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Anonymous users2024-02-12AmitabhaThe sooner you do it, the better, and the best way to do it is to help the deceased do it all your life, and the first 49 days are the most critical. In addition to burning paper, you should also eat a vegetarian diet as a family, do not kill, never kill and sacrifice meat vegetables, and respectfully and sincerely recite the Amitabha Buddha number or the "Jizo Sutra" for him every day
The more the merrier. Then in his name, a large number of beings were released, doing good deeds and accumulating virtues, making offerings to the Three Jewels, and helping the deceased to cultivate blessings. Set up a tablet for the deceased in the temple and go to the deceased. At the same time, we should also dedicate the merits of doing this.
To all sentient beings and unjust creditors.
The old master --- reciting "Amitabha" to give him dedication, reciting the Buddha's merits are incredible, beyond all the methods, you will know when you read this book. So when you ask what is the most advantageous method for transcendence, there is nothing more special than "Amitabha". So you have to recite the sutras, you recite the Amitabha Sutra, or you recite the SutraAmitayusIf you don't recite the scriptures, you can recite this Buddha name to give him dedication, but you must be sincere, you must be sincere, and you will recite it for him as much as you want.
For example, if I recite 100,000 Buddha numbers to surpass him, you must recite 100,000 sounds. If you recite a million Buddha horns to surpass him, you must complete your homework in just a few hours, and this power is incredible.
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Anonymous users2024-02-111. Flower memorial:Bring a bouquet of flowers that match the personality characteristics of the deceased or pick flowers yourself to make a bouquet of flowers to pay tribute, place the flowers in the middle of the deceased's grave, and silence in front of the grave for 3 minutes, expressing your thoughts about her and the commemoration of her birthday.
2. Gift commemorative law:Make a model birthday cake, insert a candle representing the age of the deceased, write the name of the deceased, go to the grave of the deceased to commemorate the deceased's life, and sing a happy birthday song for the deceased, and burn the model cake to the deceased if allowed after the commemoration.
3. Wine:If the deceased still likes to drink some wine, you can also buy some wine that he or she liked to drink during her lifetime, bring it to the grave, pour it into the wine glass and then sprinkle it in front of the deceased's grave, pour a total of 3 glasses, sprinkle 3 times, and use wine to commemorate the deceased's birthday.
4. You can also commemorate the birthday of the deceased in the airIn this case, on the day of the deceased's birthday, a funeral platform of the deceased is set up in a different place, and relevant birthday gifts are also placed to commemorate and commemorate the deceased's birthday in the soul.
Deceased loved ones are usually worshipped on the following days:
Days associated with the ancestors.
1. The annual birthday of the ancestors (important sacrifice day).
2. The annual death day (important sacrifice day) of the ancestors
3. The seventh day after the death of the deceased (the first seven, relatively important).
4. The fourteenth day (twenty-seven) after the death of the deceased
5. The twenty-first day after the death of the ancestor (37, relatively important).
6. The twenty-eighth day after the death of the deceased (47).
7. The first month after the death of the deceased.
8. The thirty-fifth day after the death of the deceased (May 7).
9. The forty-second day (June seven) after the death of the deceased
10. The forty-ninth day after the death of the deceased (seventy-seven, relatively important).
11. The 100th day after the death of the deceased (100-day sacrifice).
Traditional worship days.
1. The thirtieth year of the lunar Chinese New Year's Eve, Chinese New Year's Eve (Chinese New Year's Eve ancestor worship, important sacrifice day).
2. The second day of the Lunar New Year (the beginning of the year to worship ancestors).
3. On the fifteenth day of the first month of the lunar calendar, the Lantern Festival (ancestor worship on the Shangyuan Festival).
4. April 5 of the Gregorian calendar, Qingming Festival (tomb sweeping and the most important sacrificial day).
5. On the fifth day of the fifth lunar month, the Dragon Boat Festival (ancestor worship).
6. On the fifteenth day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar, the midyear festival (sacrifice to ancestors).
7. On the ninth day of the ninth lunar month, the Double Ninth Festival (ancestor worship, tomb sweeping, important sacrifice day).
8. On the first day of the tenth lunar month, the ancestor festival (going to the grave and worshipping the ancestors).
9. On the first day of the tenth lunar month, the Winter Clothes Festival (to commemorate the ancestors).
10. December 22 or 23 of the Gregorian calendar, the winter solstice (ancestor worship, important sacrifice day).
11. On the eighth day of the twelfth month of the lunar calendar, Laba Festival (ancestor worship).
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Prayer for the death of the elderly:
1. The deceased has ascended to the fairy world, and the living mourn smoothly. Remember, his teachings and love will always be by your side, and your mind will always have his smiling kindness in mind. Please live more actively and happily for the sake of your relatives and friends, and let him smile proudly for you in heaven with kind and kind eyes!
2. Do your best! Listen to destiny! Everything has a beginning and an end! Whatever happens.
3. Human nature, everyone can't experience the pain of losing their loved ones, we can only pray silently for the dead in our hearts, hoping that they will live well in another paradise.
4. I know that the customs are very different in different places, but what they have in common is to express the sadness of the loss of their relatives, and I can only be thousands of miles away.
Let him bow on my behalf and lay a wreath!
5. Your loved one has passed away, don't be too sad and sad, in heaven, he won't like you to be so depressed, cheer up, work hard, for your relatives.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09In this case, the implementation process and precautions are as follows:1. If you want to find a temple that arises from fate, you can choose according to your beliefs, previous experiences, recommendations from friends, and other considerations. Once you enter the temple, find a monk and express your wishes and wishes to him, and ask him to pray for your loved ones.
If you don't know how to communicate with a monk, you can light three incense sticks in front of the incense burner first.
2. In the temple, keep quiet, avoid loud noises or fights, and also pay attention to the proper clothing of the grinding reeds, and do not wear too revealing clothing. At the same time, it is also necessary to abide by the rules of different temples.
3. Pray in the temple, not just to complete a form, you can write your own prayer text, put it on the offering table, and directly express your wishes and prayers.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Blessing is a belief that helps us better cope with loss and grief. However, praying for blessings is not a purely superstitious act, it needs to be based on reason and science.
First of all, we should respect science and the laws of nature, and not believe in superstition. Secondly, we should focus on fulfilling our own life and future, and strive to make life better for ourselves and those around us. Finally, we should cherish life and not let our own lives leave regrets.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07The prayer for the death of the old man is as follows:
1. Those who are late in the chain of death rest in peace, and the living are healthy, and may life be full of sunshine every day.
2. We should now send our most sincere wishes to the deceased, wishing him a good journey and rest in peace under the Nine Springs!
3. I will pray for you every day for the rest of my life, and we will say goodbye in this life. May you still be free in heaven, and we will be relatives in the next life. You, go all the way!
4. Go all the way, you don't have to suffer from illness in heaven anymore, all the suffering and torture have passed, and our fate in this life will be completely tied up, and we look forward to meeting in the next life!
5. Dad goes all the way, may there be no pain in heaven, rest in peace Dad, my daughter will miss you for the rest of her life!
6. Come to the shed without Li Lu and have no attachment, may you rest in peace, may you go all the way in heaven and be treated gently.
7. Shocked to learn the bad news, very sad! May Zichao rest in peace in the spirit of heaven! May the bright moon of the Mid-Autumn Festival bring my sorrows and blessings!
8. I would like to incarnate as a lamp to lead you all the way to heaven, and I would like to pray day and night to allow you to be free from illness and worry-free in your life. Grandma went all the way.
9. We should now sincerely wish the deceased, wish him a good journey and rest in peace under the nine springs!
10. A pot of wine to commemorate the remembrance of the past; A wisp of incense, pinning hope for the future. Burn incense and pray for blessings, go out to worship ancestors, send endless thoughts to the sky, and sincerely comfort the resting soul.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Two ways to handle it:
1. One is to set up a spiritual table at home, worship it, and make offerings and incense on the fifteenth day of the first year of the Zi clan;
2. The other is that after the "Seventy-Seven" memorial service of the Jijia family, the offerings, paper money, etc., were incinerated together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-051. Place the incense case, the statue of the Buddha and Bodhisattva is in the center (put the statue of the deceased in front, and the statue of the Buddha and Bodhisattva is a little higher, with at least one head higher as the standard), and put five offerings in front of it (1 incense burner in the center, insert three incense sticks; 2 vases on the left and right, three or five flowers arranged, odd number is appropriate; A pair of left and right candlesticks, inserting red candles. collectively known as the "Five Offerings").
2. Five grains (five colors of grains, such as rice, black beans, mung beans, soybeans, peanuts, etc.), five fruits (five colors of fruits such as apples, oranges, bananas, grapes, pears, etc.), three cups of tea, etc., remember not to put meat, otherwise it will damage the gods and Buddhas (because becoming a god will "not eat the fireworks of the world"), and also damage the blessing of self-contact and self-elimination.
3. If you want to do seven, you have to be at the head.
VII.III. VII.V.
If you sacrifice at these nodes of seven and seven, the content will be complicated.
It's also possible, as long as you have the heart, you can do it at any time.
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