My ex boyfriend wanted my family to know about him before he agreed to reconcile me? 60

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It should be that he needs your approval! After talking for more than two years and breaking up repeatedly, your family doesn't agree with him being with you! He needs your strong support, he really wants to get back together, and he will definitely find a way to get his family's understanding!

    Otherwise, if they are together, they will eventually break up, I guess he doesn't want to do this! Since you still want to get back together, and he also has feelings for you, let's have a good chat and see how you can dispel your family's concerns about him so that you can be together! Otherwise, if you are together in the future, your parents will still oppose it!

    Isn't it a waste of time and energy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think he doesn't feel safe with you, he wants to be your boyfriend in the right name, the kind that Ben is married, promise him, if you really love her, it's no problem, I think you're just using his feelings, you're not sure yourself, you better reflect on how much you love him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It seems that he is very serious, and if he wants to have a relationship with you, he doesn't just have fun, if you think the same way, let him meet your parents, otherwise there is no need to reconcile.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because his request is correct, because the marriage is a matter of two people, but it also involves the parents, and both parties agree, only in this way can it become a rational choice for each family, and it is a process that must be taken.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This kind of person is not worth it, there is no trust between feelings, and he still wants to eat the scumbag in the bowl and look at the pot!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The landlord agreed to the ex-boyfriend's friend application and let the current boyfriend know that his feelings must be bad, especially delicious. You must know that Mu Tongdao's love is selfish, and Zheng Nai's defeat cannot be shared. Men have stronger self-esteem and are more exclusive.

    Even if he didn't show his true feelings on the surface, he was extremely repulsive in his heart, and he had a heavy sense of danger and trembling.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He may feel like he is green!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Wait to be trained by your boyfriend, it's hard to coax if you can't eat!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. My ex-boyfriend was like this, and in the end I broke up decisively and broke it clean.

    Is it right to let your boyfriend go and be with his ex?

    It's perfectly okay for you to say that, there is no problem, don't worry, there is no problem, bless your dear.

    The day before yesterday, I saw in his space that he went to Shenzhen to ride a roller coaster in 19 years and sent him ** and then suddenly found that the female liquid in front of him was a bit like his ex-girlfriend and asked, and then asked him Are you still in touch He said What did he say I said It doesn't matter, if you still like her, go and be with her He said am I such a person, at that moment I really feel that I don't have any feelings for him anymore He said he didn't like his ex-girlfriend anymore I said no, you have to like it He said okay I like it And then I took him back Okay Go quickly.

    I told him that you still like her, and I won't be sad if you want to be together.

    He replied with an expression that he was going to up.

    I was hoping that he would be with his ex-girlfriend, but he didn't say that.

    Communicate well, this one can't be angry, he is in a hurry to explain that there are ghosts.

    My ex-boyfriend was like this, and in the end I broke up decisively and broke it clean.

    Men are like that, it's not worth it to think about.

    It could also be the reason for his predecessor, which I think you should figure out.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It was some misunderstanding between you that broke up, and I haven't been in touch for years, but I met again by chance, and he may be in love with you now, and there are no other lovers, and he has also helped you a lot, do you still have a good impression or feeling for him? If there is still a little bit of it, you might as well try to associate with him as a friend, and after a while then see if you can not re-establish a relationship, if you really don't get along, just associate with him as an ordinary friend of the opposite sex.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He must still like you, maybe his heart is a little small, he is always afraid that you are not dedicated to her, if you are dating him, you must make him feel steady, stable, and secure, I feel that you still like him, since you like it.

    Just keep dating!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The ex-boyfriend still likes you, and after the breakup, he found another girlfriend, and he still feels good about you after the comparison, so he wants to contact you and help you want to reconcile with you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you break up, you are still willing to help you because you are still in love, because he can't let go of you, so he doesn't want to see you sad.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It still depends on the feelings, helping is not feelings, but close to feelings, get to know each other first, and see if you can improve the relationship between you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your ex-boyfriend has made it clear that he still likes you, but there are some mysteries that need to be explained, which shows that he really likes you. But.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's ultimately your choice. You have to ask yourself if you still like him and if you would like to be with him. He has made it clear to you that he still likes you and that he wants to get back together with you. So in the end, it's up to you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Helping you is not the same as liking you, it may be a kind of love from him, but it does not necessarily mean that there is a feeling of loving you now, but he feels that he still wants to help from the heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The ex-boyfriend still has you in his heart, after all, they have been together before, so he will help you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think if I help you, it means that he is still in love with his past feelings.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because he likes you, he will help you, and he will feel that it is appropriate to pay for you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's really not easy for your ex-boyfriend to be willing to help you, which means that he is not bad for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because I like someone, I am willing to pay for you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Can it be regarded as an acquaintance, although a breakup is not necessarily an enemy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello landlord, first of all, think about the reason why you broke up in the first place, who proposed it?

    If it is because of the problems of the parents, for example, he earns less, no house, no car or something, then it means that he said that you are not suitable, because he still lacks the courage, and he is afraid of passing the level of your parents, you can try to show that your own attitude and position, parents are parents, and do not represent your feelings, and at the same time give him a certain amount of self-confidence, let him believe that you will be by his side, create your own future together, and let him believe that the future is feasible.

    I don't know if it's right, I don't think your boyfriend should be particularly extroverted, and he is very good at suppressing his emotions. As the saying goes, if you spit out the truth after drinking, the more you can suppress yourself, the more real your emotions will be when you break out, and I think it is credible for him to say that he misses you when he is drunk. After waking up, he said that he didn't want you, and that you couldn't do it because reason suppressed his emotions.

    If my previous analysis of the situation is correct, then two routines, one is to show your position as I said above, saying that you will work hard with him, always accompany him, let him not worry, you believe him, and the other is that if the first plan does not work, it is better to use the agitation method, saying that you are not afraid of a woman, you have nothing to scruple about as a man, dare not face your real situation, what kind of man is it (for example, think about it yourself), give you one last chance, chase me back, After saying that, turn around and leave, if he pulls you up, or chases you out, then it means that you can reconcile, just give a hug, don't say anything, if he doesn't react at all... So persuade the landlord to give up, a man who doesn't believe in your future, has no courage, and lacks self-confidence, do you think you are trying your best to redeem it, is it still necessary?

    As for whether you want to do this and try it, it mainly depends on whether he is a good person, and a good person is more important than anything else.

    Hope it helps!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Find out from his friends why he is afraid of hurting you, if you just want to find a companion because of the emptiness now, if you are not in the mindset of playing, then you are really not suitable. Men can separate sex and love, think about it, figure it out, if love can make you don't care whether he loves you, whether he wants to marry you, whether he wants to live with you for the rest of his life, then return to him. Just let him get used to you.

    Habits are also a terrible thing.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Lost in the world to cherish the medicine that you regret can eat! Since it is separated, why be together, and if you are together, you will be separated.

    I hope you cherish your boyfriend who is good to you next time!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People have said that, why are you still pestering him?'Kicked him in one foot'Give yourself some dignity.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After reading what you said, he should feel that you are very good, if you have been together for a year, and after that year, he proposes to break up, then he is sensible, he thinks that he is not worthy of you, you will find a better boy than me, and secondly, he is still a little immature in his heart, and he can't face material differences, and he is mentally unbalanced, and in general, he still likes you, but he made a rational choice. If you want to reconcile with him, then you have to break the barrier in his heart and say, Let you face the future together, just like the point of view of "girl Shen" in (Beijing Love Story), no matter what kind of road together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Even if they are together, they will still break up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Three years of love can be thrown away in one go!

    Falling in love with other women also says that there is only good feelings! Let's stop there!

    While saying that he wouldn't be with other women, he really did everything!

    has no guilt, and is still ill-intentioned and shamelessly deceived the landlord step by step into the trap of lies!

    What's even more ridiculous is that the landlord actually believes in the well-woven nonsense!

    Shall we say that you have no heart or lungs, or are you stupid and naïve?!

    He also said that he wanted to reconcile with him! I'm also ready to accept the dog pi condition that he doesn't mention those things!

    A person who misbehaves and has a bad character does not deserve love, because they do not understand love and do not cherish it!

    What to do?! Don't tell us you're a leftover girl that no one wants!

    Don't tell us that your eyes are highly myopic and have a million degrees, just like a blind person!

    If you reconcile, let's make a conclusion here: in the future, it will be the beginning of your misfortune!

    The words are not good, but they are really good for you; If you mind, just ignore it!

    Think deeper! Please cherish!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't talk about it anymore, he treats you like a spare tire, and you can't be friends if you really like it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let go and never contact someone like that.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Leave, you will find your happiness and he is not the only man.

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