Are there any people around you who have given up getting married because of the bride price?

Yes, if you don't even want to agree to the minimum bride price when you get married, what is the need to get married, think about your married life in the future, it's better to give up early.

No, the people around me, including me, feel that they really want to enter the palace of marriage, and they must be truly in love with each other, and they will not be separated casually because of the bride price.

There must be, only the parents of two people are still there, and they will definitely be entangled in the issue of bride price, if the negotiation is not good, they will definitely not be able to get married.

No, if you are going to get married, you must be two people who love each other, and they will definitely not give up casually because of external reasons.

There have been such things, some girls will give up marriage because the person they want to entrust their life to can't even meet their requirements at the juncture of marriage.

Yes, and because of the bride price issue there are a lot of contradictions, how to say, if the bride price is not solved well, then to a large extent the two will not be long, I do not approve of the woman's parents selling their daughters, of course, as a man If the bride price is not given, then the woman should also think carefully about whether the man can be married.

My sister is, at that time, the 40,000 bride price man didn't say much, and then broke up and introduced a family with very good conditions, the key man's family had nothing to say to my sister, and her mother-in-law has been very good for a few years of marriage, and the man was not married before, thirty years old. . .

No, what age is this now, marriage should focus on the power of love, not the amount of bride price, not here. It is also not true, let alone to give up marriage for the bride price money.

Alas, just went through this, just bought a house. Car, our side of the bride price is generally relatively small, about 60,000, the woman's family has to ask for 150,000, I am a single-parent family, my mother can't give so much, see if you can discuss, the woman's family said either 150,000 to marry something, or 100,000 nothing to marry, originally I wanted to borrow money myself, slowly repay it after marriage, the woman is unwilling, I have always had a good relationship with her, it is because the bride price broke up, she didn't want to share, I don't want to share, everything is ready, just waiting to get married, and then forced by the pressure of the bride price can't help. I can only get together and disperse.

When a woman is young, she asks for a bride price when she marries, and she gives birth to a son, and it is her turn to give someone else a bride price.

Not really, but there are those who give up because they don't have a house. Although the bride price is not low on our side. But there is no such thing as a bride price. Because the bride price is negotiable.

No, this is marriage, not business, no one should care too much about the bride price, as long as the feelings are in place.

Many people are together for money, so naturally they look at the bride price, and there are too many people who don't get married if the bride price is not enough.

I haven't seen it, but maybe I'm one of them, and now it depends on the man's attitude, and the bride price is negotiable.

I still have to pay a bride price for remarriage. Give up decisively.

Because the man didn't buy a house, he had to live with his parents and ended his five-year relationship! The woman's family conditions are relatively good.

There must be, too many. I am.

Yes, I am, I can't give what she wants, go find the one who gives it.

Yes?! There is no way, you can't set up a company without money, you need money to run anything, and you can't build a family without money.

Bride price is a relatively common custom, to say that bride price is not important, in fact, it is also very important. However, some friends want to consult the issue of bride price, and it is recommended that friends should be cautious. After all, the bride price is a kind of bond between men and women, and if you give up marriage directly because of the bride price, the answer is obviously not very rational.

It is recommended that women should reasonably propose a bride price before discussing marriage, and decide to marry after both men and women have reached an agreement.

1. The bride price is not important

In fact, the existence of the bride price is very necessary, because the bride price is more important. The reason why both men and women want to give a bride price is mainly for the bond between the two families, and also to pave the way for the young couple in the future. Although there are many friends on the market who find that when boys get married, they may borrow money, take out loans, etc., but when two people get married, this is actually the motivation to promote both men and women to move forward.

Second, should the friends give up marriage directly because of the bride price?

If the partner gives up marriage directly because of the bride price, it must be a big mistake. After all, now that you are starting a family and starting a family, the ultimate goal is definitely to become a family. When you have a home, you have a plan.

If you say that at this time, because of the bride price, you directly give up getting married, whether it is for this young man or for the whole family, the gains outweigh the losses. In fact, we can also say from another angle that the bride price has a specific price, and this price can be achieved through hard work. And when you realize it, do you feel that everything is a piece of cake?

3. Why has the bride price been handed down from ancient times to the present?

Some friends may feel that existence is the truth, which is a kind of hooliganism. As everyone knows, the bride price has always been there since ancient times, why do many friends think that the bride price can not be had? It has to be said that the existence of the bride price is a pressure for many boys.

After all, many friends nowadays have to buy a house and a car before they get married, which is particularly stressful. If the woman is given another bride price, they feel that marriage is like a sale, and the bride price is "**".

It is very important, but you should not give up marriage because of the bride price, as long as two people really love each other, anything can be discussed.

The bride price is one of the more important processes in marriage, and if there is no such process, it will lead to problems in the marriage of both parties. I don't think so, this kind of behavior is disrespectful to each other, and it will also make people think that you are more snobbish.

The bride price is still very important, but the marriage should not be given up because of the bride price, but should be discussed by both parties.

I think the bride price is very important; But I shouldn't give up on marriage because of the bride price, I should consider it comprehensively.

Mine is: Yes!

Marriage is a personal choice, and the absence of a bride price is not one of the deciding factors. Everyone's views and values about marriage may be different, and bride price is just one of the traditional practices. Here's my opinion:

First of all, marriage is not just about the bride price. The bride price plays a role in Chinese marriage tradition, but it is not the whole story of marriage. Marriage should be based on mutual love, respect and trust, not the amount of bride price.

Second, marital happiness is not directly related to the bride price. Marital happiness is related to mutual understanding, support, and joint efforts between two people, not the value of the bride price. If a person marries only because of the bride price, without real love and shared values, then it may be difficult for such a marriage to be happy for a long time.

In addition, the existence of the bride price also brings some negative effects. Excessive pursuit of a high bride price can lead to an excessive financial burden and unnecessary stress on families and individuals. Moreover, the concept of marriage that places too much emphasis on the bride price may lead to material interests taking precedence over feelings, distorting the original intention of marriage.

Above all, marriage should be based on equality, respect, and mutual understanding. If two people are truly in love with each other and are willing to support each other, tolerate and celebrate each other's growth, then whether or not there is a bride price should not be the deciding factor in marriage. It is important that both parties communicate openly, understand each other's expectations and values, and decide the path ahead together.

In conclusion, it is a personal decision whether or not you want to marry without a bride price. The happiness of a marriage depends on the efforts and mutual support of both parties, not the presence or absence of a bride price. It is important to build love, trust, and shared goals in marriage in order to achieve long-term happiness and a harmonious relationship with the bad and the bad.

I'm hesitant to get married because of my partner!

Many couples are sweet and sweet when they fall in love, but they suddenly break up when they get married, because marriage is a matter of two families, and it is likely that they do not want to enter married life with their partners because of the bride price, dowry and other matters, and the two families should communicate more in this situation.

There are some unbearable shortcomings on the hairstyle partner before marriage, which is also one of the reasons for hesitation to get married, marriage means that two people have to live together for a lifetime, so they can't bear it before marriage, let alone after marriage, if the quarrel has shortcomings that you can't bear, then you must carefully consider this relationship, so as not to quarrel after marriage.

In the past, the bride price and the dowry were reciprocal, and the man had to give a certain amount of dowry, and the woman had to bring the corresponding dowry. This is because in ancient societies, the man was responsible for the financial responsibility of the family after marriage, while the woman was required to raise the children and manage the household. Thus, the reciprocity of bride price and dowry reflects the equality and mutual assistance of both men and women in marriage.

Because marriage is the union of two families, both men and women should be equal. If the man pays a high bride price to the woman, but the woman does not give the man the corresponding dowry, it will lead to inequality in the marital relationship, which is unfair to the woman.

However, with the changes in society and the development of the economy, the equivalence between the bride price and the dowry has gradually been broken. Now, many men will use a high bride price as the "threshold" for marriage, forcing the woman to pay a huge financial price before marriage. This not only violates the principle of equality between men and women in marriage, but also causes many women to lose their autonomy and dignity in marriage.

Therefore, whether the bride price and dowry are equal should be determined according to the financial situation and family background of both parties. In modern society, men and women should be economically equal, while respecting the family backgrounds of both men and women.

The two got together because of fate, and when it came to talking about marriage, it also showed that the relationship between the two was already very deep, how could they part ways because of the bride price. The bride price is nothing more than an external condition. It's not worth giving up the relationship between the two for the sake of external conditions.

Therefore, we need to be calm in the face of the bride price change. Negotiate well with each other, and you can still become a couple. And it is not worth giving up the other party impulsively because of the bride price, which also shows that your love is not deep enough and not firm enough.

Like a friend I knew. She and her boyfriend are in free love, and when it comes to deep feelings, they choose to get married. At the time, her parents disagreed.

But she insisted on getting married, and then her parents said about the bride price, and the man who asked for the bride price agreed without hesitation. But on the day of the wedding, the woman asked for some more bride price, but the man couldn't get it out of his best efforts. But he did not choose to give up, but discussed with the woman, and in the end the woman also compromised.

Because the two are in love. In that case, the man still loves the woman, which means that they have deep feelings, and their parents will no longer embarrass them. On the day of her friend's wedding, her parents returned the bride price as a dowry.

It can be seen that parents also want their children to be happy. Therefore, if you accept the bride price and change the hexagram, it may also be successful.

Since the two choose to get married, it also shows that the two have a deep relationship, since they have feelings, then they can talk about it, you can talk to the girl, tell her about your situation. If you are true love, I believe that the negotiation can be successful. Attitude is key at this time.

With a good attitude, the other party thinks you can take the TOEFL for life. That's it. If you choose to give up because of anger, you may regret it in the future.

Because what you're giving up is your feelings. So the young man should have a good talk with the girl at this moment, it is your marriage, don't ruin a marriage because of the bride price, it's not worth it.

In short, if you have encountered it, you can still tie it. It is fate for the two to get together, and when it comes to talking about marriage, it also shows that the relationship between the two is also very deep, how could they part ways because of the bride price. The bride price is nothing more than an external condition.

It's not worth giving up the relationship between the two for the sake of external conditions. Therefore, we need to be calm in the face of the bride price change. Negotiate well with each other, and you can still become a couple.

And it is not worth giving up the other party impulsively because of the bride price, which also shows that your love is not deep enough and not firm enough.

This mother-in-law is definitely a black-hearted person. So the core sentence, don't pay money to your mother-in-law's family. A joint account is very good, don't manage it for the mother-in-law, but hold it tightly in the hands of the man.

The bride price has to be given, your family manages so much, as for what does her family have to do with the bride price, the money is sent out, it is not yours, how do you manage the family, anyway, I gave the bride price, I married the person, this is the result you want, the bride price is sent out, then it has nothing to do with you, your mother-in-law is used as firewood to eat hot pot without your share.

There is no bride price in Chengdu, and the parents of both sides give money to the newlyweds, and the parents decide how much they want. I don't understand why I want so many dowries, and I'm not buying a wife! It's not about selling your daughter!

Break up decisively, this kind of woman can't live even if she is married, she regards marriage and divorce as a means to get rich, and the purpose of marriage is to divorce and divide property.