I was very unhappy and felt that there was no hope in life

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Being able to squeeze into the middle floor shows that the landlord has a certain ability. Let me, as a person at the bottom, talk about my ignorant opinions and short-sighted insights, first of all, I think: "Different classes of people have their own different problems", for example:

    Wage earners have the troubles of wage earners, and bosses have the troubles of bosses. And then: every family has its own troubles.

    Furthermore: Troubles are indispensable in life, how can you enjoy true happiness without them? Like adversity and good times, for example:

    How hard it is when you pedal your bike uphill, how tailwinding it is when you go downhill. If there is no hope for life, there are three suggestions: First, learn to play golf.

    Second, do some good deeds that are implemented. Third, cultivate a kind of taste. If you like to read, I recommend "Zizhi Tongjian".

    The contemptible opinion, the noble person thinks at his own discretion.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Think about the good in life. If it really doesn't work, fix it. Change your life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How to say it. It can only be said that you have few friends in your life.

    If you have a lot of friends, you really won't feel boring.

    You can have a good time with your husband.

    Traveling abroad or something.

    lest anything bad happen in the future.

    Solidify your love.

    And yes. Don't be unconfident at work.

    The middle level should be good.

    Something. If it's really boring, try harder to climb up.

    It's good to be happy every day.

    Boring to write some notes blog or something.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Kindness. Personal opinion. It's a matter of attitude. It has nothing to do with the environment. Moreover, with children, it is difficult to make some changes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't be discouraged, just find a rush to get busy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Everyone has a time when they are lonely and lonely, they feel bored, they feel that life is repeating yesterday's story, yes, as long as everyone will feel this way, there is nothing wrong with it. But how to face it, the result will be different, there is no hope, there is no hope because you have less contact with friends, you should go to good friends to chat, go to entertainment, change your life trajectory, life needs to add spices, so as not to feel bored, happy, happy! Bless you!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You don't have a higher and farther goal for yourself. Is it satisfying to just stay in the moment?

    Know how far you want to go...Naturally, you know what you have to do. What abilities should be cultivated? Forge ahead towards your goal. It won't be so boring.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Optimistic, hope is a beautiful thing, with hope and keep insisting that everything will be fine, I am also a freshman in college now, and I am also worried about the future, but I will always tell myself to be optimistic, and you should be the same!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is still hope in life, but the goal should not be too high, not too low, through hard work, it can be achieved.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Reading more books can not only kill loneliness, but also increase knowledge, and you must have a strict time plan.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are a lot of things to learn, and when the graduate exam is finished on January 7th, I want to accompany my family, take my grandparents out for a walk, let them relax, tired for a lifetime, alas, I still have to learn sketching, basketball, photoshop and guitar, there are a lot of things to pursue in life, but what should I do if I can't pass the exam....It's been more than 200 days.,Are you waiting for that day that makes me collapse.,Cry.,Start all over again.。。 Headache....

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's simple to have a goal and a drive.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People have to have faith in themselves

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Depressed, find a place to relax for a few days before continuing to work.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm afraid you can't afford to play with some hopes.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you have a dream? Fight for your dreams.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Either "recharge" or become a monk.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For people who really have no hope, God doesn't even bother to give him difficulties, since you are facing difficulties, it means that you are worth the struggle, you are hopeful, no one will put money on the unworthy side when gambling, just as you are because you are worthy, so the difficulties are biased in your favor For people who are idle every day, people who do not work hard, every day is the same, naturally unconscious.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then select the middle. Slowly empty your mind. Do not want to do anything.

    Don't choose joy, don't choose sadness.

    Peace of mind without any emotion.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not good to think about things in the long run, and it's not good to be brainless.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Do more good deeds.

    Does fate exist, of course, and it can be changed through our efforts. The version of "The Four Disciplines" is a kind of virtue.

    Books on the right to establish life and self-cultivation and govern the world. The author is Yuan Lifan of the Ming Dynasty, written at the age of sixty-nine, and the author tells the process of changing his fate with his own personal experience. Hit this without merit and longevity but get fame and longevity, hit without children, but have two sons, the book movie version and the TV series version are available, they can be searched on the Internet, only good and evil can break through fate, good and evil when doing everything, good increases, evil decreases, good even if it suffers temporarily, the blessing of the whole fate is increased, and it has increased a lot, and evil is just the opposite.

    If you can control everything and be good, you are not a mortal, you can cry ghosts and gods in the world, of course, this needs to be practiced slowly. The so-called cultivation of the mind and changing one's life is to cultivate this, the better the person's luck, and the fate of the extremely good person cannot be bound.

    See also The Book of Ellsworth

    You can also take a look at Mr. Chen Dahui's lectures, which can be searched on the Internet.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You go and play, play harder than he does, make him feel scared, and he goes home.

    When you take responsibility, you may train others to be people with no sense of responsibility, when you don't do it or can encourage others to praise others, others' sense of responsibility may be stimulated, and being a woman still relies on a man to make him feel that he has to be able to be a family.

    It's okay to fall on your heels, think about why you fall, think about it and get up again.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Better a finger off than always aching! Perhaps ending this marriage is the beginning of a good life?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    So what about your own life in addition to marriage, do you have a job, and you are just depressed at work, and you don't have some good emotions.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Go and vent! I also hope that your husband can be a little ambitious.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Either you have to push yourself up, or you have to suffer for a while, or you will be even more sad in the future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Communicate well, if you really can't get a divorce, the road is not dead, it is out.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The path is your own choice, hold on.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Go to ** travel, form a companion.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    For people who really have no hope, God doesn't even bother to give him difficulties, and since you are facing difficulties, it means that you are worth fighting for, and you have hope.

    When gambling, no one will put money on the unworthy party Just as you are because you are worthy, so the difficulty is biased towards you For people who are idle every day, people who don't work hard, every day is the same, naturally do not find it difficult.

    Have you been to every place in China? I didn't eat the hot dry noodles in Wuhan, I didn't eat the stinky tofu in Changsha, I didn't drink the bean juice in Beijing, and even you ate Xue Zhiqian's Shangqian, so many things that you haven't done are waiting for you to do, how can you have no hope.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Fun in life, of course, the most important thing is to give yourself creative happiness, I am not as good as you every day, but I am very happy, I take care of my son as fun, my son has a little progress every day, I will have a sense of achievement, you can find something you are interested in in boring life to try, no interest in creating interest, fun, wealth, happiness, will not patronize themselves, they will not send charcoal in the snow, will only be icing on the cake, to people who have goals, are willing to struggle, and pursue a better life.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If there is no hope in life, then life will be meaningless. People live because they see hope, so they are willing to work hard to live. Because they know that they can get by by working harder.

    You can reply to the other person like this: Life is actually full of hopes, but you haven't found out, such as your parents, such as your future life, and whether you can buy a car and house you like in the future. In fact, each of these is the hope of life.

    No matter what the conditions, we should be full of hope, only in this way, the future will be better! Life is so long, if there is no hope so early, I think, when he looks back when he is old, he will definitely regret it! Tell him to do it!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's better for people to live in the moment.

    Don't overthink everything.

    You will find that the more you think about it, the more desperate you become.

    So it's still okay to get by.

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