Boyfriend still cares a lot about his ex girlfriend What should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I read it carefully.

    I should be happy about these actions.

    From what he did and said.

    He can do that.

    I don't think it's easy for a guy to do so much for you.

    You also need to be moderately tolerant.

    After all, they once loved each other.

    It is inevitable that I will be very reluctant in my heart.

    But your boyfriend has chosen to be with you now.

    It proves that at least his favorite person now is you and not her.

    to her. Maybe it's just a sense of guilt.

    Be generous.

    Your boyfriend will love you more.

    No boy likes a girl to be jealous and jealous all day long.

    It's time for him to have his own space.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not your fault, love is inherently selfish.

    Since he did....Don't keep talking about it.

    It's not worth it to have a rift in your relationship because of her.

    Be sure to be happy ...... yourself

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're not stingy, you're not narrow, and women would mind as much as you do.

    You're going to have to be a smart woman to deal with this annoying ex-girlfriend, who is going too far.

    You tell your man that you care about her as long as you want, as long as you're happy, you go to see her, even if I'm a little uncomfortable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    She is already in the past tense and you are in the present continuous tense! Have a little confidence in yourself!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Caring is just once in love before.

    Understand him more. He will do the same to you...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sometimes girls are like that. After all, love is selfish. That's what happened to me.

    But I'm afraid that he will contact his former girlfriend. If they're really fine,..You should trust him.

    A certain block is to be made. But don't overdo it. That would have been a constraint for him.

    So give everyone a little space. If he really has nothing to do with her. Then he will never be with her.

    The test person believed him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Trust your boyfriend, many things are not what you think, maybe he really just sympathizes with her and has a bigger heart, so that you will be happy! If you don't believe it, why bother being together again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's okay to care about your ex-boyfriend after a breakup.

    It's just that everything is too much. If you are simply concerned, then you can greet it appropriately, so that you and the other person do not have misunderstandings. If there are other ideas on the basis of concern, it also depends on the reaction and attitude of the ex-boyfriend.

    After all, a slap can't be slapped, and a lone palm is hard to scream. So, before caring about your ex-boyfriend, ask yourself if you need to do it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After breaking up, you can still care about your ex-boyfriend, but you still have to have a certain measure, because after all, you are not a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship now, and you still have to keep a proper distance, otherwise it is easy to cause a certain misunderstanding and cause an embarrassing situation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on the actual situation when you break up with your ex-boyfriend, for example, you and your boyfriend are peacefully broken, and after the breakup, you are still continuing to date as ordinary friends, in this case, you care about him as a friend, I think this is more normal, if you break up with your boyfriend and have a big conflict, both parties are very unhappy, and there is usually no contact, in this case, it is inconvenient for you to care about your ex-boyfriend, lest he misunderstand your kindness and make both parties embarrassed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on your own mood, if you want to, you can care about him, if you don't want to, then you don't care.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, but it shouldn't. Very understanding of what you do, and very understanding of your inability to control. After all, if you love it deeply, how can you let it go easily?

    You come to Zhihu to ask this question, which fully shows that you have begun to self-reflect, and you no longer want to torture yourself like this. Actually, you have the answer in your heart, don't you?

    First of all, attention is divided into bothering and not bothering.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you break up, don't care anymore because it's not necessary.

    Your concern seems to you to be just a concern, but in his opinion, you exist and compound thoughts.

    It stirred up his hopes, but when he knew that you didn't have such thoughts, that feeling was really infuriating.

    If you don't understand this feeling, you can imagine seeing the state of despair from despair to hope and then despair again, and you will understand.

    So I hope to see this young ladies, if you don't want to get back together, then don't disturb each other's lives anymore, because boys and girls think differently, and your concern is not just about caring in his eyes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why does your ex-boyfriend care about you after a breakup? It is likely that his love for you has not been extinguished at this time, or that he has reflected on himself after your breakup. If he is not good at handling things or communicating with you, he will be accommodating to you.

    At this time, it doesn't mean that you can get back together, but it does mean that he is guilty of you and therefore willing to care for you in some way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course you can, but I don't think it's necessary, because we have already broken up, and for the sake of ourselves and each other, we should not contact each other again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why does your ex-boyfriend still care about you after he broke up? It is very likely that his love for you has not been eliminated at this time, or he has reflected on himself after you broke up, and he has not done well in handling or communicating some things, then he will have the idea of accommodating you, which does not mean that you can get back together, but it means that he feels guilty about you, so he is willing to care about you to some extent.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Only communication between people can eliminate misunderstandings and concerns between each other. If you can't be a lover, you can be a friend, and the kind of people who can often do it generally live a life full of sunshine, more cheerful, optimistic, and open-minded. Caring for others is a good character, to care for others, even the closest people once, is a kind of enjoyment, is not when you care about others, your psychology is not happy and happy?

    I think being chic can make myself and others happy, so why not? Hopefully, you've figured it out.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After breaking up, they become two people who have nothing to do with each other, and caring about the so-called ex-boyfriend will only disappoint the current one to leave.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's free, but it's better not to care too much about it, and it's annoying to save it.

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  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

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  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You still want to reunite with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to spend more energy on yourself, at this time, you must maintain a confident, beautiful and elegant posture, don't worry too much, you can tell your boyfriend bluntly, if you want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, you can break up directly, don't waste too much of your time, and definitely can't bow your head in front of his ex-girlfriend

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can choose to break up with your boyfriend because your boyfriend has not broken contact with her ex-girlfriend, and it is often sad to be in such a situation.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have to be empathetic, don't be vexatious with your boyfriend, trust your boyfriend, and make your boyfriend feel relaxed and happy with you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because it's the boyfriend I like.,So you might care about his past.,Just think that he used to be so good to a girl.,Maybe you'll feel jealous.。

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The reason why I care so much about my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is because I am jealous, and the subtle feelings that my boyfriend inadvertently shows for my ex-girlfriend will make the current one feel uncomfortable and even resentful.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Do you think your boyfriend is someone who will be with someone he doesn't like?

    If not, what are you worried about?

    Yes: Do you think your boyfriend is someone who would break up with someone he likes?

    If not, then he has nothing to do with his ex-girlfriend.

    Yes: Do you love your boyfriend?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is because he still loves his ex-girlfriend in his heart, so he cares so much, and I think girls must stay away from this kind of person once they realize that their ex-boyfriend is such a person.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When a girl has such a performance, it means that she really likes her boyfriend and really cares about her boyfriend, so she will be jealous, and when a girl is jealous, she will definitely care about her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, in fact, this is the performance of a girl's jealousy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend always comes to interfere and wants to get back together with her boyfriend, so I care about this ex-girlfriend and hope that he will go as far as he goes.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The reason why I care about each other's ex-girlfriend is nothing more than worrying that the boy will be entangled with his past relationship, which will make the girl very insecure. Many girls will have such a mind, and it is normal to not have an open-minded heart and not be able to stand it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is no harm if there is no comparison, once you find out that he doesn't love you as much as his ex-girlfriend, then you have to be careful, after all, you are not married, and the other party may withdraw at any time to eat back grass.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Girls who care about their boyfriends' ex-girlfriends have certain problems of their own. If he loves you, he won't be entangled with his ex-girlfriend, and if he is entangled with his ex-girlfriend and you are reluctant to break up, that is if you deserve it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, I feel that he has a very strong sense of existence, very powerful, but I'm afraid of my boyfriend, and then I go to his ex-girlfriend, which will definitely make me care very much.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because of love, I care, everyone is possessive, thinking that my boyfriend has been good to other girls, I will be unconsciously jealous, but I also have to look away, it's in the past.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If he often mentions it, everyone will care, afraid that his boyfriend has not let go of his previous feelings, and he is afraid that he will not be as good as his previous girlfriend, these thoughts are all there, and they may be what most girls care about.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Why do you care, everyone will care, but love is selfish, but they have broken up, you don't have to care about his ex-girlfriend, if you pretend to be angry, he will come to apologize and show that he cares about you.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Caring about his ex, it must be because your boyfriend is still in love with her. You may feel that you are inferior to your ex in his eyes. But I hope you understand. You have to conquer him with your charm.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because I was afraid that my boyfriend's old love would rekindle, I went to find my ex-girlfriend. This is a problem that every girl is worried about. That's why I care so much about my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Since you already like your boyfriend, then you don't care about some of his previous ones, including whether he has been in a relationship before, just like you, you must have talked to a few boyfriends before.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Personally, I don't care much about my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends, because they are in the past after all, so if we live our lives well, we don't have to be attached to those who are no longer necessary.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Because the girl really wants her boyfriend to have only herself in his head, and he minds having a girlfriend before, this is also a sign that the girl loves herself, and if she doesn't like her, there is no need to care about these things.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you and your boyfriend are in love right now, but you still find that he still cares about his ex-girlfriend, it means that the man still cares about his ex-girlfriend and misses his ex-girlfriend very much.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Because they have all loved each other, you don't know if your boyfriend really has feelings for her, and girls are more insecure, so they don't dare to let their boyfriend's ex-girlfriend stay with their boyfriend.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Caring so much about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend means that you are not confident, or that you don't trust your relationship enough and will only care about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend in this case.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Because my boyfriend doesn't show much love for me, I feel that he doesn't like me very much, so I will pay special attention to his ex-girlfriend and want to know if my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Maybe his ex taught her too much, and then he influenced her too much, and then I didn't want him to be influenced by his ex-girlfriend, and then that's why he made up for it on me.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Why do you care so much about your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend? I think since it's his ex-girlfriend, I don't care if they don't get in touch. If there is still a connection, of course I have to care about him.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Because sometimes their feelings are still more important in your heart, so you must still care about these many times.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Because I love my boyfriend very much, and my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are still friends and are in constant contact, I care a lot.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Although it is an ex-girlfriend, after all, they are people who once loved each other, have common memories, and are part of his life.

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