likes to tell right and wrong, which will make her friends think that she is a troublemaker and avoid it.

People who are very strong in life or work are not likable, because they don't like to discuss with others what decisions they make, and in the end they only blindly inform others of the results of their thinking, without taking into account the feelings of others, this kind of person is unlikable.

Born from the heart, the mentality is not good, which naturally makes people uncomfortable to watch.

Some people like to take advantage of others when they first meet, for example, if he wants to eat something, he has to pull others to eat, and after ordering and eating, he finds an excuse to quietly slip away and not pay, and asks his friends to settle the bill, and he doesn't transfer money to his friends after he goes back, so this kind of person who loves to take advantage of small advantages makes people look annoying.

If you look ugly, you won't be likable.

Then don't look at it, besides, you look like that, so you can only say things like this, and if you don't want to talk to you, you will be very annoying.

Maybe people don't want you to like them at all

The weak will join the group to keep warm, and the strong will stand out from the crowd.

The straight line is good, Reba is it. Don't come to school and study. Still can't understand this? Offended. It's flashing.

Because it's right next to you.

Because of factors such as appearance, figure, and cultivation, some female friends have an inferiority complex in their interactions with others, dare not express their own opinions, hesitate to do things, lack courage, and are accustomed to echoing their voices and have no own opinions. If you can't provide valuable opinions and suggestions to others in communication, people feel that getting along with them is a waste of time, and they will naturally avoid it.

Summary. There are many reasons why people are not likable, some are because of character problems, some are because of upright personality, or they speak too directly and don't know it, they can't say praise words, they can say a lot of critical words, and they don't have a good temper. Emotional intelligence is not high, and it has not reached the level of talking to people and talking nonsense when meeting ghosts.

Some people are also very easy-going, but they are just not likable. But this can't be helped, you don't have to cater too much to others, and the most important thing is to live comfortably.

There are many reasons why people are not likable, some are because of character problems, some are because of upright personality, or they speak too directly and don't know it, they can't say praise words, they can say a lot of critical words, and they don't have a good temper. Emotional intelligence is not high, and it has not reached the level of talking to people and talking nonsense when meeting ghosts. Some people are also very easy-going, but they are just not likable.

But this can't be helped, you don't have to cater too much to others, and the most important thing is to live comfortably.

Can you tell us more about that?

I don't have any bad intentions like me, but few people like me, one is that I speak directly, sometimes without hiding my likes and dislikes, and will express them. A colleague once expressed my personality in a sentence, saying that I am aggressive, because I don't like it, I will show it, which is something that others don't like, even if you don't attack this person, but when others see you attacking others, they will turn away from you.

As long as people live, we will all find that there will always be some people who will hate us more than like us, this is really something we can't decide, but we can try to make more people like us, so that there are fewer and fewer people who hate us. In our world, when looking at a person, many people often like to look at his positive and negative evaluations.

If the negative is too high, you can conclude that this person is not very good. If there are only positive evaluations, they are all good, and there is no bad evaluation, it also means that this person is too fake. Because no one is perfect, everyone has a little shortcoming, and this shortcoming may cause others to dislike.

So, why isn't everyone likable? In fact, the analysis comes and analyzes, there are only several reasons, the first reason is generally poor ability and not how to make money; Your ability is poor, and many people want to find a sense of accomplishment in you, to give you guidance, point fingers, and even directly criticize you for not being able to do it, and you need to improve.

The second reason may be that he is really unlikable, can't speak, just does some stupid things, doesn't like to think twice before doing things, and often offends people. This kind of person often does things and offends others. It's like a friend asked me to help do something, and then I happily agreed, but I didn't expect that what my friend asked you to do was very difficult.

In the end, you complain and do it, and when the thing is done, your friends also see that you are in a bad mood, and they also see what kind of face you are, and they don't dare to come to you for help after that, and you finish the matter and offend your friends again. There is another reason, it is estimated that he is too poor, born in the countryside, unable to rely on his parents, and is very frugal and restrained everywhere.

In all aspects of dress, friends are not used to it, they like to talk about you, make fun of you, laugh at you, and ridicule you.

The reason may be because of your personality, it may be because you have low emotional intelligence, others don't like to listen to it, and you often offend people. In life, you may not be able to please everyone, as long as you can be happy and happy, don't care too much about others.

Maybe you have certain personality or habit flaws that are unacceptable to the general public. Or because you are not good at communicating with others, introverted, stubborn, and not willing to give.

Generally, they are less capable and do not make much money; Your ability is poor, and many people want to find a sense of accomplishment in you, to give you guidance, point fingers, and even directly criticize you for not being able to do it, and you need to improve.

Reflect on your shortcomings and try to change yourself. People don't hate you for no reason.

Why don't you please others, and for what reason? If you don't like others, it's probably because of your personality.

Think about whether what you do is not quite right, and if what you do is not very good, others will definitely not like it.

There is only a good heart, not a good mouth, and there are many people in life who are not actually bad-hearted.

It's just to do what he likes, especially the mood. This sentence comes from "What is Moyi", in fact, the simple understanding lies in four words, observing words and colors. If you can be vigilant to do this at all times in life, you are destined to achieve ultimate success.

No, it's just that you don't have much contact with them, and others will feel that you are not good contact! So communicate more with others.

The friendship of three people, there will always be two better relationships, I suggest you go out and see other scenery, don't be too entangled in these things, the more entangled and uncomfortable is yourself, others will think that you have a small belly, you have to believe, it's yours, it's yours, no one can take it away, it's not yours, and it will hurt if you stay.

Now that you are aware of it, hurry up and change yourself, communicate more with friends and colleagues, treat people with sincerity, and act sincerely, so that everyone will like you.

Hello this, first of all, you should not feel inferior, and secondly, do not think too much. Mainly because you're in this environment right now, and then you're going to think a lot. But sometimes that's not the case.

Some things go their own way, you don't. Thinking too much. Thinking too much won't help, the main thing is to be yourself, if you can't fit in, then it's bad for some people to play.

Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself. Nothing happens, everything will slowly get better, and so can you. Read more books.

Cultivate your hobbies. Hope it helps.

Then you have to reflect on yourself, it is necessary to change yourself, how to change, you can start with the small things around you, change your introverted personality, and become more generous and cheerful.

It's just a sign of your low self-esteem and lack of confidence in yourself. Maybe it's because you feel like you need a friend too much!

In fact, you are a very sincere person, I hope they will also talk and chat with you, integrate you into it, treat you as an indispensable part of friends, you are also generous, don't make trouble because of a little thing and a word, hurt each other's feelings and make people feel particularly stingy, everything has to be taken care of, and you are unhappy with your mood. It's good to open a little, if you think too much, then be generous and enthusiastic to integrate into it, if it's really them squeezing you perfunctory. Then just keep a relationship with you, remember who is good to you, you are good to whom, first you have to respect others, and others will respect you and accept you.

Hello friend.

Friends of three people are like that, don't blame you.

Gather people in groups Maybe you haven't met friends who share your interests and have nothing to say.

It should be that you communicate less and understand each other less.

That's your own opinion, one doesn't like the other and the other will definitely like it, but you can't see it, you just think that other people don't like you, that's what you've been thinking about, so you feel as if the people around you don't like it, it's your misconception. Don't think so much, know that everyone is equal and you don't have to be inferior! There's no need to dwell on this, I used to have low self-esteem, I walked with my head down and waist, with my friends, I felt that he would talk to another person and forget about me, I just watched them talk, and I couldn't answer the ......At that time, I also felt that I was quite bad, I also went to exercise for a while, and it didn't change much, but there was a beautiful girl who refused everything for me and sacrificed a lot for me.

So, we're not bad per se! I just haven't met anyone who admires me yet! Be yourself, don't go along with it, compromise, or even don't believe in yourself for the sake of a little thing, people with personality are the best people.

You're not unlikable, it's just that you're not a person all the way to the people around you, you're kind and smart, there's nothing wrong with being introverted, introverts and extroverts have advantages and disadvantages, but compared to school-age extroverts, extroverts will be more able to get along with people, introverts have a lot of advantages, do things seriously, delicate and smart, if you can't fit in, just be yourself, there's no need to do things that you're unhappy about in order to cater to others, it's normal for no one to understand you now, That's because their minds are still immature, there are so many people in the world, most of them are not understood by everyone, everyone can't make everyone understand, don't change or wronged yourself for the sake of others, then you are no longer you, so be confident, find your own advantages, don't care about other people's words and deeds, and when your mentality grows, you will become better. Also, if you hate yourself anymore, who will like you? Many people have low self-esteem due to not seeing their own merits, you, so many shining points, and so smart and cute, so don't be sad.

Maybe you're thinking too much!

The first type, indifferent people, there is a type of people in the workplace, they can treat everyone with a cold attitude, no matter how enthusiastic people meet them, they will turn into ice sculptures, they will not have any communication with other colleagues except for work, they do not like to participate in any group activities, and a team will also have disharmony because of their presence. So, they won't be popular.

The second type, people who love to take advantage of small advantages, many people in the workplace must have encountered such colleagues, he never takes the initiative to pay for dinner, he never shirks when others invite guests, and when it is his turn, he selectively forgets, and when he sees the snacks brought by others, he takes them uninvited, but he avoids everyone to eat secretly when he brings something.

The third category, people who borrow money and don't pay it back, I don't know if this kind of person's memory is bad, for example, he forgot to bring the food money today, and asked you to pay it in advance, and he said that he would pay you back early tomorrow morning, but after a week, people still don't mention it as if they didn't borrow money.

The fourth category, people who are lazy and slippery at work, when the team works hard to complete a goal, sometimes there will be a type of person who seems to be working on the surface, but in fact they are grinding foreign workers, drinking a glass of water for a while, going to the toilet for a while, and smoking a cigarette for a while.